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    • Our society's interconnected issues of unhappiness, depression, and anxiety are deeply rootedOur culture's focus on individual success, rather than meeting our natural needs for belonging, meaning, purpose, and future, contributes to a growing mental health crisis.

      Our society is facing interconnected issues of unhappiness, depression, and anxiety, which are not just in our brains but also deeply rooted in our society. According to Johan Hari, author of "Lost Connections," our culture has gotten some fundamental things wrong, leading to a crisis in psychological needs. We have natural needs for belonging, meaning, purpose, and a sense of future, and our culture, despite its advancements, is becoming less effective at meeting these needs. This is evidenced by the growing depression, anxiety, and addiction crisis. On a practical level, tools like Wise and Viator can help manage finances and plan travels, respectively, while also promoting connections and experiences. On a larger scale, it's essential to question and address the societal structures that contribute to our collective unhappiness.

    • Loneliness: A Significant Environmental Cause of Depression and AnxietyLoneliness, a state of social disconnection, can lead to depression and anxiety due to our evolutionary need for companionship. Research shows that feelings of loneliness don't always correlate with the number of social interactions one has.

      Depression and anxiety have scientifically identified causes, both biological and environmental. One of the most significant environmental factors is loneliness, which can lead to these mental health issues due to our evolutionary need to be part of a cooperative tribe. Loneliness is not just a feeling, but a state of social disconnection. Interestingly, the number of social interactions one has does not necessarily correlate with feelings of loneliness. For instance, being in a crowd or having easy access to help can still leave one feeling lonely. Research has shown that people who feel lonely experience more micro awakenings during sleep, which may be a result of our ancestors' need to stay alert when they were separated from their tribes. The Hutterites, a community that lives in isolation with minimal social interaction, experience few micro awakenings, demonstrating that loneliness is not an inherent human condition, but a result of certain ways of living.

    • Exploring alternative living arrangements for collective happinessResearch shows that focusing on individual happiness through self-help doesn't align with human instincts and can lead to societal loneliness. To combat this, we need to consider alternative living arrangements and reevaluate cultural values towards collective happiness and mutual aid.

      Mutual aid, not just being surrounded by people, is what heals human loneliness. The research by Dr. Brett Ford and her colleagues revealed that in the United States, people focus on individual happiness by doing things for themselves, while in other countries, people prioritize collective happiness by helping others. This individualistic vision of happiness doesn't align with our species' instincts and can contribute to societal loneliness. Despite the prevalence of loneliness, communal living arrangements like kibbutzes and communes have not gained widespread acceptance. The reasons for this could be the deep-rooted cultural values that prioritize individualism and the lack of support structures for such living arrangements. To address the crisis of loneliness, it's crucial to explore alternative living arrangements and reevaluate our cultural values towards collective happiness and mutual aid.

    • Community gardens as a solution to combat depression and anxietyCommunity gardens can improve mental health, foster community, and be more effective than medication for combating depression and anxiety. Creating opportunities for social connection and engagement with nature can help counteract societal trends towards isolation.

      Addressing the deep-rooted issues of loneliness and disconnection from both people and nature can be more effective in combating depression and anxiety than relying solely on medication. Dr. Sam Eberington, a doctor in East London, recognized this and started a community garden project for his patients. This initiative not only improved mental health but also fostered a sense of community and problem-solving among participants. Research shows that this approach is more effective than chemical antidepressants. However, understanding why we're becoming increasingly isolated and lacking meaningful connections is a complex issue. It may be related to the nature of the economy and other societal factors. To counteract this trend, we can strive to create more opportunities for social connection and engagement with nature, such as community gardens, volunteer work, or simply spending time in natural environments.

    • The Negative Impact of Extrinsic Values on Mental Health and RelationshipsConstant pursuit of money and status can hinder joy, fulfillment, and flow states, leading to negative mental health and unsatisfying relationships.

