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    School Is Temporary: Bullying, Friends, Self Worth & My Experience

    enJanuary 16, 2023

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    • Starting new habits, no matter the timeBegin healthy habits anytime, focus on consistency, journal, try new experiences, connect with community, and embrace small steps towards personal growth.

      Consistency is key, especially when it comes to implementing new healthy habits. The speaker shares her excitement about starting video podcast episodes, despite not feeling that the timing is perfect. She encourages listeners to begin healthy habits at any time of the year, no matter how small, and emphasizes the importance of consistency. The speaker also recommends journaling in short bursts and trying new experiences, such as new restaurants and waking up early, to enhance daily life. Additionally, she highlights the value of community and connection through the Geneva app, where busy individuals can support each other in various areas of their lives. The speaker's current obsessions include magnesium moon juice for energy and productivity, and yogurt bowls for nourishment. Overall, the speaker emphasizes the importance of taking small steps towards personal growth and embracing new experiences.

    • Practicing daily self-care and setting achievable goalsIncorporating small daily practices like waking up early, journaling, meditating, and stretching can boost mood, productivity, and overall well-being. Romanticize life, set goals, and reach out to others to show love and appreciation.

      Incorporating small daily practices and setting achievable goals can significantly improve one's mood, productivity, and overall well-being. The speaker shares her current obsessions, which include waking up early to see the sunrise, journaling, meditating, and stretching in the morning. She also emphasizes the importance of romanticizing one's life and setting goals, whether it's planning ahead, trying new recipes, or being more present and absorbing information. Furthermore, she encourages reaching out to others to show love and appreciation. A self-love question to ask oneself is how have you shown love to yourself this year that you haven't shown yourself before? The emphasis on self-care and mindfulness is a powerful reminder to prioritize ourselves and make the most of each day.

    • Staying Consistent and Finding ComfortDespite challenges, staying consistent and reaching out to loved ones can lead to progress and happiness. Overcome temporary setbacks and find comfort in relatable experiences.

      No matter how tough things may seem, consistency and reaching out to those we care about can help us progress and find happiness. Madeline, a listener of the Geneva group chat, shared her inspiring story of how Busy Yet Pretty podcast helped her through a difficult time and motivated her to pursue her dreams of modeling and content creating. The affirmation of the week emphasized the importance of being consistent instead of extreme. The weekly challenge encouraged listeners to reach out to someone they love and let them know they are appreciated. The episode discussed the topic of school being temporary and shared the speaker's experience of overcoming bullying in her past. Overall, the message is to stay consistent, find comfort in relatable experiences, and show appreciation to those around us.

    • Experiencing Bullying: Not Alone and Shaping Us for the BetterDespite the pain and isolation of bullying, remember you're not alone and can grow from the experience, empathizing with others and fostering personal growth.

      No matter how difficult or isolating your experiences with bullying may seem, you are not alone, and those experiences can shape you into stronger, more compassionate individuals. The speaker, who went through bullying in middle school and even received death threats, emphasizes that they turned out "pretty okay" and even found opportunities for growth. Bullying, as the speaker notes, is a common experience, with 73% of students reporting having experienced it in some form. During those moments, it can feel like the world is caving in, but the speaker encourages us to remember that we are not alone and that those experiences can help us empathize with others and lead us to greater personal growth. The speaker also expresses their dislike for the term "bullying," but acknowledges its importance in this context. Overall, the speaker's message is one of hope and resilience in the face of adversity.

    • Perceiving Challenges through Childhood EyesValuing self-love, self-care, and confidence can make us less accessible targets for negativity. Those who bring us down are often dealing with their own struggles and insecurities.

      Our younger selves often perceive challenges and situations as much more significant than they actually are. The speaker shares her experience of feeling deeply affected by bullying during her younger years, wishing she had more confidence to stand up for herself. However, looking back, she realizes that those who bullied her were likely dealing with their own insecurities and issues. The speaker emphasizes that when we value and love ourselves, people will treat us accordingly. Those who bring us down are often struggling with their own self-esteem and unhappiness. By focusing on self-love, self-care, and confidence, we can make ourselves less accessible targets for negativity. Ultimately, the speaker encourages us to remember that those who bring us down are a reflection of their own struggles and insecurities, not a reflection of our worth.

    • Find a compassionate doctor with ZocdocEmpower yourself with Zocdoc to find a doctor who truly listens and prioritizes your care, with patient reviews, insurance verification, and easy appointment booking.

      Prioritizing your health and well-being is essential, and you deserve a doctor who truly listens to you. The feeling of being rushed during medical appointments can be disheartening, but with Zocdoc, you can find quality doctors who focus on you and your care. The app allows you to browse patient-reviewed doctors, verify insurance information, and book appointments easily. Additionally, carrying yourself with confidence can make a significant difference in how others perceive and treat you. Even if you don't feel confident, acting confidently can lead to positive interactions. And if traditional school environments are not working out for you, consider alternative options like homeschooling or online schooling. While these methods have their advantages and disadvantages, they can provide a safer and more comfortable learning environment. Just remember to stay engaged in social activities to avoid social isolation. In the end, it's essential to prioritize your well-being and advocate for yourself in all aspects of life. Whether it's finding a compassionate doctor, standing up for yourself, or seeking alternative educational options, remember that you deserve the best.

    • Focus on personal growth during high schoolDespite challenges, remember high school is temporary and focus on personal growth, meet new people through clubs and interests, and keep a positive attitude for future opportunities.

      High school may seem daunting and full of challenges, but it's important to remember that it's a small and temporary part of life. The experiences of feeling left out, bullied, or unpopular are more common than we think, and people we perceive as having perfect lives may have gone through similar struggles. It's crucial to focus on ourselves and our own growth, rather than getting caught up in other people's opinions or gossip. Joining clubs or pursuing interests is a great way to meet like-minded individuals and make lasting friendships. Remember, the world doesn't revolve around us, and the people who may seem mean or indifferent now could be potential friends or even colleagues in the future. So, keep your head up, focus on your goals, and embrace the opportunities that come your way. High school is just a stepping stone to a bigger and better future.

    • Expand Your Social Circle Through Activities and PositivityJoining clubs and engaging in activities can help meet like-minded individuals. Be proud of your interests, avoid negativity, and focus on positivity to expand your social circle.

      Engaging in activities and joining clubs both inside and outside of school can help you meet like-minded individuals and expand your social circle. Being proud of your interests and hobbies is essential to finding friends who share the same passions. Additionally, avoiding negative talk about others and focusing on positivity can help create a more harmonious social environment. Remember, new people you meet only know what you show and tell them, so acting confident is crucial. Lastly, don't waste time on drama and negativity, but instead, focus on the endless opportunities for growth and connection that are available to you.

    • Display confidence to attract positive connectionsActing confidently, even if we feel insecure, can help us attract positive connections and transform ourselves into the best version of ourselves

      Our external display significantly influences how others perceive us and interact with us. Just like how a shattered phone is less appealing than a new one, people are drawn to those who project confidence and ability. Even if we feel insecure or unconfident inside, acting confidently can help us attract positive connections. The speaker shares her personal experience of facing bullying in school and emphasizes the importance of staying positive and focusing on the future. Despite the temporary nature of hardships, we have the power to transform ourselves into the best version of ourselves. So, keep looking for the positive and display confidence to attract positive connections.

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