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    Let's Talk About SEXTS, Baby

    enFebruary 16, 2016

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    • The Magic Wand: A Cultural Symbol of Power and PleasureThe Magic Wand, a cultural icon, offers powerful orgasms through its unique rumble. New iterations and innovative sex toys like Promescent's delay spray and warming arousal gel, and the Nova by We-Vibe, continue to enhance sexual experiences.

      The Magic Wand, a iconic vibrator, is not just a sex toy but a cultural symbol of power and unapologetic pleasure. First introduced decades ago, it has earned accolades as the "Cadillac of vibrators" and "vibrator of the year" for its unique rumble that resonates deep within. Now, there are multiple iterations, including wireless, mini, micro, and plush versions, but all retain the powerful orgasmic rumble. For those looking to enhance their summer sex life, Promescent offers delay spray and warming arousal gel to help last longer and intensify pleasure. The Nova by We-Vibe is a new dual stimulation toy that expertly pleasures the clitoris and G-spot simultaneously without losing contact. These products continue to innovate and improve the sexual experience for individuals.

    • Exploring Intimacy through Technology: Nova by WeVibe and SnapchatThe Nova by WeVibe is a tech-enabled sex toy that offers enhanced control via a smartphone app, while Snapchat provides a unique form of intimacy through its ephemeral nature, making it an intriguing platform for exploration.

      The Nova by WeVibe is a unique sex toy that can be controlled via a smartphone using the We Connect app. Emily, the podcast host, highly recommends it and offers a discount code for listeners. During the discussion, they also touched on various topics such as social media platforms, specifically Snapchat, and its perceived intimacy compared to other platforms like Instagram and Twitter. Emily is exploring Snapchat and finds it intriguing, despite its ephemeral nature. She also mentioned the upcoming launch of her website, which will include a decade's worth of content, including blogs, videos, and a mailing list. Overall, the conversation revolved around sex, relationships, technology, and various platforms to engage and connect with audiences.

    • From sexting to daily life momentsSnapchat's ephemeral nature encourages real-time sharing, but can lead to a throwaway society. Its unique features make it an appealing alternative to Instagram.

      Snapchat, initially created for sexting, has evolved into a platform where users share moments of their daily lives. Its ephemeral nature sets it apart from Instagram, encouraging users to be in the moment and share experiences in real-time. However, this constant sharing can lead to a throwaway society, where content is consumed and forgotten quickly. Despite this, Snapchat's unique features, such as its ease of use and behind-the-scenes glimpses, make it an appealing alternative to Instagram for some users. Ultimately, it's up to each individual to decide which platform aligns best with their personal brand and sharing preferences.

    • Emojis and Dating OutcomesUsing emojis in text communication can influence dating outcomes, with women who use 'LOL' being 39% more open to sex. Living in diverse neighborhoods can lead to unexpected encounters and mutual respect.

      The use of emojis in text communication can potentially influence dating outcomes. According to a study, a woman who uses the "LOL" emoji is 39% more likely to be open to having sex. This is just one of the many intriguing findings from the Singles in America survey, which has been published since 2016. The discussion also touched upon the diverse and unusual neighborhood where the podcast "Sex with Emily" is recorded, which is inhabited by a unique blend of Hasidic Jews, hardcore thugs, wannabe actors, and tourists. The speaker shared personal anecdotes about his experiences living in this area and the unexpected encounters he had with its residents. Despite the neighborhood's contrasting demographics, the speaker noted that there seemed to be a mutual understanding and respect among its inhabitants, despite their apparent differences. The conversation also touched upon the traditional practices of certain religious groups and the speaker's unexpected encounter with one such practice. The discussion veered into darker territory when the topic of blood-sucking during certain religious rituals was brought up, but the speaker quickly steered the conversation back to lighter topics. Overall, the conversation provided a unique insight into the intersection of technology, dating, and culture.

    • Using certain words in online dating messages affects the chances of a second date and sexUsing 'LOL' increases the chances of a second date and sex, while 'on fleek' decreases the chances of a second date. Not wining and dining a potential mate on the first date can also decrease the chances of a second date.