      Our constant pursuit of extrinsic values, such as money and status, can negatively impact our mental health and relationships. According to professor Tim Kasser, extrinsic values suppress our ability to experience flow states, which are natural antidepressants. Furthermore, relationships driven by extrinsic values can lead to insecurity and dissatisfaction. This is because people become focused on external validation and comparison to others, rather than finding joy and fulfillment in the present moment. The ancient philosophers, including Confucius, have long warned against this way of living, but it wasn't until professor Kasser's research that the negative effects of extrinsic values were scientifically proven. To lead happier and more fulfilling lives, it's important to balance intrinsic and extrinsic values and focus on what brings us joy and meaning in the present moment.

    • Focus on Extrinsic Values Increasing Since 1970sDespite not needing a toy, children chose it over a nice boy due to societal pressure. Prioritize intrinsic values like kindness and personal growth over external validation.

      Our society's focus on extrinsic values, such as material possessions and external validation, has been increasing since the 1970s, as shown in a study where children chose a nasty boy with a toy over a nice boy without, despite not needing the toy. This dynamic is prevalent in our culture, leading many people to prioritize work over relationships and personal growth. However, it's essential to recognize that values are not just personal, but also shaped by the context we're in. In today's world, with continuous feedback through social media, it's challenging to resist the pressure to conform to external expectations and prioritize intrinsic values like kindness, connection, and personal growth. The key to navigating this dynamic is becoming aware of it and making a conscious effort to prioritize what truly matters to us.

    • Values shaped by social environmentOur obsession with extrinsic values, like social media and gaming, may be attempts to meet deeper needs not being met in our real lives.

      Our values are shaped by our social environment more than we may realize. Values that seem innate can be influenced by our upbringing and the culture we live in. The speaker shares an interesting experience from an Internet rehab center where patients, often young men, become obsessed with multiplayer role-playing games. These games provide a sense of identity, tribe, and status that may be lacking in their real lives. The speaker draws a comparison between the relationship between social media and social life and the relationship between porn and sex, suggesting that our obsession with extrinsic values may be an attempt to meet deeper needs that aren't being met in our real lives. The speaker also notes that these highly social games tap into ancient ways of organizing life, providing a sense of community and purpose that some people may struggle to find in their normal lives.

    • Games as a critique of modern life and a response to social disconnectionGames offer an escape for individuals, particularly young people, from social isolation, but reliance on virtual worlds may lead to deeper psychological issues if underlying social problems are not addressed. Addressing unmet social needs can help prevent people from seeking impromptu solutions like immersive games or opioids.

      The rise of immersive digital games, with their narrative architectures and addictive qualities, can be seen as a critique of modern life and a response to the collapse of social connection and community. These games provide an escape for individuals, particularly young people, who spend less time outdoors and interacting face-to-face. However, this reliance on virtual worlds may lead to deeper psychological issues if the underlying social problems are not addressed. An example from Cambodia illustrates this, where a farmer's depression was cured by providing him with a cow and allowing him to become a dairy farmer, addressing his unmet social needs. The World Health Organization has emphasized that many mental health issues are responses to unmet needs and social problems. If we fail to address these issues, people may seek impromptu solutions, including disappearing into virtual worlds or turning to anesthetics like opioids. The success of companies like Vox, despite getting many things wrong, underscores the importance of hiring the right people to navigate these complex challenges.

    • Streamlining the hiring process with ZipRecruiterZipRecruiter helps employers find quality candidates efficiently, with 80% finding one within a day. It also ensures strong applications aren't overlooked.

