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Welcome to Episode 20, PT 2 of Getting Cheated On - This is The Dating Files, your ultimate destination for riveting dating chronicles and relationship insights! 🌹

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🎥 About the Show:
In "The Dating Files" series, we delve into the intriguing world of modern dating with your host Luke Schlabach! Join us for Episode 20 as we continue our enthralling journey through the ups and downs of romance, Luke is a true dating veteran with a wealth of experiences to share. In this episode, it gets ugly.

💔 Unfiltered Past:
Luke fearlessly opens up about his past relationships, taking us on a rollercoaster ride from his unforgettable encounters with ex-lover Brandy. Discover the captivating tale of love and heartbreak that shaped his journey.

💔 Navigating Stormy Waters:
Ever felt like you've fallen in love with the wrong person? Luke knows exactly how that feels and he shares his invaluable life lessons from those misadventures. Brace yourself as he recounts how some relationships took a sudden turn south, revealing the harsh realities and poignant insights we all can relate to.

💔 The Modern Dating Dilemma:
Modern dating can be a maze, and Luke doesn't shy away from discussing the challenges he's faced in the ever-changing landscape of love. We tackle the raw truths and complexities of navigating today's dating scene.

🔎 Episode Highlights:
🔸 Luke's personal anecdotes of love and heartbreak.
🔸 The allure and deception of fairy-tale notions of romance.
🔸 The hazards of falling for the wrong person and finding the strength to move on.
🔸 Insights into the tough world of modern dating and its impact on our lives.

🔔 Don't Miss Out!
If you're ready to explore the unfiltered truth of love, passion, and the valuable lessons learned along the way, then Episode 20 of "The Dating Files" is an absolute must-watch. Be prepared for eye-opening revelations and heartfelt conversations that will leave you reflecting on your own dating experiences.

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Growing up, Kathryn Schulz and her sister’s favorite nights were the ones their dad narrated his own stories about the adventures of Yana and Egbert from Rotterdam; A town he chose because he knew it'd make them laugh. The intentionality behind Isaac’s stories are representative of the abundance of love he aspired to share with his daughters — The love Kathryn now shares with her own.

This is where Kathryn’s memoir, Lost & Found, begins and ends. In chronicling her experience losing her father and simultaneously falling in love with her wife, she illustrates our capacity to find beauty in life’s duality.

“It is helpful to remember that beauty exists and beauty persists; And, that we can choose to side with it, champion it, and protect it."

Kathryn shares her journey grieving her father, from experiencing grief as a thousand tiny heartbreaks to acknowledging that acceptance and longing aren’t mutually exclusive. Then, beginning in the midst of his illness, her relationship showcases love’s capacity to enrich the totality of our lives.

Lost & Found is an invitation of healing and hope. Perhaps most importantly in the recognition that while love and loss are often marked by beginnings and endings, it’s savoring the middle that truly matters.

Surprise! I had the genius idea of talking about love right before Valentine's Day. I offer a unique challenge to increase the love in your life. Do you dare do the challenge I request? Wanna hear how it went for me? Well, it's all in this episode. Get your challenge on.

Falling in love is the phrase we've heard since birth. We've also learned falling hurts and "feeling" in love might not be so easy to sustain long-term. This is a topic Mandy addresses in her talk. What if we could build intimacy with someone, be seen and known and experience deeper connection? Could this help improve our relationships? Listen to find out! If you'd like to take the love questionnaire, follow this link: http://36questionsinlove.com.

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This is our first ever episode dedicated "soul-y" to answering questions from STR8 Love listeners.  Find out why watching DP aggressively lose his armpit hair was one of the funniest highlights of Jim's entire life. 

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We're talking what to do if your relationship anxiety causes you to be attracted to someone else! "If you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you truly loved the first, you wouldn't have fallen in love with the second." I dissected this popular quote (which is loaded) by Johnny Depp over on Instagram live and give you strategies for pulling out of the fantasy and reconnecting with your partner.

The signs that a man is falling in love are often right there in front of you, and there is usually doubt about how he feels about you.

Men fall in love differently than women. So, what are the signs of being in love? How do you know if he loves you?

Here are a few signs that I came up with and ofcourse there are a ton out there as well.

The signs that a man is falling in love are often right there in front of you, and there is usually doubt about how he feels about you.

