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    • Understanding the Role of Physiological States in Emotions and BehaviorThe polyvagal theory explains that our responses to stimuli are influenced by our current physiological state. Traumatic events can trigger physiological changes leading to behavioral responses similar to those experiencing severe trauma. Regulating our physiology and feelings is crucial for resilience and maintaining a healthy, homeostatic state.

      Key takeaway from this discussion with Dr. Steven Porges is that our physiological states, specifically our autonomic nervous system, play a significant role in how we feel and behave. The polyvagal theory, proposed by Dr. Porges, explains that our responses to stimuli are influenced by our current physiological state. Events that may not seem traumatic to some can trigger physiological changes leading to behavioral responses similar to those experiencing severe trauma. Our ability to regulate our physiology and feelings is crucial for resilience and maintaining a healthy, homeostatic state. Dr. Porges shared a personal example of how a physical injury caused excruciating pain that not only affected him but also impacted those around him. Understanding the polyvagal theory can help us shift our focus from events to feelings and provide valuable insights into effective therapeutic approaches.

    • Understanding our evolutionary systems and their roles in daily lifeRecognizing the importance of the vagus nerve, sympathetic nervous system, and their roles in social engagement and physiological regulation can help us value nonverbal cues and coregulation in forming healthy relationships.

      Our bodies have evolved complex systems to help us respond to threats and engage socially. The vagus nerve, a key component of this system, has two main branches: the older branch, which can shut us down in defense, and the newer branch, which facilitates social engagement. The sympathetic nervous system, another important player, prepares us for action. These three systems work together to keep us safe and regulate our physiological state. However, in our modern culture, we often prioritize verbal communication over body language, which can disrupt the vital physiological reciprocity necessary for building relationships. Understanding these evolutionary systems and their roles in our daily lives can help us appreciate the importance of nonverbal cues and the need for coregulation in creating healthy connections.

    • Understanding the Autonomic Nervous System's Components and FunctionsThe autonomic nervous system consists of the dorsal vagus, sympathetic nervous system, and mammalian ventral vagus, each with distinct roles in controlling automatic body functions and emotional responses.

      The autonomic nervous system, which controls our body's automatic functions, is made up of several interconnected parts, each with distinct functions. The dorsal vagus is associated with shutting down or freezing, while the sympathetic nervous system is responsible for mobilization and the fight or flight response. The newest addition, the mammalian ventral vagus, is linked to the social engagement system and keeps the other parts functioning. The body makes adjustments to these responses based on past experiences, especially in the case of trauma. The dorsal vagus helps maintain reasonable autonomic tone and keep the body upright during dissociative states, while the sympathetic nervous system inhibits the dorsal vagus to prevent shutting down. The ventral vagus, with its connection to facial muscles, conveys emotions and keeps the social engagement system active. Understanding these connections can provide insight into the complex workings of the autonomic nervous system and its role in our emotional and social experiences.

    • Understanding the Role of the Nervous System in TraumaThe nervous system, specifically the autonomic nervous system, significantly impacts our response to stress and trauma. Somatic interventions, like those based on polyvagal theory, can help individuals regain a sense of safety and control, promoting healing.

      Our nervous system, particularly the autonomic nervous system, plays a crucial role in how we respond to stress and trauma. The metaphors of going ventral (relaxed and safe) and dorsal (defensive and alert) have a neurophysiological basis, and prolonged defense responses can lead to problems. While we have evolved to effectively switch between fight-or-flight and social behavior, we have not evolved efficient mechanisms for coming out of shutdown responses. This is why somatic interventions, such as those based on polyvagal theory, have been found to be effective in the trauma world. These interventions help individuals regain a sense of safety and control over their bodies, which is essential for healing. It's important to note that therapists often have multiple trainings and approaches, and no single therapy or approach is a one-size-fits-all solution. By recognizing the importance of the individual's narrative in the healing process and recruiting their nervous system as a collaborator, we can create a more effective and compassionate approach to trauma treatment.

    • Navigating Uncertainties and Promoting Personal GrowthPredictability is crucial for mental and emotional well-being. The Doctor John DeLaney show and resources like OneSkin's OS01 face topical peptide and ZOE Science and Nutrition podcast offer practical advice and solutions to navigate uncertainties and promote personal growth.

      Predictability and a sense of direction are essential for maintaining mental and emotional well-being. The lack of predictability, as seen during the pandemic, can lead to anxiety, stress, and overall devastating effects on individuals and society. The Doctor John DeLaney show, which provides practical advice and solutions to real-life challenges, offers a path to navigating these uncertainties and promoting personal growth. Additionally, simple and effective solutions, like OneSkin's OS01 face topical peptide, can help individuals focus on their long-term health without the added stress of complicated routines. Resources like the ZOE Science and Nutrition podcast also provide factual information to help individuals make informed decisions about their physical health.

    • Understanding the Impact of COVID-19 on Our Nervous SystemsThe COVID-19 pandemic's invisible, delayed, and contagious nature, combined with social distancing measures, can lead to isolation, disconnection, and problematic responses. Prioritize meaningful connections to mitigate negative effects on our nervous systems.