      Hiring the right people is crucial for business success. ZipRecruiter simplifies this process by identifying and inviting potential candidates with the right experience. The platform's efficiency is proven, with 80% of employers finding a quality candidate within one day. Additionally, ZipRecruiter highlights strong applications to ensure employers don't miss potential great hires. As for the author's personal experience, his research for his book, "Chasing the Scream," led him to question the commonly held belief that addiction is caused solely by chemical imbalances. His discovery that this isn't the case came from observing the rare absence of addiction among hospital patients in Britain, who are given medically pure heroin for pain relief. This revelation led him to reconsider his understanding of addiction and the importance of looking beyond simplistic explanations. In essence, whether it's hiring the right employees or understanding complex issues like addiction, it's essential to delve deeper and not rely on surface-level explanations.

    • Rats' behavior influenced by environment in Rat Park studyEnvironment and social factors impact behavior, but not everyone in ideal circumstances is immune to addiction

      The environment and social factors significantly impact an organism's behavior, as shown in the Rat Park study where rats preferred the normal water when living in an enriched environment. However, it's essential to consider the limitations of this study and its applicability to human addiction, as not everyone living in seemingly ideal circumstances is immune to addiction. The discussion also touched upon the importance of questioning societal norms and recognizing that people may have everything they want but still feel unhappy or unfulfilled. Ultimately, the conversation emphasized the complexity of addiction and the need for a holistic understanding of the issue.

    • Biological, Psychological, and Social Causes of Depression and AnxietyDepression and anxiety result from a complex interplay of biological, psychological, and social factors, not just one or the other.

      Depression and anxiety can stem from a combination of biological, psychological, and social causes. While there may be some cases of "endogenous depression" with no apparent cause, the consensus in the scientific community is that this is a small percentage of all mental health issues. Biological factors, such as genes and brain changes, can increase sensitivity to stressors and make individuals more prone to depression and anxiety. However, these factors do not cause the conditions on their own. Instead, they interact with psychological and social factors. Chemical hooks, or physical addictions, are also real and can contribute to substance use disorders. However, they are not the primary driver of mental health issues, as many addicts can exhibit strong psychological and social motivations for their behaviors despite the absence of chemical hooks. It's essential to recognize the complexity of mental health conditions and approach treatment with a holistic perspective.

    • Personal predispositions and societal factors impact mental healthIndividual experiences with anxiety and lack of addiction to substances highlight personal differences, while societal interventions like universal basic income can reduce depression and anxiety cases.

      While societal factors and environment play a role in mental health issues like depression and anxiety, personal predispositions also play a significant role. The speaker shares their personal experiences of dealing with anxiety and lack of addiction to substances, highlighting individual differences. The discussion also touches upon the experiment in Canada during the 1970s, where a universal basic income led to a notable reduction in depression and anxiety cases. The speaker emphasizes that while this social intervention was effective, it could have potentially had a larger impact. Overall, the conversation suggests that both societal changes and individual support can contribute to better mental health outcomes.

    • Challenging societal norms for better mental healthUniversal Basic Income and democratic cooperatives can help alter societal norms, leading to improved mental health and well-being through increased financial security and autonomy.

      Our society's current functioning, which can lead to high levels of anxiety and depression due to lack of financial security and dissatisfaction with work, is not a given. Solutions like Universal Basic Income (UBI) and democratic cooperatives can help alter this societal norm. The book discussed in the conversation criticizes certain aspects of capitalism and its impact on mental health, particularly the control felt at work, which can lead to depression and even heart attacks. Michael Marmot's research shows that it's not the work itself that causes depression but the feeling of being controlled at work. People like Meredith and Josh in Baltimore took matters into their own hands by setting up a democratic cooperative, Baltimore Bicycle Works, where they have more control over their work and their lives. This change not only improved their mental health but also led to a successful business. It's essential to challenge the status quo and strive for societal changes that prioritize individuals' well-being and autonomy.

