Logo
    Search

    Letter Writing 101: Tips From A Hallmark Card Writer

    en-usAugust 10, 2021

    Podcast Summary

    • The art of letter writing: A deeper connection and creativityEmbrace the craft of letter writing for deeper connections and creativity, despite the technology-driven world. Write with power and purpose in any medium.

      The art of letter writing, as exemplified by a transatlantic Italian couple from 1948, offers deeper connection and creativity that cannot be replicated through modern digital communication. Sonia Kansian, a historian specializing in migration and an expert on immigrant letters and love letters, emphasizes the importance of this cultural memory and encourages us to embrace the craft. Although it may seem daunting to write thoughtful letters in today's technology-driven world, the benefits are significant. We can write with power and purpose in any medium, and the act of putting pen to paper can inspire creativity and affirmation. Support for this message comes from Equinix, the world's digital infrastructure company, and Whole Foods Market. Equinix empowers companies to bring their digital dreams to life, while Whole Foods Market offers wallet-friendly options for hosting celebratory brunches.

    • Hosting a budget-friendly brunch with Whole Foods Market and Apple Card rewardsBe authentic and emotional in letter writing to deepen connections, regardless of credentials or budget. Whole Foods Market and Apple Card offer affordable options for hosting a celebratory brunch.

      Hosting a celebratory brunch on a budget is achievable with the help of Whole Foods Market's wallet-friendly finds. Apple Card users can earn cash rewards on their purchases, making the brunch even more affordable. When it comes to writing a personal message, vulnerability and emotional storytelling are key, regardless of one's credentials. A well-crafted letter or card can bring significant value, especially in deepening connections with people, whether they are old friends or new acquaintances. Courtney Taylor, a senior writer at Hallmark with diverse writing experiences, emphasized the importance of being authentic and emotional in letter writing. By sharing our stories and emotions, we can create meaningful and lasting connections.

    • Personal connection and thoughtfulness in communicationAsk questions, share experiences, write handwritten letters, and celebrate reciprocal impact for meaningful communication.

      Meaningful communication, whether through letters or notes, requires personal connection and thoughtfulness. Asking questions and sharing personal experiences are effective ways to engage and encourage response. Handwritten letters add a special touch, making the recipient feel valued and appreciated. Consistency is important, but flexibility is also necessary, as letter writing doesn't always have to be a long-term commitment. However, it should always aim to celebrate and affirm the recipient by acknowledging their impact on the writer's life. Additionally, avoid generic or insincere messages, as they may not leave a lasting impression or foster genuine connection.

    • Universal experiences and adapting tone in communicationConsider audience and relationship when expressing vulnerability. Use universal experiences and tailor tone for impactful messages.

      When it comes to expressing vulnerability and writing meaningful messages, it's essential to consider your audience and the nature of your relationship. Whether you're writing a letter or sending a text, the universal specific approach can help strike a chord with the recipient. Universal experiences, though detailed and specific, can resonate with many people. When it comes to tone, it's crucial to adapt to the relationship and the medium. Humor, for instance, can be an effective way to connect, regardless of the occasion. In the absence of letter writing, sending a heartfelt text can be just as impactful if you take the time to understand the recipient's needs and tailor your message accordingly. At Hallmark, they create cards catering to various tones and occasions, emphasizing the importance of authenticity and connection in communication.

    • Communicating Sensitively During Difficult TimesWhen communicating with someone going through a tough time, acknowledge their experience, offer help, and invite a conversation. Be authentic and clear in your writing to foster stronger relationships and encourage meaningful dialogue.

      Effective communication, especially in written form, requires sensitivity and authenticity. When reaching out to someone going through a difficult time, it's important to acknowledge their experience without assuming you understand it completely. Instead, offer help and invite a conversation. Authenticity in writing can be challenging, especially for women and people of color who may feel pressure to soften their tone or appear happy. However, using phrases like "please let me know" or "I'm trying to understand" can convey kindness and directness without relying on excessive exclamation points. It's essential to remember that the recipient cannot see or hear your tone, so being clear and considerate in your writing is crucial. Ultimately, authentic communication fosters stronger relationships and encourages meaningful dialogue.

    • The power of heartfelt communication in personal messagesThoughtful, heartfelt messages in personal letters deepen connections and create lasting memories, especially for internal processors like Aquarians.

      Effective communication, whether it's for professional or personal correspondence, requires thoughtfulness and authenticity. In the case of personal messages, such as letters or emails for special occasions, leaning into shared memories and expressing heartfelt sentiments can help deepen connections. The formal nature of letters forces us to carefully consider our words, ensuring that we don't waste the opportunity to express important thoughts and feelings. As the speaker mentioned, letters can be particularly meaningful for internal processors like Aquarians, providing a space to explore and articulate emotions that may not come as easily in other forms of communication. Ultimately, taking the time to write a thoughtful, heartfelt message can help strengthen relationships and create lasting memories.

    • Be specific in expressions of appreciationInstead of general compliments, provide specific examples to make expressions of appreciation more meaningful and impactful.

