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    (Rewind): Don’t Settle For Less. Settle On What You Want

    enSeptember 09, 2022

    Podcast Summary

    • Choosing wisely in lifeFocus on finding areas of life that have potential and work on shaping them into something great, instead of settling for less.

      It's important to make meaningful choices in life instead of settling for things that don't truly fulfill us. Matthew Hussey emphasizes that we shouldn't settle on relationships or careers that are abusive, sexually unfulfilling, or completely incompatible with our values and interests. Instead, we should focus on finding areas of our lives that have the potential to meet our criteria and work on sculpting them into something great. This mindset can help us find happiness and fulfillment, rather than endlessly searching for an elusive perfect situation. Remember, the choices we make aren't the end of the world, and we have the power to shape and improve them over time. So, don't be afraid to make real decisions and bring intensity and focus to your life. And, mark your calendars for the upcoming virtual retreat in November.

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