    • Democratic workplaces lead to increased productivity, efficiency, and overall happinessCollective decision-making, profit sharing, and equitable distribution of tasks in democratic workplaces can lead to increased productivity, efficiency, and overall happiness for employees, but societal and psychological barriers hinder their widespread adoption

      Democratic workplaces, such as cooperatives, can lead to increased productivity, efficiency, and overall happiness for employees. These workplaces allow for collective decision-making, profit sharing, and a more equitable distribution of tasks. However, despite their advantages, democratic workplaces have not yet taken over the economy on a large scale. This may be due to powerful vested interests that keep traditional corporate structures in place. One example of a successful democratic workplace is a bike cooperative in Baltimore, where workers make decisions together and share the good and bad tasks. However, scaling up these individual success stories can be challenging. A paint store worker named Joe, who was interviewed for the book, found his job soul-destroying and developed an addiction to oxycodone to numb himself. Despite wanting to pursue his passion for fishing and become a fishing guide, he couldn't bring himself to leave his current job due to societal pressures and a belief that he needed more material possessions to be happy. This illustrates the deeper societal and psychological barriers that prevent the widespread adoption of democratic workplaces.

    • Our brains may not be naturally wired for long-term happinessOur brains have been designed to create dissatisfaction, making it challenging to find lasting happiness from material possessions and status.

      Our brains may not be naturally wired for long-term happiness due to deep-rooted mental programming. The constant pursuit of material possessions and status, as seen in the case of Joe, can distract us from what truly makes us happy. This is related to the broader mystery of why we often fail to act on things we know would bring us joy, despite being aware of them. Robert Wright's book, "Why Buddhism is True," argues that our brains have been designed to create dissatisfaction, which can explain why we may not find lasting happiness from the things we acquire. This mental programming, which has existed since ancient times, influences the paths societies take and makes it challenging to implement solutions. The research into psychedelics, such as psilocybin, offers promising results in helping individuals recognize and overcome their mental programming, but it requires acknowledging the inherent challenges in changing deeply ingrained patterns.

    • Exploring the spiritual effects of psychedelic drugsPsychedelic drugs can lead to profound spiritual experiences, aiding in addiction and depression recovery. However, their unpredictability makes controlled research difficult, and societal challenges complicate their use.

      The use of psychedelic drugs like psilocybin can lead to significant spiritual experiences and positive outcomes, particularly in addiction and depression recovery. The intensity of these experiences varies from person to person, and those with more intense experiences tend to have longer-lasting recovery. However, the challenge with this research is the difficulty of having a control group due to the unpredictability of the drug's effects. The spiritual learning experiences provided by these drugs can teach valuable lessons about connection and egalitarianism, but they may not be easily compatible with certain societal structures. The debate around the use of these drugs should consider the potential benefits, as well as the societal and individual challenges they present. It's important to acknowledge the psychological component of mental health issues, and while cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) can provide some relief, it may not be a long-term solution. Ultimately, addressing the root causes of unhappiness and mental health issues requires societal change, not just individual coping mechanisms.

    • Challenges in aligning societal structures with human needsDespite the need for societal structures to align with human needs, deep-rooted psychological tendencies and capitalistic systems hinder progress. Radical change, like at Burning Man, can provide a solution but requires a deep understanding and reconstruction of our thought processes and societal structures.

      Our current societal structures and capitalistic systems may not align with human needs and happiness, leading to hard problems that seem insurmountable. These issues are deeply ingrained in our psyches, making it challenging to implement solutions. For instance, our obsession with status and fitting into our tribes can make it difficult to adopt alternatives. The example given was the radical reconstruction of a society, like at Burning Man, where people are disconnected from their phones and other modern distractions, allowing them to feel calmer and more focused. However, this level of radical change is not an easy fix, and it requires a deep understanding and reconstruction of our thought processes and societal structures.

    • Societal structures contribute to high rates of depression and anxietyPeople instinctively understand the need to address root causes of depression beyond chemical imbalances, towards community-focused, intrinsically fulfilling ways of living

      Our current societal structures, including the emphasis on extrinsic values and the dominance of corporations over cooperatives, contribute significantly to the high rates of depression and anxiety. The solutions, as proposed in the book, are not simple or politically prescriptive, but rather a compass direction towards a more community-focused, intrinsically fulfilling way of living. The author acknowledges the challenges, but remains optimistic, emphasizing that people instinctively understand the need for addressing the root causes of depression in their lives, rather than being told it's solely a chemical imbalance in their brains. This perspective is not only less stigmatizing but also more empowering for individuals to seek help and support in making meaningful changes.