      The use of certain words in online dating messages can significantly impact the likelihood of a second date and even the chances of having sex. According to a survey on Match, using "LOL" increases the chances of a second date by 255% and the probability of having sex by 39%. On the other hand, using the term "on fleek" decreases the chances of a second date by 26%. Additionally, not wine and dining a potential mate on the first date can decrease the chances of a second date by 107%. These findings may not represent perfect science, but they do provide valuable insights into the world of online dating. Ultimately, the words and actions we use can make a difference in our dating experiences.

    • Speaker's Unique Perspective and Love for Chill EnvironmentsThe speaker values authenticity and individuality, and she prefers chill environments. She has been feeling sad recently but is trying to embrace her emotions and move on from a past relationship. Her friend's poetic and insightful words have been comforting to her.

      The speaker values authenticity and individuality in people, and she sees herself as an anomaly who is not judgmental or bitchy, despite having some traits that others might find unpleasant. She also mentioned her love for incense and her preference for chill environments, and she shared some insights about the cost of dating in different cities. The speaker also revealed that she has been feeling sad recently, but she is trying to embrace her feelings and move on from a past relationship. Additionally, she shared her appreciation for the poetic and insightful things that her friend has said during their conversation. The conversation also touched upon the topic of first dates and the role of caffeine in their lives.

    • Exploring Communication in Dating: Self-Advice Emails, Sexting, and First DatesEffective communication enhances relationships and intimacy. Self-advice emails can boost mood, sexting is a modern love letter, and first dates should last around 2.5 hours. Personal hygiene, grooming essential for both, and sexting should be consensual, personal, and respectful.

      Effective communication, whether through writing or speaking, can greatly enhance relationships and intimacy. During a discussion about dating and personal preferences, it was mentioned that writing oneself an email for self-advice can help improve mood, and sexting can serve as a modern-day love letter, increasing desire and understanding between partners. The optimum length for a first date is around 2.5 hours, and while clean-shaven preferences among women are common, personal hygiene and grooming are essential for both parties. Sexting, a form of digital communication, can be a fun and exciting way to express desire and explore fantasies, but it's important to remember to keep it consensual, personal, and respectful. Ultimately, communication, whether through words or actions, plays a crucial role in building and maintaining strong, healthy relationships.

    • Timing and Consent in SextingEffective sexting requires respecting timing and consent to ensure a meaningful and enjoyable experience for both parties.

      Effective sexting requires careful consideration of timing and consent. Sexting at inappropriate times or without the other person's agreement can lead to rejection or discomfort. It's important to build a connection before engaging in sexting and to respect the other person's boundaries. The conversation also touched on how sexting has evolved from a more romantic and intimate act to something more casual and often objectifying. The use of technology has made it easier to share explicit content, but it's essential to remember that sexting should be consensual, respectful, and enhancing to the relationship. Timing and consent are crucial elements to make sexting a meaningful and enjoyable experience for both parties.

    • Approaching sexting with care and considerationBuild up to sexting gradually, respect boundaries, communicate openly, and deepen connections with sensitivity and respect.

      Sexting should be approached with care and consideration for the other person's comfort and readiness. It's important to build up to it gradually, starting with innocent and ambiguous messages to draw your partner in. Timing is crucial, as sexting before meeting in person can be overwhelming and inappropriate. Additionally, it's essential to respect boundaries and avoid going straight for explicit content or sexual advances. The conversation should be seen as digital foreplay, and like regular foreplay, it requires sensitivity, teasing, and gradual escalation. It's also important to remember that everyone has different comfort levels and preferences, so it's crucial to communicate openly and honestly with your partner. Ultimately, sexting can be a fun and exciting way to deepen a connection with someone, but it should always be done with respect and care for the other person's feelings.

    • Set the mood and be descriptive in sextingTo effectively sext, create a romantic atmosphere, use compliments, and be descriptive about your desires, building anticipation and excitement for the eventual sexual encounter.

