Podcast Summary
From rapper to radio host: Alex Cooper's journey in entertainment: Following passions and staying persistent can lead to great opportunities in entertainment industry
Determination and a love for music helped Alex Cooper, aka "daddy," start her career in the entertainment industry at a young age. From wanting to be a rapper to working at a music store, she discovered her passion for radio and eventually broke into the industry. Now, she's an actress, producer, New York Times best-selling author, social justice advocate, and a mother. Her story reminds us that following our passions and staying persistent can lead to great opportunities. Additionally, this episode is brought to you by David's Bridal, CoverGirl, and Nutriful, focusing on the importance of fit, clean beauty, and holistic hair health.
From lying about age for internship to radio personality: Determination, hard work, unique personality, and belief in oneself can lead to incredible opportunities despite age or intimidation. Embrace challenges and remember potential rewards.
Determination and hard work, even at a young age, can lead to incredible opportunities. The speaker shares her experience of lying about her age to secure an internship at a radio station, which eventually led her to become a radio personality and host of MTV's TRL. She emphasizes the importance of having a strong work ethic, a unique personality, and believing in oneself, even in the face of intimidation. The speaker also highlights that having a clear purpose or goal can provide the drive and focus necessary to overcome challenges and succeed. She encourages everyone to embrace opportunities, even if they seem daunting or out of reach, and to remember that the potential rewards can be significant.
Taking risks and seizing opportunities can lead to growth and success: Lying to secure a job can lead to greater opportunities and success, but it's important to remember the discomfort and ethical implications.
Sometimes taking a leap of faith and seizing new opportunities, even if it means lying a little or stepping out of your comfort zone, can lead to significant growth and success. The speaker's experience of moving from a smaller radio market to LA, and then to MTV, illustrates this idea. He started in a small market making a low salary, but when presented with the opportunity to move to the number two market, he took a risk and lied about his salary to secure the job. This led to a significant increase in income and eventually, an opportunity to work for MTV. The experience of being dishonest was uncomfortable, but ultimately led to greater opportunities and success. It's important to remember that sometimes, a little white lie can lead to big things.
Staying true to yourself and breaking free from limiting labels: Believe in your worth, persist through obstacles, and don't let others define your potential. Embrace change and challenge limiting labels and expectations.
No matter where you start or what obstacles you face, you have the power to pivot and make a name for yourself in your chosen field. As shared by the guest, her experience as a black woman host on MTV, who was known for her role and felt limited by it, led her to explore acting. Despite facing resistance due to her previous identity, she persisted and used her position to bring diversity to MTV. This story highlights the importance of staying true to yourself, believing in your worth, and not letting others define your potential. It also underscores the significance of breaking free from limiting labels and expectations.
Finding balance and fulfillment in challenging times: Even in demanding industries, prioritize self-care and reflection while staying committed to your passion and purpose.
Even in stressful industries or challenging situations, it's important to put on a brave face and keep going, while also making time for self-care and reflection. Lala, a podcast host and prison mentor, shares her experiences of burnout and the guilt she feels when not working or taking time for herself. She also talks about her passion for giving second chances to young men in prison and the impact it has on her. Despite the demands of her job and personal life, Lala finds fulfillment in her work and sees it as her calling. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of balance, resilience, and finding meaning in the challenges we face.
The Importance of Genuine Friendships: Cultivate honest, supportive friendships based on trust, love, and empowerment. Surround yourself with positivity and let go of toxic relationships. Effort and communication are key to maintaining strong bonds.
Having genuine and caring friendships is essential for personal growth and fulfillment in life. A good friend is honest, supportive, and respects confidences. Friendships should be built on trust, love, and empowerment, not competition or jealousy. It's important to surround oneself with positive influences and to let go of toxic friendships that no longer bring joy or positivity. Friendships, like any relationship, require effort and communication, and it's essential to be there for each other through the ups and downs. Ultimately, the best friendships are those that uplift and support each other, creating a strong bond that lasts a lifetime.
Evaluate Relationships for Positivity: Assess friendships for positivity and provide relationship advice based on past experiences, regardless of personal relationship status or public image, through open communication and self-reflection.
It's important to evaluate the relationships in your life and determine if they're bringing positivity or negativity. If a pattern of negativity emerges, it may be time to reconsider the friendship. Even if you're not in a relationship yourself, others may seek your advice on relationships. Past experiences, such as failed marriages, don't define your ability to provide guidance. And while being in the public eye, like being an NBA power couple, can bring unique challenges, it doesn't necessarily determine the success or failure of a relationship. It's essential to navigate these complexities with open communication and self-reflection.
Experience of dating an athlete and lessons learned: Learning from different relationship phases and misconceptions, the speaker found that open-mindedness and friendship can come from past romantic experiences.
People and relationships go through different phases, some good and some bad. The speaker shares her experience of dating an athlete when she was younger and how it led to a friendship and eventually a child. She also discusses her misconceptions about dating an athlete and how they differed from reality. The older she got, the younger the guys who showed interest in her became, which she found surprising. Despite the challenges and the ending of the relationship on a bad note, they are still friends and co-parents. The speaker learned valuable lessons from this experience and encourages an open-minded approach to relationships. The misconception she had was that once she committed to the relationship, she would sleep better and have less stress. However, she found that the opposite was true, as more people showed interest in her. Overall, the speaker's experience highlights the importance of going through different phases of life and learning from them.