    • Societal structures prioritizing profit leave people drained and disconnectedWe need to address societal issues at their root causes, not just treat symptoms with monetized solutions

      Our current societal structures, driven by the profit motive, can leave people feeling exhausted and disconnected. The average person works long hours, has limited vacation time, and is often too drained to consider fighting for changes like democratizing their workplaces or advocating for universal basic income. The labor movement, which could have helped enhance ordinary Americans' lives, was destroyed through powerful propaganda campaigns from the top. The focus on individual mental health issues, like anxiety, depression, and addiction, often overlooks the wider social causes of these issues. The profit-driven society only looks for monetized solutions, neglecting the importance of nature, psychedelics, and other non-monetized methods in reducing depression and anxiety. In essence, we need to broaden our perspective and address the root causes of societal issues, rather than just treating the symptoms.

    • Understanding Depression: Beyond Brain Chemistry and MedicationExploring the societal and financial influences shaping our understanding of mental health, particularly depression, and the importance of considering nature's role in alleviating it. Three recommended books offer valuable insights: 'A Paradise Built in Hell', 'Hope in the Dark', and 'This Changes Everything'.

      Our current understanding and approach to mental health issues, particularly depression, may be incomplete and distorted due to societal and financial influences. The evidence suggests that exposure to the natural world can help reduce depression, but this aspect of the story is often overlooked because there's less financial gain in promoting it compared to focusing on brain chemistry imbalances and medication. This distortion in the narrative can hinder our ability to truly understand and address the root causes of our pain. Three books that provide valuable insights and perspectives on this topic are "A Paradise Built in Hell" by Rebecca Solnit, "Hope in the Dark" also by Rebecca Solnit, and "This Changes Everything" by Naomi Klein. These books explore various aspects of human nature and societal issues, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging both the dark and beautiful aspects of our existence. They offer valuable perspectives on how we can hold onto the positive moments and work towards creating a better society in response to the challenges we face. Additionally, "Manufacturing Consent" by Noam Chomsky and Ed Herman provides insights into how our consciousness is constructed and how it can be influenced in ways that may not be immediately clear to us. These books can help us gain a more holistic understanding of our mental health and the world around us.

    • Understanding societal conditioning and its impact on mental healthNoam Chomsky's work in linguistics reveals how deeply ingrained societal beliefs can negatively impact mental health, often obscuring the role of societal structures in causing distress.

      The ideas of Noam Chomsky, particularly his work in linguistics, have profound implications for understanding mental health and the role of societal propaganda in shaping our thoughts and behaviors. Chomsky's analysis of how we've been conditioned to accept certain beliefs, even if they're detrimental to our wellbeing, can help us recognize the social causes of mental health issues that we might otherwise overlook. For instance, the belief that individual problems are solely our responsibility, rather than recognizing the societal structures that contribute to our distress, can be a major barrier to understanding and addressing mental health challenges. The speaker, Johan Hari, emphasizes that reading Chomsky helped him gain insights into his own experiences of depression and anxiety, and how deeply ingrained societal beliefs can impact our mental health. Overall, this discussion underscores the importance of critically examining societal narratives and considering the potential impact of these beliefs on our mental wellbeing.

