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    • The Power of Perseverance in JournalismPersistence and dedication can lead to uncovering important stories and shedding light on significant issues, despite past barriers and challenges

      Persistence and dedication can lead to telling important stories that might have been overlooked for a long time. Connie Walker, a journalist with a remarkable career, shares how she faced barriers in the past when trying to cover stories about indigenous communities. However, she didn't give up and continued her work, eventually finding success in sharing stories that matter. Recently, she reported on the discovery of the remains of over 200 children at a residential school in Canada, which brought attention to the dark history of residential schools and their impact on indigenous communities. This story highlights the importance of perseverance and the power of journalism to shed light on significant issues.

    • Recognizing past traumas' truth can impact individuals and communitiesLearning about past traumas can be a heavy burden, prompting action and attention from individuals and communities.

      Acknowledging and recognizing the truth about past traumas, such as the residential school experience in Canada, can have a profound impact on those affected and their communities. The speaker shares her personal experience of learning about her father's experience at a residential school and how this newfound knowledge felt like a burning hot coal in her hands, urging her to take action. The recognition of these truths can lead to a wave of survivors coming forward to share their stories, and for families to learn more about their past. The speaker emphasizes that this acknowledgement is not just a small revelation, but a heavy burden that requires action and attention.

    • Uncovering the truth about past eventsDifficult process to reveal past abuse and power dynamics, especially when no witnesses exist. 'Stolen Surviving Saint Michaels' podcast sheds light on these stories and brings accountability.

      That uncovering the truth about past events, especially those involving abuse and power dynamics, can be a complex and layered process. The first episode of the podcast "Stolen Surviving Saint Michaels" shares the story of a man, the speaker's father, who encountered a priest who had abused him in residential school. The father, who was a police officer, confronted the priest and beat him up. The speaker, Connie Walker, discovered this story later in life and it changed her perspective on her past. The story highlights how difficult it can be to uncover the truth about past events, especially when they involve powerful figures and there are no witnesses. The podcast series aims to shed light on these stories and bring accountability.

    • The speaker's connection to her family, especially her father and siblings, is complexThe speaker explores her relationship with her father and siblings, discovering shared moments and a desire for understanding despite differences in upbringing and age.

      The speaker's connection to her family, particularly her father and siblings, is complex and multifaceted. The road named after her father, Constable Cameron, leads to the reserve where her sister, also named Constable Cameron, and her father live. The speaker didn't know her father well growing up and would stay with her godparents during visits. When she returned as a teenager, she found her father had remarried and had more children. One of these siblings, Hal, shares a strong resemblance and easygoing nature with their father. However, the speaker's relationship with Hal is limited due to their age difference and different upbringings. Despite this, they share moments of connection, such as sweetgrass picking and sitting by the fire, which highlight the speaker's desire to understand and reconnect with her family history.

    • Memories of a Violent FatherThe speaker's relationship with her father was marked by trauma and distance, leaving her conflicted about his past actions and potential abuse.

      The speaker's relationship with her father was marked by trauma and distance. She shares memories of his violent behavior and the fear it instilled in her. However, a story her friend Hal shared about her father pulling over a priest who had abused him in residential school leaves the speaker feeling conflicted. While Hal feels pride in this instance of justice being taken into their own hands, the speaker feels sick, as she connects the priest to the abusive father she knew. The story raises questions about the father's past and potential abuse the speaker experienced, but she keeps her distance from him, unable to reconcile her memories of his violence with the possibility of his own trauma.

    • Residential schools focused on assimilation and cultural genocideThousands of indigenous children suffered physical and sexual abuse in residential schools, leading to intergenerational trauma and cultural genocide

      Residential schools in Canada, which operated for over a century, were not focused on education but rather on assimilation and cultural genocide. Thousands of indigenous children were forcibly taken from their families and communities, often experiencing physical and sexual abuse at the hands of priests and nuns. The last residential school closed in 1996, but the truth about the horrors that occurred within their walls began to emerge in 2008 through the Truth and Reconciliation Commission. The commission found that the forced assimilation and abuse experienced in residential schools amounted to cultural genocide. Recently, the discovery of the remains of 215 children on the grounds of the Kamloops Indian Residential School brought international attention to this issue. The impact of residential schools was felt deeply by generations of indigenous people, including the speaker's father, who was sexually abused by a priest. Despite extensive reporting on the subject, there is still much that is unknown about individual schools and stories like the speaker's father's. The legacy of residential schools remains an open secret that is rarely discussed.

    • A woman's quest for understanding her father's pastThrough exploring her father's past, a woman finds solace and support from her family, despite the pain and discomfort it brings up.

      The speaker is on a journey to understand her father's past and the impact it had on their relationship. She is haunted by the memory of a priest who abused her father, but has only a vague image of him in her mind. The speaker's father passed away before she had a chance to reconnect with him, and she now feels that there may be an opportunity to learn more about their shared history. However, this journey will bring up painful memories for not only herself, but also for her family. The speaker seeks their help and permission to uncover the truth, and finds solace in the company of her aunts, who act as caretakers for their family's history. Despite her discomfort with her own unruly hair, she finds comfort in the familiarity of her family and their shared experiences.

    • Families harbor complex stories, coping through humorDespite painful pasts, families find resilience and unique ways to cope, like using humor to heal.

      Families hold complex stories, some of which may be painful or difficult to discuss. The speaker shares an anecdote about her father and uncle's argument, which involved physical violence, and how her family has learned to cope with the past through humor. Her father, who joined the Royal Canadian Mounted Police, had a period in his life that the speaker knows little about, and a photo of him in uniform resurfaced online, sparking questions and curiosity. He never discussed the details of the incident, and the family members affected by residential school experiences often keep their painful memories to themselves. Despite the challenges, the speaker finds a way to share her story with a smile, illustrating the resilience and unique coping mechanisms of her Cree community.

    • Impact of unaddressed past traumas on present emotions and relationshipsAcknowledging and discussing past traumas is crucial for healing and understanding the complexities of one's own story and that of their loved ones.

      Unexplored past experiences, especially those involving trauma, can significantly impact one's present emotions and relationships. The speaker shared her experiences of growing up with an abusive father and the lingering effects it had on her life. She discovered that her father had a complex past, including experiences at a residential school, which she and her family had never discussed. The speaker realized that by not sharing these stories, they were perpetuating the cycle of trauma and suffering in silence. The importance of acknowledging and discussing past traumas was emphasized as a crucial step towards healing and understanding the complexities of one's own story and that of their loved ones. The speaker felt a sense of connection and rediscovery as she learned more about her family's history and her father's past.

    • Impact of Residential Schools on Indigenous FamiliesThe podcast 'Stolen, Surviving Saint Michael's' reveals the devastating impact of residential schools on Indigenous families, the long-lasting effects of intergenerational trauma, and the ongoing efforts to seek justice and healing.

      Learning from the podcast "Stolen, Surviving Saint Michael's" is the devastating impact of residential schools on Indigenous families and the long-lasting effects of intergenerational trauma. The story follows Connie Walker as she investigates the allegations of sexual abuse against a priest at Saint Michael's Indian Residential School in Saskatchewan. The podcast sheds light on the experiences of survivors and their families, who were robbed of their childhoods and left to grapple with the aftermath. The podcast also explores the intersection of residential schools and the church, and the ongoing efforts to seek justice and healing. It's a poignant reminder of the importance of acknowledging and addressing the dark history of residential schools and the ongoing impact on Indigenous communities. The podcast is a powerful testament to the resilience and strength of survivors and their families, and a call to action for all of us to learn from the past and work towards a better future.

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