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    Lt. Col. Jannell MacAulay, Teaching 'Mental Push-ups' in US Air Force

    enMarch 07, 2018

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    • Positive Thinking vs Loving Kindness MeditationWhile positive thinking may not change the external world, loving kindness meditation strengthens our compassion muscle and has health benefits.

      While positive thinking and loving kindness meditation both have their merits, they serve different purposes. Positive thinking, as propagated in some self-help circles, is based on the belief that one can change the external world solely through the power of positive thoughts. However, there's little scientific evidence to support this claim. Loving kindness meditation, on the other hand, involves sending good vibes or positive energy to others through repeating phrases like "may you be happy, may you be healthy." While it doesn't change the lives of those to whom we're sending the good vibes, it does have health benefits for us as we strengthen our compassion muscle. The 10% Happier podcast, hosted by Dan Harris, offers a new course on the app featuring meditation teacher Joseph Goldstein, who shares wisdom on compassion and its benefits.

    • Caring for Others and Practicing Self-Care for Better Mental HealthPersonal experiences, talk therapy, medication, exercise, good relationships, enough sleep, eating well, and meditation can help improve mental health and overall well-being. Don't neglect self-care and consider all available resources to prioritize mental health.

      Caring for others and practicing self-care, including meditation, can help improve mental health and overall well-being. The speaker shared his personal experience of dealing with anxiety and depression and emphasized the importance of addressing these issues before focusing on other areas of life. He recommended various methods proven to help with depression and anxiety, such as talk therapy, medication, exercise, good relationships, enough sleep, and eating well. He encouraged listeners to "pull every lever that's available to you" to improve their well-being. The speaker also shared an inspiring story of how people are given second chances in life and encouraged listeners to take care of themselves before getting back in the ring. The episode also featured an interview with Lieutenant Colonel Janelle McCauley, who shared her personal story of coming to meditation out of necessity and now runs a pilot program to create high-performing, mindful, and mission-focused warfighters and families.

    • Military life's challenges: A mother's balancing act and a maintenance officer's roleLeading a multifaceted life in the military demands resilience and adaptability. Mothers juggle military duties and family care, while maintenance officers face unique challenges. Both experiences instill values of strength and adaptability in children.

      Leading a multifaceted life, especially while serving in the military, comes with numerous challenges and sacrifices. This was exemplified in a conversation between two individuals, one of whom was a military mom leading a unit and caring for her young child while her husband was deployed for a year to a dangerous location. Balancing these responsibilities required immense resilience and adaptability. The husband, a maintenance officer, also faced challenges in his role, despite being on a military base. Their experiences underscored the importance of leadership and teamwork, even in the face of adversity. Additionally, their unique experiences shaped their perspectives and influenced how they raised their children, instilling values of strength, adaptability, and resilience.

    • Importance of Self-care in High-Pressure EnvironmentsPrioritize self-care practices like meditation and yoga to prevent burnout and promote overall well-being, even in demanding careers.

      Self-care and mindfulness practices, such as meditation and yoga, can be crucial for preventing burnout and promoting overall well-being, even for individuals with demanding careers and responsibilities. The speaker, a military leader and meditation advocate, shares how she neglected her own self-care during her service years, leading to exhaustion. She eventually discovered the benefits of yoga and meditation, which provided her with much-needed solitude and quiet reflection. This experience led her to pursue further education in performance under stress and wellness, and she came to view mindfulness as foundational for optimal health and productivity. Her story underscores the importance of prioritizing self-care, even in high-pressure environments, and embracing practices like meditation and yoga to promote overall well-being.

    • The Power of Mindfulness for Emotional GrowthRegular mindfulness practice can help manage emotional reactivity and improve overall well-being. Schedule meditation, use tools, and let go of control to reap the benefits.

      Personal growth and exploration led the speaker to experiment with various practices, such as acupuncture, yoga nidra, and mindfulness meditation. Mindfulness, in particular, became a transformative tool for managing emotional reactivity. The speaker's research-driven approach led her to learn from experts like Dr. Amishi Jha, and she began practicing mindfulness meditation regularly as a habit. She emphasized the importance of scheduling meditation, using tools like calendars and notebooks, and letting go of the need to control every thought. The speaker's story resonates with many people seeking to improve their lives without sacrificing their well-being.

    • 15-minute daily mindfulness practiceRegular mindfulness practice improves mental focus and self-compassion, anchoring on the breath and acknowledging distractions, self-reflection and gratitude, make it a non-negotiable appointment, forgive yourself for missed sessions and try again.

      Establishing a consistent mindfulness practice, even for just 15 minutes a day, can significantly improve mental focus and self-compassion. This practice, which can be thought of as mental pushups, involves anchoring on the breath and acknowledging distractions before bringing focus back to the anchor point. Self-reflection and gratitude are also important components of the practice. It's essential to make mindfulness a non-negotiable appointment on your calendar, but also to forgive yourself if you miss a session and try again the next day. Mindfulness is not about adding guilt or stress, but rather about learning to manage and perceive thoughts in a different way.

    • Be present and intentional with mindfulnessPracticing mindfulness can improve interactions, increase awareness, and help manage stress in various roles

      Practicing mindfulness, whether through meditation or in daily life, allows us to be more present and intentional in the moment. This can lead to improved interactions with others, increased awareness of our habits and reactions, and the ability to stay calm and focused in stressful situations. A simple deep breath can help us shift our perspective and respond rather than react. This practice has been beneficial for the speaker in her roles as a mother, commander, and wife, allowing her to better manage her stress and connect with those around her.