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    [00:01:48] - Gregg Henriques discusses the Enlightenment gap and the need for a new worldview. He emphasizes that the Enlightenment's traditional approach to understanding the world is no longer sufficient for today's complex realities.
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    [00:07:05] - Emphasis on the importance of a comprehensive theory of both matter and physicists' understanding of matter, reflecting on the essential connection between scientific understanding and the physical world.
    [00:09:22] - The conversation shifts to how our technologies are now engaging us in a complex adaptive dynamic interface; how digital technologies are shaping our world and the way we interact with it.
    [00:13:30] - Henriques introduces the idea of a new digital space as a bridge between energy, matter, life, and mind, shedding light on the potential of digital technologies to forge new connections and understandings between different aspects of our world.
    [00:15:18] - Henriques explains his agnostic position, rejecting fundamentalism and acknowledging the concept of God as having real-world consequences. 
    [00:22:33] Gregg shares a visual of the first meta-argument and levels of emergence and emanation. He discusses the concept of combogenesis, a process identified by Tyler Volk as a specific kind of leveling process that results in part-whole relations, illuminating the process by which simple elements combine to form complex wholes.
    [00:30:05] - Dr. John Vervaeke discusses the concept of irreducible complexity and interdependence in life. He emphasizes that the parts of a living thing cannot exist independently from the whole. He appreciates the Aristotelian systematicity of the classification, which aligns with the topics and fields in science.
    [00:35:16] - Henriques introduces the second meta-argument and the concept of axiological commitments. He discusses how our epistemology and ontology can be connected, highlighting the deep links between our values and our understanding of the world.
    [00:42:33] - Presentation of the third meta-argument and description of the transjective as an iterative process between agent and arena, a dynamic and changing process. This presents a dynamic view of human interaction with the world.
    [00:54:59] - Dr. Vervaeke and Gregg Henriques discuss the importance of the idea of strong transcendence within naturalism for the reconciliation of science and spirituality, marking an important contribution to the ongoing debate about the relationship between science and spirituality.
    [01:03:40] - The conversation about 'strong transcendence' continues; they argue that movement between ontological levels discloses truths that are only accessible after significant transformation. This presents a new way of understanding the process of gaining knowledge and insight.
    [01:07:20] - Dr. John Vervaeke introduces the concept of the transformation of what we most identify with, encouraging listeners to consider their own identities and connections.

    Navigating Loneliness, Finding Real Friendships, Power in Vulnerability with a Special Guest!

    Navigating Loneliness, Finding Real Friendships, Power in Vulnerability with a Special Guest!

    In this week’s Phoenix Rising Podcast episode, we dive deep into the art of dealing with loneliness, finding meaningful deep connections with real friends as an adult, and embracing your most authentic self. Loneliness is a universal feeling, but it doesn't have to define your life. Join me in this episode with a special guest as we explore practical tips, heartfelt stories, and expert advice to help you navigate the journey towards genuine connections and self-discovery.

    🌟 Topics Covered:

    • Understanding Loneliness: We'll unpack the different types of loneliness and why it's essential to address them.

    • Authenticity & Self-Discovery: Learn how to be your true self and the power it holds in attracting the right people into your life.

    • Building Real Friendships: Discover strategies for cultivating and maintaining authentic friendships that go beyond superficial interactions.

    • The Power in Vulnerability: Practical advice for overcoming social anxiety and building the confidence to connect with others.

    Join us in this special conversation towards a more connected, fulfilling, and authentic life. Don't forget to subscribe, hit the notification bell, and share this video with anyone who might benefit from these insights. Let's embrace loneliness as an opportunity for growth, and together, we'll create a world where genuine connections thrive. 💙

     

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    #31 - COVID-19, Isolation, Loneliness and Your Mental Health with Kasley Killam

    #31 - COVID-19, Isolation, Loneliness and Your Mental Health with Kasley Killam

    In the time of COVID-19 and social distancing, it’s important to know how we can maintain our mental health.  Kasley Killam, joins me for a conversation about loneliness, and isolation during this trying time and how we can protect our mental health even when we may not be able to connect physically with others.

    Kasley is a Masters of Public Health Candidate at the Harvard School of Public Health.  She is also a World Economic Forum Global Shaper and a social health advocate as well as a Contributing Writer at Scientific American (and has been for 5 years). 

