Logo
    Search

    How to Keep Your Mind Right When Everything Is Going Wrong, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO291

    enMarch 14, 2019

    Podcast Summary

    • Embodying swagger, ownership, and commitment to personal growth as a CEOSuccessful CEOs take control of their journey, dictate their terms, and inspire others, rather than relying on external resources or conforming to traditional expectations.

      Becoming a successful CEO is not about conforming to traditional expectations or relying on external resources. Instead, it's about taking control of your journey, dictating your terms, and inspiring others. The modern CEO embodies swagger, ownership, and a commitment to personal growth. This is the core of the MFCEO project, which aims to teach and inspire, rather than sell programs or seminars. A recent experience with a company that failed to deliver on a long-term order underscored the importance of being prepared and standing up for oneself. Despite the frustration, the MFCEO remains focused on the mission of empowering others to break free from limiting beliefs and achieve their goals.

    • Miscommunication and inflexibility lead to customer frustrationClear communication and flexibility are essential for maintaining customer satisfaction and loyalty. Failure to prioritize customer needs and concerns can result in negative experiences and potential loss of business.

      Effective communication and customer service are crucial in maintaining customer satisfaction and loyalty. The discussion highlights a frustrating experience where a customer tried to waive the signature requirement for an online order due to his current living situation. Despite the customer's clear communication in the comment box and repeated attempts to resolve the issue, the company canceled the order due to their policy. The back-and-forth communication between the customer and the company led to unnecessary stress and anger for the customer. This situation could have been easily avoided if the company had clear communication on their website or had promptly responded to the customer's inquiries. It's essential for businesses to prioritize their customers' needs and concerns, as poor communication and lack of flexibility can lead to negative experiences and potential loss of business.

    • Responding to challenges and setbacksChoose to remain calm and positive despite setbacks, focusing on our reactions instead of blaming external circumstances or others.

      How we respond to the challenges and setbacks we face can significantly impact not only ourselves but also those around us. On days when everything seems to go wrong, we have a choice: we can let our emotions take over and spread negativity, or we can take responsibility for our reactions and choose to remain calm and positive. Remember, none of us are perfect, and even on our best days, we may still encounter difficulties. So, instead of blaming external circumstances or others, focus on our own reactions and strive to maintain a positive attitude, even when things don't go as planned. This not only benefits us but also those around us, creating a more productive and harmonious environment.

    • Transforming Negativity into OpportunitiesRecognize the importance of managing negativity and using it as fuel for productivity and success. Adopt a long-term perspective and turn potential setbacks into stepping stones.

      Our actions and words, even if unintended, can have long-term consequences. The first type of person lets negativity consume them, leading to damaged relationships and a self-fulfilling prophecy of being seen as unapproachable. The second type of person recognizes the importance of managing negativity and using it as fuel for productivity and success. The key is to adopt a long-term perspective and transform inconveniences into opportunities for growth. By focusing on becoming successful enough to delegate the sources of negativity, we can turn potential setbacks into stepping stones.

    • Choosing to Control Our Emotions and ActionsBy taking control of our emotions and actions, we can avoid reacting negatively to external circumstances and instead use them as opportunities for growth. Honest self-assessment and proactive decision-making are crucial to building the life we desire.

      Our emotions and actions have a ripple effect on those around us. We have the choice to let external circumstances dictate our mood and actions, or to take control and make conscious decisions that push us forward. It's essential to take an honest inventory of who we are now and identify the changes necessary to reach our goals, rather than focusing solely on the end result. By being proactive and taking control of our emotions and actions, we can avoid reacting negatively to external circumstances and instead use them as opportunities for growth. Ultimately, the ability to control our emotions and take responsibility for our actions is key to building the life we desire.

    • Shift from hoping to knowingTaking control of your days and addressing current self leads to turning dreams into reality. Listen to 75 Hard Podcast for personal growth and discipline.

      Becoming the person you aspire to be is less about visualizing your goals and more about addressing your current self and taking action to become the person you need to be. It's the difference between hoping and knowing you'll achieve your goals. This mindset shift is crucial for turning dreams into reality. The speaker emphasizes the importance of taking control of your days, especially when they seem out of control. He also recommends checking out the 75 Hard Podcast for a program that can help build the necessary discipline and character to be in control. The focus is not on physical fitness, but on personal growth and developing the foundation for success in all areas of life. If you're truly committed to change, the speaker encourages you to listen to the podcast and follow the program to transform into a better version of yourself.

    Recent Episodes from REAL AF with Andy Frisella

    734. Andy, Tim Young & DJ CTI: Supreme Court Dismisses Social Media Censorship Case, Congressional Report Shows Interference & Brutal Killing Of Jocelyn Nungaray

    734. Andy, Tim Young & DJ CTI: Supreme Court Dismisses Social Media Censorship Case, Congressional Report Shows Interference & Brutal Killing Of Jocelyn Nungaray

    In today's episode, Andy and DJ are joined in the studio by comedian Tim Young. They discuss the Supreme Court's dismissal of the Social Media Censorship case, the congressional report that showed interference in 2020, and what we know about the 2 Venezuelan men accused of killing 12-year-old Jocelyn Nungaray.

