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    The Paradox of Wanting to Grow Very Old

    enOctober 14, 2021

    Podcast Summary

    • The paradox of living a long life with lost loved onesAs we age, the likelihood of losing loved ones increases, raising the question of whether a long life is worth it if it means burying those we care about.

      As we age, we may outlive those closest to us, leading to a paradoxical question of whether the extra years are worth it if we're left without the people who make life enjoyable. While some centenarians in YouTube interviews express their enjoyment of life, they also share the pain of lost loved ones. This reality raises the question of whether the prospect of living a long life is worth it if it means burying the people we care about. The older we get, the higher the likelihood that we'll experience loss. This thought, as a parent, brings up complex emotions - the desire to live a long life versus the fear of outliving our children or spouse. Ultimately, the decision of whether to embrace the prospect of a long life with potential loss or not is a deeply personal one.

    • Perspective on aging and longevityReflect on personal thoughts and feelings about aging, approach it positively with gratitude and doing the work to make the most of life, regardless of length.

      The perspective on aging and longevity can change as we go through life. While some may view growing old as a blessing, others may see it as a potential curse, especially if it means doing so alone. It's important to consider the different aspects of old age and how they may impact our lives. Ultimately, it's a personal decision and can depend on various factors such as relationships, health, and personal goals. The speaker encourages us to reflect on our own thoughts and feelings about aging and to approach it with a positive attitude, being nice, thankful, and doing the work to make the most of our lives, no matter the length.

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