    In March, 2020 she published an article in Scientific American titled, “How to Prevent Loneliness in a Time of Social Distancing.  In this conversation we cover her suggestions on this topic, and we dig into what isolation is, how it’s different than loneliness and why both impact us as humans so much.

    Connect with Kasley: Her Website, Twitter, LinkedIn, Instagram,

    Some of Kasley’s recent writing:

    How to Prevent Loneliness in a Time of Social Distancing

    A Hug a Day Keeps the Doctor Away

    The Need for Human Connection in Digital Mental Health Care

     

    HERE ARE SOME OF THE THINGS WE TALKED ABOUT:

    1. What is loneliness?  What is Isolation?  Kasley describes the difference between loneliness and isolation as well as physical impacts that a lack of social interaction can have on the human body.

      Social Isolation – Is about being physically isolated.  It’s objective.  It could be because you live alone, or you have physical limitations or you lack transportation, etc.

      Loneliness – Feeling connected to other people.  It’s subjective.  Do you feel like you have people you can reach out to and connect with?

    2. Chronic loneliness and social isolation can impact your health in a number of ways including these examples.  Here are some examples of how isolation can negatively impact our health:

                 a. More likely to catch a cold

                 b. More likely to experience depression
                 c. Increased risk of heart disease/stroke
                 d. Shortened life span
                 e. Decreased immunity
                 f. Increased inflammation
                 g. Decreased happiness, joy, sense of purpose
       
        
    3. Loneliness is on the rise, but is certainly not a “new thing.” Kasley referenced a Cigna survey launched in January 2020 where they polled 10,000 American adults.  They found that across all age groups that 61% of people are lonely, compared to 54% the year prior.  This is particularly common among Gen Z who reported 79% feeling lonely.  This has been an issue long before this pandemic.  Link here to Loneliness Survey conducted by Cigna.

    4. Why are we so lonely?  Common reasons:

                a. People are increasingly living alone
                b. Technology - easy to blame and the evidence is                      mixed
                c. Less participation in social clubs and community                    organizations
                d. People have less time to invest in relationships                      as they are working more
                e. Social anxiety

    5. How can we fight against isolation during this time of social distancing?  Kasley tells us that one universal that we are all going through is that we are having to adapt and figure out how to function and flourish during this time.  There are a number of things we can and should be doing including:

                 a. Reflect on what social well-being looks like for                       you. This is different for everyone. This can                             include contemplating questions such as "how                       much time do I want to spend interacting with                       other people?" and "how do I spend quality time                   with others?"

                 b. Make a list of the people you want to keep in                         touch with and focus on the relationships we                         want to prioritize in our lives. We need to figure                     out how we want to engage with those people.  

                 c. Connect at least once a day with people on our                     list, or more, if we can.

    6. We also talked about how technology plays a role in both creating isolation, and how technology can be a tool to provide connectivity at the same time.  When discussing how to use technology in a healthy way Kasley explained that technology is often to blame for isolation, and it’s true, because many of us have unhealthy habits with social media and technology.  Kasley recommends that we use this time to figure out how we can use technology in ways that support your social well-being.

    7. We also talked about how introverts and extroverts handle isolation and loneliness differently as well as what healthy can look like for different types of personalities both during this time and later when we return to our old way of life.

    8. We also talked about what socially healthy use of technology and social media can look like now and in the future.  Kasley gives us tips on how to define what healthy looks like for ourselves and how we can manage our engagement with our devices and social media.

    9. Finally, Kasley gave us an overview of what a Masters of Public Health program is about, why she chose to get into the psychology space and what she plans to do once she obtains her Masters.

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    Ep 240: Rebecca's Lonelienss

    Ep 240: Rebecca's Lonelienss

    In this episode, we talk to a client who is struggling to quit smoking. The names and details have been changed to protect client confidentiality...the rest of the story… is true.

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