    732. Andy, Vaughn Kohler & DJ CTI: Trump-Biden Debates, Julian Assange Avoids Setting Foot On US Mainland & Alex Jones' Bankruptcy

    732. Andy, Vaughn Kohler & DJ CTI: Trump-Biden Debates, Julian Assange Avoids Setting Foot On US Mainland & Alex Jones' Bankruptcy

    In today's episode, Andy & DJ are joined in the studio by the translucent Pastor of Disaster, Vaughn Kohler. They discuss the upcoming Trump and Biden debates, Julian Assange dropping $500k for a flight to a remote island to avoid setting foot on the US mainland, and a bankruptcy court trustee filing a motion to liquidate Alex Jones' Infowars.

    726. Andy & DJ CTI: GOP Calls Out 51 Intel Officials Over Hunter Laptop, Biden And Zelensky To Ink 10-Year Deal For U.S. Military Support & Spokane Pride Crosswalk Vandalized

    726. Andy & DJ CTI: GOP Calls Out 51 Intel Officials Over Hunter Laptop, Biden And Zelensky To Ink 10-Year Deal For U.S. Military Support & Spokane Pride Crosswalk Vandalized

    In today's episode, Andy & DJ discuss the GOP calling out 51 intel officials over Hunter Biden's laptop, President Biden and Zelensky to ink a 10-year deal for U.S. military support for Ukraine, and Spokane pride's crosswalk being vandalized days after teens were charged with felonies for leaving scooter skid marks on the rainbow pavement.

    Related Episodes

    I Know I Should Cut Ties With My Parents but I Feel Guilty

    I Know I Should Cut Ties With My Parents but I Feel Guilty
    Are you ready for today’s show? We’re talking to a pregnant mom who feels guilty because she’s disappointed about having another boy, a couple who isn’t enjoying living with their unstable brother-in-law, and a woman who wants to cut ties with her convict parents but doesn’t know how. Am I allowed to grieve the fact that I’m pregnant with a boy instead of a girl? My brother-in-law lives with us and it's been a nightmare I know I should cut ties with my parents but I feel guilty Lyrics of the Day: "All Too Well (10 Minute Version) (Taylor's Version) (From The Vault)" - Taylor Swift Let us know what’s going on by leaving a voicemail at 844.693.3291 or visiting johndelony.com/show. Support Our Sponsors: BetterHelp DreamCloud Churchill Mortgage Resources: Questions for Humans Conversation Cards Redefining Anxiety Quick Read John’s Free Guided Meditation Listen to all The Ramsey Network podcasts anytime, anywhere in our app. Download at: https://apple.co/3eN8jNq These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately.

    E8: Advice from Elon Musk, Warren Buffet and Steve Jobs

    E8: Advice from Elon Musk, Warren Buffet and Steve Jobs
    In this Chapter, I discuss how I get into the right frame of mind just before a any big moment in my life, why it's so important for me to push my ego aside in order to win and the advice from some of my mentors that has helped shape the person I am today Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    Happiness Lessons of The Ancients: Epictetus

    Happiness Lessons of The Ancients: Epictetus

    Epictetus was born into slavery and beaten until he was lame... but he became one of Ancient Rome's greatest thinkers by accepting every setback as an opportunity to learn and grow.

    Philosophy professor Bill Irvine joins Dr Laurie Santos to delve into Stoicism - an ancient school of thought which urges us to reframe how we view the problems we all face and defuse the negative emotions of anger and envy that can be so harmful to our happiness.

    Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Don't Let Someone Setup Shop in Your Head... DO THE WORK #532

    Don't Let Someone Setup Shop in Your Head... DO THE WORK #532

    DO THE WORK PODCAST:

    A dailyish documentary of my life blending together fatherhood, business, organization, and life hacking to make it all work.  

     

    Produced by podcaster, entrepreneur and dad of three daughters - Diego Footer.

     

    My Podcasts:

    Farm Small, Farm Smart: http://bit.ly/2vMUDvX

    Grass Fed Life: http://bit.ly/2uOsLTH

    Voices of Change: http://bit.ly/2vrn81r

     

    My Audiobooks:

    The Market Gardener by JM Fortier: http://bit.ly/2uynxvU

    The Urban Farmer by Curtis Stone:  http://bit.ly/2uynxvU

     

    My Business:

    Paperpot Transplanter: http://www.paperpot.co

     

    Support content I have created:

    http://www.permaculturevoices.com/support

     

    Support while you shop at Amazon:

    http://amzn.to/2yu1zPj