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    Make Out Like You Mean It

    enNovember 05, 2014

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    • Enhance your summer intimacy with PromescentDiscover longer-lasting intimacy with Promescent's delay spray for men, add extra pleasure with their warming arousal gel for women, and explore the power of the Magic Wand vibrator. Use promescent.com/emily for a discount and free shipping.

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      You can enjoy various free gifts by purchasing an item from adamandeve.com using the offer code Emily during checkout. This offer includes ten free gifts and free shipping. The discussion also touched on various sexual-related topics, including a mention of a Sex with Emily workshop and an upcoming Sexual Health Expo with notable speakers and events. The hosts shared their personal experiences and offered insights into sexual health and relationships. Additionally, they encouraged listeners to engage with their social media platforms for support and updates on upcoming events.

    • Prioritization of sex versus love differs by regionConservative states prioritize sex, while Ohio prioritizes love; kissing is crucial for maintaining healthy relationships

      Prioritization of sex versus love varies greatly depending on the region. According to a study from the book "Dataclysm," politically conservative states, such as Montana, North Dakota, and Wyoming, tend to prioritize sex over love. In contrast, Ohio is the only state that prioritizes love over sex. This trend is believed to be due to availability of potential partners; in rural areas with fewer people, individuals may prioritize sex online because they have limited options. In contrast, in larger cities like Los Angeles and New York, where sex is more readily available, individuals may prioritize love. When it comes to intimate relationships, kissing is often the first thing to fade, making it an important aspect of maintaining a healthy connection.

    • Kissing enhances sex life and emotional connectionKissing releases happy hormones, builds emotional connection, and enhances sex life. Pay attention to partner's signals and experiment with open-mouthed kisses for more passion.

      Kissing plays a significant role in enhancing your sex life and building emotional connection with your partner. It's not just a precursor to sex but also a way to release hormones that make you feel happy and more connected. However, it's essential to avoid overpowering your partner with aggressive kissing and to pay attention to their signals. A slow and gentle approach can lead to a more enjoyable and intimate experience. Remember, kissing is a form of communication, and it's important to make it about both partners, not just one. As a bonus tip, try experimenting with open-mouthed kisses and using your tongue to add more passion and intensity to your kisses.

    • Effective communication and understanding for a satisfying kissShow enthusiasm, follow partner's lead, experiment with techniques, be mindful of target, and create a unique and enjoyable experience together.

      Effective communication and mutual understanding are key elements in creating a satisfying and unique kissing experience for both partners. While the first kiss may not always involve the use of tongues, it's important to show enthusiasm and follow your partner's lead. Experimenting with different techniques, such as softly gliding your tongue over theirs or taking their bottom lip in your mouth, can help create a more intimate and enjoyable experience. Additionally, being mindful of your target and avoiding wandering lips or excessive drooling can help ensure that the kiss remains pleasant for both parties. Remember, the goal is to create a unique and enjoyable kissing experience together, so don't be afraid to take turns leading and learning from each other.

    • Start with soft, gentle kissesBegin with soft, gentle kisses on the lower lip. Use tongue sparingly and tease your partner. Mix up your kissing style and pay attention to reactions.

      When it comes to kissing, less is more. Starting with slightly parted lips, begin by kissing the lower lip with the upper lip. Avoid using your tongue right away to avoid coming on too strong. Instead, use the tongue sparingly and tease your partner by pulling back just before the lips touch. When the moment is right, gently sweep your tongue into their mouth. To keep things interesting and avoid monotony, mix up your kissing style and pay attention to your partner's reactions. Remember, your mouth is larger than a woman's, so be mindful not to engulf her whole mouth. And above all, be attentive to your partner's responses and adjust your style accordingly.

    • Exploring different kissing techniques and erogenous zones during a make-out sessionExperiment with various kissing styles and erogenous zones to enhance pleasure in a make-out session, avoiding biting and incorporating sex toys for solo activities.