Navigating Relationships in High-Profile Industries: Build genuine connections, be aware of unique challenges, and address infidelity directly in high-pressure relationships.
Appearances can be deceiving when it comes to relationships in high-profile cities and industries. The speaker shares her experiences of being a long-term girlfriend in the NBA world, where she encountered a range of attitudes from other women. While some were welcoming, others were aggressive. She emphasizes that everyone's experience is unique, and one should focus on building genuine connections. The speaker also mentions that she never turned a blind eye to infidelity in her own relationship and dealt with it directly. Overall, the conversation highlights the complexities and challenges of navigating relationships in high-pressure environments.
Trust your instincts over social media: Remember that social media may not always show the full picture and trust your instincts. Find balance and prioritize happiness within yourself.
While social media can provide valuable information, it's important to trust your instincts and not let it consume your thoughts or relationships. The speaker shares that sometimes, despite what social media may suggest, things aren't always as they seem. It's essential to remember that everyone has their way of handling information and relationships, and not everyone may want constant access or involvement. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of finding happiness within oneself, rather than relying on external factors like relationships to provide it. Overall, the takeaway is to find a balance between trusting your gut and using social media as a tool, while also being mindful of the impact constant access to information can have on your emotions and relationships.
Supporting personal growth and independence: Trusting decisions and focusing on personal passions are keys to personal growth and empowerment. In relationships, support each other's choices and respect their journey.
Maintaining personal identity and independence are essential for personal growth and empowerment. In relationships, it's crucial to support each other's decisions and trust that everyone makes the best choices for themselves. ShipStation can help manage and automate shipping tasks for businesses, allowing them to grow and thrive. Neutral offers supplements that address the root causes of hair thinning from a whole body approach. And finally, it's essential to focus on our personal passions and hobbies to find purpose and empowerment in our lives. The discussion also emphasized the importance of not judging others' relationships and respecting their decisions. So, whether it's growing a business or taking care of our hair or personal relationships, being intentional and independent is the key to success. Go to shipstation.com with code DADDY for a free trial, and try Neutral's supplements with code CHD for a discount. Remember, everyone's journey is unique, and it's essential to trust the process and support each other along the way.
The Harm of Unwarranted Opinions in Relationships: Ending a relationship due to personal growth and unhappiness is a brave decision, despite public scrutiny. Focus on personal growth, resilience, and empathy during challenging times, especially when children are involved.
Giving unwarranted opinions in relationships, especially when it brings personal satisfaction from someone else's misery, is harmful and disrespectful. The speaker shares her experience of ending a relationship when she no longer felt loved or happy, despite the public scrutiny she faced. She emphasizes the importance of personal growth and strength during challenging times, especially when children are involved. The speaker also acknowledges that her perspective on love has changed after her divorce, but chooses to focus on the lessons learned rather than dwelling on the negativity. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of self-reflection, resilience, and empathy in navigating the complexities of relationships.
Everyone's journey to love is unique: Allow yourself to feel emotions authentically, remember everyone's path is unique, be honest, respect others, and stay positive for love to come unexpectedly.
Everyone experiences love and heartbreak differently, and it's important to allow ourselves to feel and process our emotions authentically. During tough times, it's okay to have a moment of self-pity and sadness, but it's also important to remember that everyone's journey to finding love is unique and may not follow a linear path. It's essential to be honest with ourselves and our friends, but also to respect where they are in their own lives. Ultimately, relationships can bring great joy and fulfillment, but they also require effort and patience. So, whether we're single or in a relationship, it's essential to keep an open mind and stay positive, knowing that love can come to us when we least expect it.
Everyone's dating experience is unique: Trust instincts, explore different possibilities, and consider meeting people through friends
When it comes to dating and relationships, everyone's experience is unique and there's no one-size-fits-all approach. Some people may prefer public dates, while others might prefer keeping things private. Friendships can also evolve into something more, and it's essential to trust your instincts and feelings. The speaker shared that they've had experiences with athletes in the past, and while they might not pursue that again, they're open to exploring other possibilities. They also mentioned that they haven't used dating apps yet but have seen them work for others, including their father who met his wife on one. Ultimately, the best way to meet someone, according to the speaker, is through friends who know and understand you well.
Focusing on non-negotiables in relationships: Embrace the importance of family, laughter, honesty, and self-happiness in relationships. Can't please everyone, so focus on personal happiness.
It's essential to know what we value in relationships and what we won't tolerate. The speaker shares that having a partner who values family and laughter are non-negotiables for her. Honesty is also crucial, as she can't deal with dishonesty. She wishes she could tell her younger self that everyone won't like her, and it's essential to focus on finding happiness within oneself rather than trying to please everyone. The speaker's personality shone through the conversation, and it was a pleasure to listen to her insights. Additionally, the speaker emphasized that no matter what we do or wear, people will always have something to say. It's crucial to remember that we can't please everyone and should focus on our happiness. The episode was presented by David's Bridal, emphasizing the importance of finding the right fit in relationships and in bridal gowns. Use code "daddy" for 15% off all purchases during March.