    • Colonel X introduced mindfulness in the Air ForceColonel X's mindfulness practice led to a more engaged and productive squadron. Self-improvement and authentic leadership can boost team performance.

      Colonel X introduced mindfulness into the Air Force curriculum with some reluctance after recognizing the importance of being a present and authentic leader. She started by practicing mindfulness herself and sharing her background in human performance aspects, including mindfulness, with her team. This approach led to a more engaged and productive squadron. Additionally, the conversation touched on the importance of perfecting Easter brunch with high-quality eggs and catering options from Whole Foods Market, and the ease of hiring and managing candidates through Indeed.com.

    • Leading with MindfulnessPracticing mindfulness as a leader can reduce stress, build trust, and foster a compassionate work environment, leading to improved performance and organizational success.

      Leading with mindfulness as a leader can significantly impact an organization's culture and performance. By practicing mindfulness and teaching it to team members, leaders can reduce stress, build trust, and foster a compassionate and innovative work environment. This can lead to improved individual and team performance, as well as organizational accolades. However, implementing mindfulness practices may encounter resistance, so it's essential to lead with the science and data supporting its benefits. Mindfulness can be a powerful tool for leaders in high-stress environments, such as the military, to help their teams perform at their best.

    • Military personnel need to be at their best before deploymentMindfulness training protects brain, enhances military performance and safety, and benefits young people's decision-making.

      Military personnel experience high stress levels during the pre-deployment interval, which negatively impacts their cognitive resourcing and overall well-being. This means that their ability to pay attention and make good decisions is decreased, making it crucial for them to be at their best before leaving for a mission. Mindfulness training has been shown to protect the brain and help military members maintain their cognitive-resourcing state, acting as a valuable tool to enhance performance and potentially even serve as a national security asset. Additionally, mindfulness can help young people make better decisions regarding their health and lifestyle, increasing the eligible pool for military service and contributing to a more mindful nation. By prioritizing mindfulness training, the military can better equip its personnel to handle the stresses of deployment and improve overall readiness and safety.

    • Incorporating Mindfulness in Military TrainingMindfulness practices in military training can lead to better performance, increased focus, and potentially saved lives

      Incorporating mindfulness practices into military training and daily life can significantly improve performance and well-being for military personnel. This is important because the high-stress environments and demanding nature of military jobs can negatively impact cognitive resources and overall performance. Skeptics may argue that mindfulness is just about feeling good or that there isn't enough time for it. However, research shows that being fully present and aware of one's surroundings and team members can lead to better connections and more effective leadership. Furthermore, minimizing distractions and focusing on one task at a time can actually increase productivity. Overall, teaching mindfulness in military training could lead to better performance, increased focus, and potentially even saved lives.

    • Practice mindfulness and create white spaceMind wandering can lead to distraction, practice mindfulness to stay focused and present, labor, laugh, learn, and love daily to enjoy the present moment.

      Our minds often wander during our daily activities, taking up half of our waking moments. This mind wandering can lead to distraction and missing out on valuable experiences. To combat this, it's essential to practice mindfulness and create white space in our day to help us stay focused and present. Janelle McCauley, a human performance expert, emphasizes the importance of laboring, laughing, learning, and loving in our daily lives to ensure we don't miss out on the joys of the present moment. To learn more about Janelle and her work, check out her website, JanelleMcCauley.com, or follow her on LinkedIn. Remember, the good parts of life aren't just saved for vacations or special occasions; they're happening right now.

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    E:83 SETTING MEANINGFUL GOALS FOR 2020

    E:83 SETTING MEANINGFUL GOALS FOR 2020

    Hi everyone! We made it through another year and another decade!

    In this episode, I'm talking about how my year went, my ups and downs and what I'm going to strive for next year. Setting meaningful goals is huge, and I talk about mine and how you can set your own. I want to hear from you so DM me your goals!

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    960 The Voice of Truth

    960 The Voice of Truth

    In your life, where does the voice of truth come from? Whose whispers gain your greatest attention?

    Maybe it's the constant failures and short-comings.

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    Maybe it's the faults of your past. 

    Maybe it's your own belief that you're never good enough.

    Why is it that we hang out with our stumbles and failures questioning our worth?

    Never once did God hesitate when He created you; fearfully and wonderfully made, knowing every hair on your head.

    Yet where is the voice of truth?

    Is it the naysayers, the badgers, the mockers? Is that where your voice of truth is being solidified and defined?

    I want you to really think about whom you are putting your trust in.

    The K.I.S.S. ~ The Voice of Truth!

    REFLECTION: Today, I want you to reflect on these three questions.

    1. Where is the voice of truth coming from?
    2. What is the voice of truth telling you?
    3. How are you using the voice of truth in your life?

    If you are hearing God, the only voice of truth, then you know you are loved, given a gift of salvation, and grace for your life's journey.

    That's the voice of truth you need to be listening to.

    Not the negative CRAP, the doubts and drama of others, and not the daily sagas of self-centered mindsets. 

    It's all about control, earthly control. What happened to Heavenly control?

    Let God wash away the torment of lies that threaten your greatness He's creating within you.

    Let it go! Let God have it all!

    Give Him your heart.
    Dedicate your life to glorify Him.
    Rejoice with the voice of truth.

    As you go out this week...

    "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!"

    May God bless you this week in all your steps, in all your endeavors. Seek His guidance. Praise His name. The voice of truth!

     

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