      During a make-out session, experimenting with different kissing techniques can enhance the experience for both partners. Instead of sticking to one type of kiss, try a mix of soft, light kisses, deep kisses, and gentle nibbling on the lower lip. Avoid biting to prevent injuries or unwanted marks. Additionally, exploring other erogenous zones, such as the clitoris, using gentle pulling and releasing techniques, can also bring pleasure. Lastly, consider using sex toys like Fleshlights for solo activities to add variety to your masturbation routine.

    • Explore new ways to enhance your sexual experiences with sex toys and techniquesExplore the use of high-quality sex toys, such as Fleshlights and the No No Pro, and different techniques, like adding lube and full-body touches, for enhanced solo or partnered pleasure.

      Enhancing your solo or partnered sexual experiences can be achieved through the use of high-quality sex toys and exploring different techniques, such as adding lube to your Fleshlight for maximum pleasure, removing unwanted hair with the No No Pro for a smooth experience, and incorporating full-body kissing and touches. For Fleshlight users, visit sexwithemily.com and use code "Emily" to get a discount on their award-winning flesh lube. The No No Pro hair remover is available at nonoemily.com, offering a painless, easy, and long-lasting solution for unwanted hair. Remember, foreplay involves more than just kissing, so explore different ways to engage with your partner's body to create a more intimate and satisfying experience.

    • Foreplay is important for both men and womenForeplay enhances pleasure for both partners, mix it up, communicate, and ensure equal opportunity for satisfaction.

      Foreplay is not only for women's satisfaction, but it's also essential for men. Long sessions of foreplay can be enjoyable for both partners, but it's important to mix it up and ensure equal opportunity for pleasure. Foreplay doesn't have to be continuous; it can be an ongoing thing with intercourse in between. Regarding porn usage, it's normal for men to watch porn, but it becomes a problem when it interferes with their ability to have satisfying sex with their partners. If you suspect your partner is watching porn excessively, it's essential to have an open and honest conversation about it. Remember, communication is key to maintaining a healthy and satisfying sexual relationship.

    • Understanding Men's Sexual DesireApproach conversations about sex with care, understanding, and a willingness to explore new ways to enhance intimacy. Men may use porn as a coping mechanism, so be open to discussing it. Focus on expressing love and desire for the relationship, and avoid putting pressure or being aggressive.

      Sex plays a crucial role in intimate relationships and should not be overlooked or put on the back burner. When one partner expresses a lack of interest in sex, it's essential to approach the conversation with care and understanding. Men, in particular, may use porn as a stress reliever or cope with financial worries, which can affect their sexual desire. The conversation should focus on expressing love and desire for the relationship and the importance of physical intimacy. It's essential not to put too much pressure or come across as aggressive, as men may go through phases or have different preferences. Instead, be open to exploring new ways to enhance the sexual experience together, such as watching porn together or trying new things. Ultimately, the conversation should be approached with kindness, understanding, and a willingness to work together to strengthen the emotional and physical connection in the relationship.

    • Communication is key to sexual compatibilityHonest conversations about sexual desires and needs are crucial for maintaining a healthy and satisfying sexual relationship, even when libidos mismatch.

      Communication is key when it comes to sexual compatibility in long-term relationships. Mismatched libidos can be a common issue that isn't always apparent at the beginning of a relationship. It's important to have open and honest conversations about sexual desires and needs, and to understand that everyone's preferences may change over time. While it may be uncomfortable to discuss, ignoring the issue can lead to heartache and potential relationship problems. It's essential to approach the conversation with care and understanding, and to find ways to compromise and keep the relationship exciting and fulfilling for both parties. Remember, communication is the foundation of a healthy and satisfying sexual relationship.

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      Maintaining good personal hygiene is crucial for an enjoyable and satisfying sexual experience, as poor hygiene is a common complaint from both men and women. In fact, it has recently been named as the number one product you didn't know you needed by Men's Health. Therefore, it's highly recommended to invest in a product like Down Under Comfort, which can help ensure freshness and confidence in intimate situations. Visit emilyandtony.com and use the coupon code Emily to make a purchase and experience the benefits for yourself. Good hygiene is essential for building intimacy and enhancing your sexual relationships, so don't overlook this important aspect of your overall health and well-being.

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