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    Ep 59 - 75 Year Study on Happiness

    en-usJanuary 04, 2016

    Podcast Summary

    • Focus on relationships for health and happinessHarvard study reveals relationships are key to overall well-being, contrary to millennial beliefs about wealth and fame.

      According to a 75-year Harvard study, the keys to health and happiness may not be about wealth or fame, contrary to popular beliefs among millennials. The study revealed that relationships, both personal and professional, are the most significant contributors to overall well-being. So, focus on building strong connections and nurturing relationships to lead a happy and fulfilling life. Subscribe to the MWF Motivation Podcast for more insights and life-changing discussions. Remember, download our free motivational ebook, "Hack Your Goals," for additional tips on personal growth.

    • Harvard Study: Strong Relationships Key to Happiness, Health, and Long LifeHarvard study found that men with strong relationships lived happier, healthier lives and longer than those who were lonely. Loneliness shortens lives and causes health problems, affecting not only the individual but also their children and grandchildren.

      According to a 75-year study conducted by Harvard University, the key to living a happy, healthy life is not solely focused on achieving more or working harder, but rather on cultivating strong relationships. The study, which followed 724 men from their teenage years into their 90s, found that those with good relationships were happier, healthier, and lived longer than those who were lonely. The study even went on to study the men's children and grandchildren, finding that loneliness actually shortens lives and causes health problems. This 17-minute video on the Facebook page "MWF Motivation" further explores these findings and is definitely worth a watch.

    • Relationships in Middle Age Impact Health and Happiness in Old AgeMaintaining high-quality relationships throughout life contributes to emotional well-being, physical health, and brain function in old age. Poor relationships or loneliness can magnify mental and physical pain.

      The quality of our relationships at middle age is a strong predictor of our health and happiness in old age. People with good relationships at age 50 were found to be the healthiest at 80, even on days when they experienced physical pain. Conversely, those with poor relationships or who were lonely reported magnified mental and physical pain in their later years. While striving for success and wealth may not directly lead to happiness, high-quality relationships do. They not only contribute to our emotional well-being but also protect our physical health and brain function. Additionally, it's essential to maintain healthy relationships throughout our lives, as high-conflict relationships can be detrimental, even leading to negative health outcomes, in some cases, being worse than a divorce.

    • The Importance of Strong Relationships for Brain HealthStrong relationships, especially in later life, contribute to better memory function and cognitive abilities. Seek new social connections, prioritize in-person interactions, and mend family feuds for improved mental health.

      Good relationships are essential for maintaining a healthy brain and overall well-being, especially as we age. According to research, people in strong relationships, whether they be romantic or platonic, have better memory function and sharper cognitive abilities in their later years. Conversely, those who are lonely or in poor relationships experience a decline in brain function and happiness. To maximize the benefits of relationships, it's recommended to actively seek out new social connections, especially during retirement, and prioritize in-person interactions over screen time. Additionally, mending family feuds can lead to greater happiness and improved mental health. So, while we strive for personal and professional growth, let us not forget the importance of nurturing our relationships.

    • Spread positivity and loveMake someone's day better, focus on positivity, spread love, take a break, do nothing, and enjoy life

      Life is too short for negativity and conflicts. Mark Twain once said, "There isn't time for bickering, apologies, heartburns, callings to account. There's only time for loving." Instead, make it your mission to make someone else's day better. Spread positivity and love. Additionally, when we take a break from our daily routines, such as going on holiday, it's important to allow ourselves to do nothing. Soak up the sun, relax by the pool, and engage in meaningful conversations. With Expedia, you can save up to 30% when you add a hotel to your flight, giving you more money to enjoy your time off. In essence, make the most of your time, both in your daily life and during your holidays, by focusing on positivity, spreading love, and doing nothing when you need to recharge.

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