Men fall in love differently than women. So, what are the signs of being in love? How do you know if he loves you?

Here are a few signs that I came up with and ofcourse there are a ton out there as well.

In this episode, Waylon discusses the two kinds of love—the kitchen sink sort of love and the lustful, passionate, honeymoon phase sort of love—and how they relate to the significance and purpose of a relationship from a Buddhist perspective. Podcast produced by: Vanessa Boehm; Music by Adam Agee, recorded live at Walk the Talk Show events. Thank you to our ethical sponsor: Aspiration. 

In this episode, Waylon Lewis talks about becoming okay with our aloneness and boredom and how these qualities can foster a truly loving relationship. Article:Valentine's Day isn't for Lovers. Book: Things I would like to do with You. Produced By: Vanessa Boehm; Music by Adam Agee, recorded live at Walk the Talk Show events. 

This is not about relationship advice, or the mature loving relationship of many years. Nor is it about being in-lust. Rather it is about that in-love place, You can’t wait to see that person again, your life is overflowing with feelings and emotions. We explore the connection of being in love with another to loving ourselves, as well as the revolutionary qualities of being in love, both the wonderful and the challenging. People’s lives change when they fall in love.

Listen in as Michael and I riff on confidence, taking risks, fantasizing, and the value of throwing out sensibility from time to time. This is not an episode only for those in love or on the verge of it. We also talk about how to access the benefits of being in love when we’re not.

• How falling in love changes us for the better and the worse

• Why gaining confidence come from taking risks

• How to dance with your dreams and benefit from fantasizing

• Fearless Self-Love Retreat: www.fearlessselflove.com
• Dancing Spirit Ranch https://www.dancingspiritranch.com/workshops-retreats/
• Brené Brown: The Daring Way https://thedaringway.org/
• Email Andrea to sign up for the retreat bonus: andrea@groundedhere.com
• Fearless Self-Love Retreat www.fearlessselflove.com
• S1 E20: The Humanity of Self-Love with Michael Joseph https://www.groundedhere.com/season-1

Show Highlights:

:58 Fearless Self love Retreat Bonus Details

03:08 Easeful Living Practice ~ Love note to self

06:48 Interview with Michael Joseph begins -- he’s seen over 100 people in that in-love stage & what it has to do with self-love

18:06 What’s confidence have to with it? How being in love bolsters our courage to try new things and also our tolerance for unhelpful behavior

24:25 Patterns of falling in love: enlivening of the senses

31:19 How to get connection with ourselves, fearlessness, oxytocin if we’re not in love

41:20 Dance with the dream, the benefits of fantasizing

48:18 The value of trusting and, at times, questioning our intuition

56:06 Courageous Self-Care Tip: Take a risk!

Your Favorite Quotes

“When we see someone in love, sometimes we actually think, ‘they’re crazy, why are they doing that, what’s that about, why are they risking everything?’” -- Michael Joseph

“[Being in love] has a bright side, it has a danger to it, but it’s very enriching.” -- Michael Joseph

“Sometimes we connect with parts of ourselves in loving another person that had been forgotten...or we didn’t know was there... we actually not only fall in love with the person, but we may fall in love with a part of ourselves that have been lost.” -- Michael Joseph

“How am I allowing my connections with others to inform my connection with myself?” --Andrea Catherine

“We often attribute to another, a power that was already in ourselves.” -- Michael Joseph

“Sometimes that in-love feeling is really kind of a need we’re speaking to--I need some stimulation, I need some novelty, I need something to test myself against.” -- Michael Joseph

“Falling in love is sort of like an emotional extreme sport.” -- Michael Joseph

“Andrea, you need to go inside yourself, and find what makes you strong.” -- Paras Moghtader, Andrea’s friend (S1 E7 Fearless Abundance of Yoga & Ayurveda) https://www.groundedhere.com/season-1

“Tapping into the dream of yourself, and taking a step in the direction of that dream, that’s self-love.” -- Michael Joseph

“You get confidence by risking being told no.” -- Michael Joseph

Meet Michael:

I'm a therapist, musician, rock climber, basketball player.  I've spent the last 30+ years of my life exploring in my own life and with my clients the nature of love, life, emotional suffering and emotional joy.  I feel privileged to be in a profession where I have the opportunity learn something everyday about life in conversation with the people who come to me.