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    Rewiring Your Motivations | Bonus Meditation with Jess Morey

    enAugust 20, 2021

    Podcast Summary

    • Examining our motivations for personal growthReflecting on our motivations and striving to rewire them for kindness and empathy can lead to personal growth.

      Understanding and reflecting on our motivations is essential for personal growth, yet often overlooked. According to Dan Harris from the "10% Happier" podcast, we can rewire our motivations, and it's important to do so as we may be driven unconsciously by our worst instincts. Harris believes that this concept is exemplified in the Apple TV Plus show "Ted Lasso," which stars Jason Sudeikis as a football coach who succeeds through kindness and empathy. The partnership between the podcast and the show aims to inspire listeners to learn from Ted's character. In summary, taking the time to examine our motivations and striving to rewire them for the better is a valuable and humbling process.

    • Start your day with mindfulness meditation and reflect on kindnessMeditate daily, reflect on kindness, and commit to actions that protect and care for life to bring positivity and understanding into relationships

      Starting your day with mindfulness meditation, as guided by Jess Mori, can help you become a kinder and more compassionate person towards yourself and others. During this practice, you reflect on how you want to show up in your relationships and commit to actions that protect and care for life. This could mean simple acts like watering plants or being kind to loved ones, but the underlying principle is treating all living things with respect and kindness. By taking a moment each day to focus on this intention, you can bring more positivity and understanding into your interactions with the world.

    • Reflecting on reducing harm and practicing generosity during mindfulnessMindfulness, self-compassion, reducing harm, practicing generosity, and nurturing friendships are all crucial for a happier, more fulfilling life.

      Mindfulness and compassion towards oneself and others can significantly improve our daily lives. During this mindfulness practice, we were encouraged to reflect on reducing harm and practicing generosity. Reducing harm means considering how we can make a positive impact on the world and those around us. Generosity, on the other hand, is about giving and being kind, no matter how small the gesture. By focusing on these two commitments and feeling the emotions in our bodies, we can create a more meaningful and connected experience. Moreover, the upcoming episode of "10% Happier" will delve into the importance of friendships and the science behind them. Friendships, although often overlooked, play a crucial role in our overall well-being. By tuning in on Monday, we'll learn from researcher Robin Dunbar about the significance of building and maintaining strong relationships. In summary, practicing mindfulness and self-compassion, focusing on reducing harm and practicing generosity, and nurturing friendships are all essential components to living a happier and more fulfilling life.

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