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    • Enhance your summer pleasure with Promescent and the Magic WandPromescent's delay spray and arousal gel, along with the Magic Wand sex toy, can help elevate sexual experiences during summer. Use promescent.com/emily for a discount on Promescent products and sexwithemily.com/magicwand for the Magic Wand.

      Summer is the season of passion and pleasure, and Promescent's line of pleasure-enhancing products can help enhance the experience. Their legendary delay spray helps men last longer, while their warming arousal gel for women provides an extra level of pleasure. The Magic Wand, an iconic sex toy, is another must-have for those seeking unapologetic pleasure and orgasms. Promescent and the Magic Wand are trusted confidants for those looking to elevate their sexual experiences. Use promescent.com/emily for a discount on Promescent products, and sexwithemily.com/magicwand for the Magic Wand. Both companies support our show, allowing us to continue bringing you valuable information.

    • Maximizing Men's Sexual ExperiencesListen to Sex with Emily for tips on enhancing sexual experiences, overcoming fear of rejection, and understanding normal sexual responses. Visit sexwithemily.com for more information.

      Men are often seeking ways to enhance their sexual experiences, and products like Max Arousal Pleasure Gel can help maximize pleasure during sex or masturbation. During the podcast, Emily discussed various topics related to sex and relationships, and mentioned a popular product for men. She also shared that her podcast is free and encouraged listeners to visit sexwithemily.com for more information. The conversation also touched upon men's hesitance to ask women out, with a listener attempting to ask someone out on the call. Despite the attempt not going as planned, the overall message was to take action and not let fear of rejection hold men back. Additionally, Emily addressed a common question about shrinkage during sex, and reassured listeners that it's a normal part of the male anatomy. Overall, the podcast provided insights and tips for improving sexual experiences and relationships.

    • Men, ask women out!Men should overcome fear and hesitation to ask women out, missing opportunities is a disappointment.

      Men need to take action and ask women out instead of creating unnecessary drama in their heads. Emily, the host of Sex With Emily, emphasizes the importance of this action, especially in today's context where people often listen to podcasts without visiting websites to engage further. Emily also encourages listeners to support sponsors like Adam and Eve, currently offering a huge discount on sex toys, by using the coupon code "Emily" for additional perks. The topic of the discussion revolves around men's hesitation to ask women out, which often leads to missed opportunities. Emily advises men to push aside their fears and just ask, emphasizing that it doesn't happen enough. She shares personal experiences and those of her listeners, highlighting the disappointment felt when a connection ends without taking the next step. The discussion aims to inspire men to take action and not let fear or hesitation get in the way of potential relationships.

    • Making the first move in relationshipsDespite fears of rejection, taking the initiative to ask someone out on a date is essential for building a relationship. Trust and authenticity are key components of successful connections.

      Even if the moment doesn't feel right, asking someone out on a date is an important step towards building a relationship. This was discussed during a radio segment where two individuals, Menace and his friend, were planning their first date. They had gone out before but had never made a formal date or kissed. Menace was nervous about asking his friend out, fearing rejection. The woman expressed that she trusted Menace and knew he would have a plan for their date. They had known each other for years and had never fooled around. Menace shared that they had been friends and had lived in different areas, preventing their relationship from progressing. He had recently stopped drinking, which he believed was a positive change for him. The conversation also touched on a listener's email about a stagnant sex life in a long-term marriage. Overall, the discussion emphasized the importance of taking action and being authentic in relationships.

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      For a stagnant sex life, considering sex toys like vibrating rings can bring pleasure to both partners. These rings have a small vibrator attached to them, which is placed over the penis during intercourse, directly stimulating the woman's clitoris. This can lead to increased pleasure for her and potentially help the man last longer. For those who prefer g-spot stimulation, there are various g-spot vibrators available, and it's recommended to read reviews and find one that suits individual preferences. Concerns about premature ejaculation with the use of sex toys are common but usually unwarranted. These toys can add to the overall experience rather than detracting from it.

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      The vibrating cock ring not only provides additional pleasure but also helps men stay erect longer. The speaker compares the experience to a nice massage with an extra special oil, and mentions that the vibration isn't the main selling point, but rather a pleasant bonus. The rings were originally invented for this purpose, making them a sort of "ring viagra." The speaker also mentions how discussing sex-related topics on the podcast can help stimulate conversations between partners, making it easier to bring up sensitive topics. Overall, the cock ring is seen as a fun and effective way to enhance sexual experiences for men.

    • Discussing methods to improve sexual performance for menAlcohol consumption after pre-gaming and breathing exercises are suggested to help men last longer during sexual intercourse.

      Menace from the podcast "Emily and Finion's Sex Podcast" suggested that consuming alcohol after practicing "pre-gaming" or masturbating before a date can help men last longer during sexual intercourse. He explained that he doesn't get the "whiskey wiener" effect and believes that alcohol enhances the effects of pre-gaming. However, he cautioned against consuming alcohol before the date, suggesting doing so after the date instead. He also mentioned that exercises, such as breathing techniques, can help men last longer. Overall, the discussion highlighted various methods men can use to improve their sexual performance.

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      Key takeaway from this episode of Sex with Emily is the importance of exploring male pleasure, specifically through the use of products designed to enhance prostate stimulation. Max For Men, a company sponsoring the show, offers a prostate gel that can help men, whether they're beginners or experienced, increase their sensation and arousal. The gel is an effective tool for men to overcome their fears and embrace the amazing pleasure the prostate can provide. Max For Men is a product line dedicated to maximizing male pleasure, performance, and attraction, and their offerings can be found on their website using the coupon code "Emily25" for a 25% discount. For more information on better sex, visit sexwithemily.com.

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