      The COVID-19 pandemic presents a unique challenge to our nervous systems due to its invisible, delayed, and contagious nature, exacerbated by social distancing measures that limit our natural means of connection and regulation. This paradoxical situation leaves many feeling isolated and disconnected, leading to problematic responses such as shutting down or freezing, or excessive sympathetic nervous system activation, restlessness, and pleasure seeking. The current moment, as described by the speaker, is a perfect storm of stressors that can be better understood through the lens of polyvagal theory. While video conferencing tools like Zoom offer a solution to some extent, they also present new challenges as we've spent decades learning to trivialize information on 2D screens. It's essential to be mindful of how we use these tools and prioritize meaningful connections to mitigate the negative effects on our nervous systems.

    • Understanding neuroception during the pandemicRecognize heightened physiological responses, create space between feelings and reactions, and maintain healthy social engagement to navigate pandemic challenges

      During the pandemic, many people are experiencing heightened physiological responses due to a shift into a vulnerable state. This vulnerability can lead to an increased detection of threats, even when they may not be present. This neuroception process can result in strong reactions and narratives justifying these reactions. To mitigate this, it's essential to create space between the physiological experience and the story we create about it. Additionally, the lack of social engagement during the pandemic can be both wonderful and challenging. Being trapped in close environments with others can lead to increased stress or improved connections, depending on the situation. It's crucial to acknowledge the potential challenges and work on maintaining healthy social engagement systems. This can include practicing calming techniques like breathwork, socially interacting, or even playing musical instruments. By honoring our bodily feelings and creating space between them and our reactions, we can better navigate the current situation.

    • Breathing patterns impact perception and engagementPracticing specific breathing techniques can shift our autonomic state towards social engagement, making us appear more accessible and less vulnerable, and improving our ability to connect with others.

      Our breathing patterns can significantly impact how we perceive and engage with others, as well as how we feel about ourselves. By practicing different breathing techniques, we can shift our autonomic state towards the social engagement system, making us appear more accessible and less vulnerable, and helping us connect better with others. For example, exhaling slowly and inhaling rapidly can make people seem more benevolent, while inhaling slowly and exhaling rapidly can make them appear more critical. Additionally, slowing down our speech and breathing before public speaking can help reduce anxiety and improve our performance. These techniques can be particularly valuable for individuals who have experienced trauma or are in vulnerable situations, as they can help reduce stress and increase social engagement.

    • The power of internal practices and imaginationCultivating compassion and lovingkindness within ourselves can positively impact ourselves and others, even without immediate external feedback. Our imagination and internal experiences play a crucial role in regulating emotions and building connections.

      Our internal practices, such as cultivating compassion and lovingkindness, can have powerful effects on ourselves and others, even if the external feedback is not immediate. We are all connected as a species, and our imagination and internal experiences play a significant role in regulating our emotions and building connections. The speaker's impact on an audience, even if unnoticed, can be profound, creating a sense of familiarity and comfort. If we could go back in time and speak to our younger selves, we might encourage patience, but our boldness and audacity could also serve us well. The speaker's work, although academic in nature, has a therapeutic vibe that makes it a joy to engage with.

    • Understanding the adaptive functions of our nervous system's three componentsDr. Porges' polyvagal theory emphasizes the importance of recognizing the adaptive functions of our nervous system's three major components: conserving resources, mobilizing us, and building social connections.

      Dr. Steven Porges' polyvagal theory highlights the adaptive functions of our autonomic nervous system's three major components: the unmyelinated dorsal vagal complex, the sympathetic nervous system, and the myelinated ventral vagal complex. These systems, which serve evolutionary purposes like conserving resources, mobilizing us, and building social connections, respectively, can be better understood as responses to threats or opportunities rather than inherently good or bad. Dr. Porges emphasized the importance of gratitude, humility, and nurturing the next generation, as well as the potential for his research to positively impact many lives through commercialization and patenting of his acoustic intervention. Ultimately, his work underscores the importance of recognizing the adaptive functions of our nervous system and fostering a sense of fellowship and collaboration in our pursuit of understanding it.

    • Prioritizing Calm and Connection During Challenging TimesEngage in mindful breathing to calm the mind and foster social connection. Practical strategies to navigate challenging social environments and maintain well-being.

      During challenging times, such as the ongoing COVID-19 pandemic, it's crucial to prioritize calm and connection. This can be achieved through practices like mindful breathing, which helps us engage our ventral vagal system and foster social connection. However, many people are facing unique challenges, such as limited social engagement or being stuck with toxic individuals. In such situations, Steve Borges suggested practical strategies to navigate these environments and maintain well-being. Remember to check out our new Patreon account for additional benefits, and don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review the Being Well Podcast to support us. Stay calm, stay connected.