      Effective sexting involves setting the mood and being complimentary and descriptive. Start with a hint of mystery to pique their curiosity, then gradually reveal your deepest desires. Be playful and flirty, but avoid jumping straight into explicit requests. Instead, focus on creating a romantic atmosphere and making your partner feel desired and wanted. Use compliments and be descriptive about what you want to do for them, rather than just focusing on your own desires. This approach helps build anticipation and excitement, making the eventual sexual encounter even more satisfying. Remember, sexting is about more than just the sex act itself – it's about connecting emotionally and intellectually with your partner.

    • Expressing sexual desires through textBe descriptive and specific when sexting, paint a vivid picture of your fantasies, and expand your horizons with new ideas from magazines or services like Textur.

      Effective sexting involves being descriptive and specific in expressing your sexual desires to your partner, without relying on emojis. It's an opportunity to paint a vivid picture of your fantasies and communicate desires that may be difficult to discuss face-to-face. Be creative, think about past experiences, and use detailed language to make your partner feel desired and excited. Texting in this way can also provide a sense of intimacy and excitement in a busy world, and can help deepen your connection with your partner. Additionally, consider using services like Textur, which offer unlimited access to magazines for a low monthly fee, as a way to discover new ideas and expand your horizons.

    • Overcoming clutter and improving sexual healthSubscribing to digital services can help reduce clutter and stress. Strengthening pelvic floor muscles can lead to better sexual control and performance, but be cautious when sharing intimate photos as they can't be taken back.

      Clutter, whether it's old magazines or digital files like naked photos, can create unnecessary stress and anxiety. The speaker shared her experience of feeling overwhelmed by the pile of magazines she used to hoard at home, and how she found a solution in subscribing to a digital text service instead. Similarly, when it comes to sexual health, focusing on strengthening the pelvic floor muscles through devices like the Intensity can lead to better control over pleasure and improved sexual performance. However, she also warned about the potential risks and consequences of sending naked photos, emphasizing that once they're sent, they can't be taken back and could be shared without consent. Therefore, it's important to think carefully before hitting send.

    • Be mindful and respectful when sharing intimate contentRespect privacy, approach bedroom talk with sensitivity, ask about partner's desires, and respect their comfort and autonomy.

      Individuals need to be mindful and respectful when sharing intimate content, as experiences like Madison's illustrate the potential harm of sharing someone else's private images without consent. Regarding building a partner's confidence in the bedroom, it's crucial to approach the topic with sensitivity and positive reinforcement. Instead of suggesting new ideas out of the blue, try acknowledging and praising your partner for what they're already doing. Additionally, ask them about their own desires and interests, giving them time to consider new experiences. Remember, not all individuals have the same level of sexual fantasy or desire, and it's essential to respect their comfort and autonomy.

    • Exploring Intimacy: Communication and UnderstandingEffective communication and understanding are essential for women to feel comfortable exploring sexual intimacy with a partner. Making it a mutual experience and acknowledging unique differences between genders can lead to greater satisfaction.

      Effective communication and understanding are key to exploring sexual intimacy with a partner, especially for women who may not naturally think about self-pleasure or consider themselves attractive. The speaker shared personal experiences and stories of women who have struggled with self-exploration and attraction, emphasizing the importance of bringing them into the process and making it a mutual experience. The speaker also highlighted the unique differences between men and women in this regard and encouraged open and honest conversations. Additionally, the speaker discussed their podcast "Cinematics," which provides enhanced movie-going experiences by offering behind-the-scenes information and insights.

    • Check out Cinematic on iTunes, follow Emily on social media, and try Prumescence for lasting longer in bed.Listeners can enhance their intimacy experience by checking out Emily's podcast, following her on social media, and using FDA-approved Prumescence to last longer during sex.

      The speaker, Emily, encourages listeners to check out her show "Cinematic" which is available on iTunes, and follows her on social media platforms like Instagram, Twitter, and Snapchat under the handle "sex with Emily." She also promotes Prumescence, an FDA-approved treatment for premature ejaculation or lasting longer in bed. Prumescence is a quickly absorbing delay spray that allows men to focus on their partners during intimacy without worrying about ejaculating too soon. The speaker emphasizes that Prumescence is recommended by thousands of urologists and is the only FDA-approved treatment for this issue. She also encourages listeners to take a listener survey at podcastone.com to help improve the show and support it.

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