      When expressing appreciation or writing a heartfelt message, providing specific examples is more meaningful and impactful than general compliments. According to the discussion, when writing a card, rather than simply stating "you're great," consider listing the reasons why. This approach not only shows that you've put thought into the message but also provides evidence of your belief in the person's qualities. Even with limited space, focusing on a few key examples can effectively convey your thoughts and feelings. This approach not only applies to cards but can be used in various forms of communication to make a lasting impact.

    • Exploring beyond the surface of news and sleepNPR's Embedded podcast delves deeper into current events, while Lisa, a NPR sponsor, offers a sustainable sleep solution with their natural hybrid mattress.

      In the midst of a fast-paced world where news comes at us rapidly, it's important to take the time to delve deeper into the stories behind the headlines. NPR's podcast, Embedded, does just that, using original documentary storytelling to explore the how and why of current events. Meanwhile, Lisa, a NPR sponsor in collaboration with West Elm, offers a solution for those seeking a healthier and more eco-friendly sleep. Their new natural hybrid mattress, made from natural latex and certified safe foams, is designed with both personal health and the planet in mind. So whether you're looking for a better understanding of the news or a more sustainable sleep, remember that taking the time to explore beyond the surface can lead to meaningful discoveries. Visit leesa.com to learn more about the mattress, and listen to NPR's Embedded wherever you get your podcasts for thought-provoking stories.

    Recent Episodes from Life Kit

    "Screen apnea": How our use of tech affects our breathing

    "Screen apnea": How our use of tech affects our breathing
    Do you have "screen apnea?" Former Microsoft executive Linda Stone coined this term in 2007 after noticing she'd developed an unhealthy habit while answering emails: She held her breath. Body Electric host Manoush Zomorodi talks to Stone about this phenomenon — and gets insight from James Nestor, author of "Breath," on how to reset our breath and relieve screen time stress. Binge the whole Body Electric series here. Sign up for the Body Electric Challenge and their newsletter here.

    Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    NPR Privacy Policy
    Life Kit
    en-usJune 29, 2024

    Keeping intimacy alive after having a baby

    Keeping intimacy alive after having a baby
    It's hard to find time for anything with a newborn at home. And in the months after having a baby, intimacy with your partner may fall to the wayside. But sex and relationship experts say that maintaining your intimate relationship with your partner is a worthwhile challenge. In this episode we'll talk strategies for reconnecting with your partner, exploring your desires, and expanding your ideas of sex and intimacy.

    Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    NPR Privacy Policy
    Life Kit
    en-usJune 27, 2024

    BMI is flawed. Try a body composition test

    BMI is flawed. Try a body composition test
    For decades, health experts have relied on body mass index (BMI), a ratio of weight to height, to classify people as underweight, normal weight, overweight or obese. But sometimes, you need more than two numbers to understand your health. For example, BMI can't tell you how much of your weight is fat versus muscle. That's why a growing number of researchers and physicians prefer other metrics instead. NPR health correspondent Allison Aubrey breaks down the history and shortcomings of BMI, and shares other methods to get a fuller picture of your body.

    Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    NPR Privacy Policy
    Life Kit
    en-usJune 25, 2024

    Debunking sleep myths

    Debunking sleep myths
    There are a lot of misconceptions about sleep. Sleep scientist Rebecca Robbins and her colleagues looked into common myths about sleep to help everyone get a better night's rest. This episode originally published Janaury 9, 2024.

    Want better sleep? Sign up Life Kit's Guide to Better Sleep, our special newsletter series. When you sign up, you'll receive a series of emails over one week with tips you can try that very night to prioritize and improve your sleep. Sign up at npr.org/sleepweek.

    Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    NPR Privacy Policy
    Life Kit
    en-usJune 24, 2024

    Grilling for beginners

    Grilling for beginners
    Intimidated by grilling? Cooking over an open flame can do that. In this episode, learn the basics from which type of grill to choose, to how to maintain a fire and create different temperature zones, to tips on tools and safety. This episode originally published May 24, 2022.

    Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    NPR Privacy Policy
    Life Kit
    en-usJune 18, 2024

    Healthy money habits for couples

    Healthy money habits for couples
    Should you merge your finances with a significant other? Keep them separate? Or something in between? Financial therapist Lindsay Bryan Podvin breaks down different ways to handle your finances with a partner and how to keep communication open and honest no matter what financial plan you pick.

    Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    NPR Privacy Policy
    Life Kit
    en-usJune 17, 2024

    Life advice inspired by graduation songs

    Life advice inspired by graduation songs
    With graduation season here, our friends at NPR's All Songs Considered asked listeners to tell them about songs that bring back memories of the final days of high school, when they said goodbye to old friends, left home and struck out on their own. Join NPR's Robin Hilton and Stephen Thompson as they reflect on graduation through song.

    Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    NPR Privacy Policy
    Life Kit
    en-usJune 15, 2024

    Related Episodes

    S9 Ep 323: Utter Drivel - Choccies, going on Off Menu Live & the Postman

    S9 Ep 323: Utter Drivel - Choccies, going on Off Menu Live & the Postman
    Joe & David are eating chocolates for breakfast. David asks Joe if he's been surfing on the board he bought him and suggests sending it back if he hasn't. Joe's a guest on Off Menu Live and they discuss how Joe's feeling about it. They plan doing a 'Where's Joe Now' style recording before the show. David wants to watch Joe from the sidelines as he enters the stage but Joe's not keen, he's feeling stressed about the night and David's not helping. They reminisce about old comedy venues where they've both done stand up together. The postman walks in with a package. It's the new Chatabix caps ! David's wife Naomi has had a word with the Postman about not walking in when David's podding. It seems to have fallen on deaf ears. David forgets to get Ethan Lawrence on the pod so plug Ethan's new drama 'Boat Story' instead. Thanks to The Little House Dorset for the choccie treats: www.thelittlehousedorset.com Follow Chatabix on Twitter & Instagram: twitter.com/chatabix1 www.instagram.com/chatabixpodcast/ Patreon for early access to our eps: https://www.patreon.com/chatabix Merch: https://chatabixshop.com/ Contact us: chatabix@yahoo.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    Choosing Vulnerability Over Fear Of Rejection

    Choosing Vulnerability Over Fear Of Rejection

    Ever feel like you're holding back in your relationships? In this episode, we dive deep into the power of vulnerability and how it can transform your connections. Host [Your Name] explores why we shy away from being our authentic selves, and how embracing our flaws and imperfections can lead to stronger, more meaningful relationships.

    Here's what you'll discover:

    ·         Why vulnerability is essential for building trust and intimacy.

    ·         How to overcome the fear of being judged or rejected.

    ·         Practical tips for starting to open up and share your true self.

    ·         Real-life examples of how vulnerability has strengthened relationships.

    If you think you or someone you love may be struggling in this area and you’d like help with this or any other topic, feel free to reach out to me. You can email me at angie@contactangieday.com or you can easily drop me a Voicemail here:  https://www.speakpipe.com/TheLoveConnectionPodcast

     

    46: Mindset Monday: Understanding Yourself: A Roadmap to Authentic Love

    46: Mindset Monday: Understanding Yourself: A Roadmap to Authentic Love

    In this episode, we delve into the profound importance of self-discovery and understanding in cultivating meaningful relationships. Too often, we expect our loved ones to intuitively grasp our needs and desires without truly knowing ourselves. 

     

    But what if the key to receiving the love we crave lies in understanding and articulating our own emotional landscape?

     

    From recognizing our love languages to understanding our attachment styles, every aspect of self-knowledge contributes to clearer communication and deeper connections.

     

    Tune in to this enlightening episode and embark on a journey of self-discovery that not only enriches your own life but also transforms the way you give and receive love. After all, the most authentic connections are forged when we dare to be truly ourselves.

     

    Host Information



    Resources

     

    E560 Going Deeper with Ariel Frenkel

    E560 Going Deeper with Ariel Frenkel

    Welcome back to The Viall Files: Going Deeper Edition! Today we are joined by Ariel Frenkel to talk about her time on this season of The Bachelor. What happened during her Fantasy Suite with Zach, did she know she was heading home, and what else did she wish Zach said at After the Final Rose? We ask all of the hard hitting questions that Bachelor Nation has been wanting to know - including the drama in the house, how she handled their break up, and if she was ready to become the next Mrs. Shallcross. 

    “We’re not having a conversation, it’s a monologue.”

    Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://www.viallfiles.supportingcast.com 

    Please make sure to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@theviallfiles.com to be a part of our Monday episodes.

    Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/

    To Order Nick’s Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com 

    If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to asknick@theviallfiles.com with “Texting Office Hours” in the subject line!

    To advertise on the show, contact sales@advertisecast.com or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles 

    THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS:

    IQ Bar - Now get twenty percent off all IQBar products, plus get FREE shipping. To get your twenty percent off, just text FILES to 64-000.

    Canva - Collaborate with Canva for Teams! Right now, you can get a FREE 45-day extended trial when you go to canva.me/viall 

    Drizly - Drizly is the most convenient way to buy beer, wine and spirits, with delivery to your doorstep in under 60 minutes. Download the Drizly app or go to https://www.Drizly.com

    Intimissimi - There is a new Italian lingerie brand made with gorgeous fabrics, colorful silks and delicate lace. https://www.intimissimi.com/jlo

    Episode Socials:
    @viallfiles
    @nickviall
    @afrenkel1
    @alison.vandam
    @liffordthebigreddog
    @dereklanerussell

    TVM Ep 013 Matt Kirschner Interview Pt 1

    TVM Ep 013 Matt Kirschner Interview Pt 1

    Join me for my conversation with Matt Kirschner, a seasoned sales professional with 30+ years of experience and the father of two sons. In the first of our two-part conversation we discuss:

    - how vulnerability and connection impact sales and corporate culture

    - the power of 'going first'

    - how being vulnerable strengthens client relationships

    - the importance of communication and transparency during challenges, and 

    - the value of focusing on what others need versus having your own agenda

    LinkedIn  https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthewkirschner/ 

    Twitter: @TheScotMEK