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    Managing The “Fight” Response: Anger, Repression, and Self-Regulation

    Managing The “Fight” Response: Anger, Repression, and Self-Regulation
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    Everything You Need to Know About Therapy

    Everything You Need to Know About Therapy
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    Healing After Trauma with Dr. Peter Levine

    Healing After Trauma with Dr. Peter Levine
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    Axis of Healing & Success Part 2 - The Nervous System(s)

    Welcome! We are continuing on with last weeks' introduction to the Axis of Healing and Success. This week we are covering the nervous system(s).

    This is a very detailed breakdown of the nervous system's role in healing and creating success. I cover the role of early development and the Nervous System, Polyvagal Theory, Mental Conditioning, and Role our parents and caregiver's play in shaping how our nervous system(s) function. 

    To work with me: Email me grow@growhealchange.org, or DM me on instagram @growhealchange 

    Show Notes and Axis Diagram:  https://www.shylacash.com/blog/ghc57 

    148. Unlocking the power of polyvagal theory: Using the nervous system to wire our children for resilience, with Seth Porges

    148. Unlocking the power of polyvagal theory: Using the nervous system to wire our children for resilience, with Seth Porges

    🧠 Let's simplify some complicated neuroscience into accessible and easy-to-understand bites!

     

    Did you know that understanding the intricate ways our nervous system responds to our environment can actually help us raise children who are resilient, healthy, and mindful?

     

    Joining me today is Seth Porges. Seth co-wrote the amazing new book, Our Polyvagal World: How Safety and Trauma Change Us, along with his father, the creator of polyvagal theory, Dr. Stephen Porges. In it, this father-son duo breaks down complex science into useful, practical, and easy-to-understand (and apply) insights about just how interconnected we are. In this conversation, we take these insights and apply them to all aspects of parenthood. From helping your child to get through big emotions more easily, to helping manage the overstimulation of parenting loud and handsy little kiddos, to feeling more connected and safe in our relationships. This is definitely an episode you won't want to miss!

     

     

    I want to hear from you! Send me a topic you want me to cover or a question you want answered on the show!

    DM me on Instagram at @securelyattachedpodcast or @drsarahbren

    Send an email to sarah@drsarahbren.com

    And check out drsarahbren.com for more parenting resources

    Relaxation Techniques: 2 Minutes of Motivation

    Relaxation Techniques: 2 Minutes of Motivation

    Join us today as Kristel shares 4 relaxation practices to take care of your nervous system and reduce your stress response.

    Listen to the episode with Lee Holden

    Key Takeaways From This Episode

    • Benefits of coordinating breath and movement
    • How to perform a body scan
    • 2 scents that can help induce relaxation

    Disclaimer: All information and views shared on the Live Greatly podcast are purely the opinions of the authors, and are not intended to provide medical advice or treatment recommendations. The contents of this podcast are intended for informational and educational purposes only. Always seek the guidance of your physician or other qualified health professional when you have any questions regarding your specific health, changes to diet and exercise, or any medical conditions.

    Kristel Bauer, the Founder of Live Greatly, is on a mission to help people thrive personally and professionally. She is a corporate wellness expert, Integrative Medicine Fellow, Keynote Speaker, TEDx speaker & Physician Assistant experienced in Integrative Psychiatry and Functional Medicine. 

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    Eliza Kingsford: How to Dodge Cravings and Protect Your Mental Health

    Eliza Kingsford: How to Dodge Cravings and Protect Your Mental Health

    Are you sick of being stuck inside?

    You're in good company.

    When our survival and basic needs are threatened, our trust in authority figures broken and our human rights ignored, it's pretty easy to lose your head.

    So how can we protect our brain and nervous system in these trying times?

    Well, I’m happy to say that returning to the show this week to help us out is Eliza Kingsford, a Licensed Psychotherapist and certified Mind-Body Practitioner. She's the author of Brain-Powered Weight Loss, and she's joining me on the show to share:

    • Easy tips for navigating mental health while we're in such close quarters
    • The importance of protecting your nervous system right now
    • How to manage kids and a career, at the same time
    • The science behind why you might be struggling with food cravings more than usual (and what to do about it)
    • And tons more…

    Read the show notes: https://fatburningman.com/eliza-kingsford-how-to-dodge-cravings-and-protect-your-mental-health

    Like the show on Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/fatburningman

    Follow me on Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/fatburnman

    Click here for your free Fat-Burning Kit: http://fatburningman.com/bonus

    Yoga and poly vagal theory

    Yoga and poly vagal theory

    In this weeks episode I take a look at poly vagal theory and it's applications in yoga especially with regards to it's use with groups and individuals within a trauma informed setting.

    We discuss how I became interested in this topic, a brief introduction to the nervous system and the 10th cranial nerve (the vagus nerve), Steven Porges the psychiatrist and neuroscientist who developed the Poly vagal theory and how yoga helps us to harmonise our relationship to our nervous system.

    https://www.thebodartpractice.co.uk/ to find out more about upcoming courses.

    And some recommended reading:

    Dr. Besel Van der Kolk -The body keeps the score

    Dr. Peter Levine-Waking the tiger

    Dr. Arielle Swhwartz -The Post traumatic growth guidebook

    Dr. Steven Porges-Poly Vagal Theory