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    Life's a Checkerboard and You're a Playing Card... DO THE WORK - Day 23

    enAugust 20, 2016

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    • Balancing Entrepreneurship and Family LifeEntrepreneurs must find a balance between building a business and spending quality time with family to avoid neglect.

      Balancing entrepreneurship and family life is a challenging task, as depicted in the story of the man who started Vitamix and his struggle to maintain a balance between growing his business and spending time with his family. This resonated with the speaker, who expressed a fear of their children recalling that they spent very little quality time together due to work commitments. The speaker emphasized the importance of finding a balance between working hard to build a business and spending quality time with family, to avoid leaving a memory of neglect. This is a common challenge for entrepreneurs and a valuable reminder for all.

    • Balancing Personal and Professional CommitmentsReflect on priorities, ensure actions align with goals, consider commitments holistically, accept trade-offs, prevent overwhelming stress

      Achieving a balance between personal and professional commitments is a constant challenge that requires deliberate thought and prioritization. As discussed in the show, the example of the Vitamix founders illustrates this struggle, as they had to make a choice between focusing on their family and their business. However, it's essential to remember that there's no one-size-fits-all solution, and everyone's situation is unique. What's crucial is to take the time to reflect on your priorities and ensure that your actions align with your goals. By considering your commitments holistically and accepting that certain areas may be neglected at times, you can begin to find a balance that works for you. Failure to do so can result in overwhelming stress and ultimately hinder your progress in both personal and professional spheres.

    • Accepting the limitations of lifeRecognize that not everything can be prioritized, admit some things will be left behind, adapt expectations, and give oneself credit for commitments made.

      Life requires making choices and accepting the consequences of those choices. The first step to managing the demands of life is acknowledging that not everything can be prioritized at once. Admitting that some things will be left behind is necessary for maintaining balance and avoiding unnecessary stress. It's essential to recognize that saying "yes" to one commitment means saying "no" to others. Furthermore, it's crucial to adapt expectations to the changing conditions of life and understand that the balance will shift. Lastly, it's essential to give oneself credit for the commitments being made, focusing not only on the negative aspects of the choices. This perspective can help reduce stress and anxiety, allowing for a more balanced and fulfilling life.

    • Managing Priorities with a CheckerboardVisualize life as a checkerboard with quadrants for personal, family, business, and have-to. Focus on affirmatives and manage time effectively by grouping smaller priorities into broader quadrants.

      Life is a constant balance of priorities, and it's essential to acknowledge the positives even when saying no to things. Our brains tend to focus on negatives, but we should try to shift our focus to the affirmative. The concept can be visualized as a checkerboard with four quadrants: personal, family, business, and have-to. Each square represents something demanding our time. By grouping smaller categories into broader quadrants, we can manage our time more effectively. Remember to give yourself credit for the yeses in life, even when saying no to many things. It's all part of the balance.

    • Life is a checkerboard, focus on a few areas at a timeRecognize personal limits, prioritize focus, and align with internal values for a more fulfilling life

      Life is like a checkerboard where we, as the playing card, can only focus on a few areas at a time. It's essential to understand that we cannot cover all aspects of our lives simultaneously and must prioritize our focus. This metaphor emphasizes the importance of saying no to distractions and future expectations to maintain balance and align with our internal values. It's a challenging concept to accept and execute, but with practice, it becomes more natural and easier to manage the conflicting choices we face daily. Ultimately, recognizing and respecting our personal limits and focusing on what truly matters most to us leads to a more fulfilling and balanced life.

    • Find balance in your life for effective time management and reducing stressPrioritize what matters most and say no to distractions to find balance, reduce stress, and make your time more productive.

      Effective time management and reducing stress involve making a strong connection between your internal knowledge and the action part of your brain. This means prioritizing what matters most and saying no to distractions. Without this balance, you may find yourself feeling overwhelmed and unproductive. Accepting this balance and focusing on your goals can lead to a more fulfilling and less stressful life. Remember, there's only so much time in a day, so make the most of it by focusing on what truly matters. By prioritizing and saying no to distractions, you can reduce stress and make your time more productive. In essence, the key to managing time effectively and reducing stress is finding balance in your life.

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