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enJuly 20, 2021

“If I treated my wife as nice as I treated that damn dog...”

At the height of my marriage I was successful in sales, we had two kids, we fought about getting a dog… and I was arrogant as can be. I came home one day and there was that damn dog! It turns out if I could have been as nice to my wife as I was to that damn dog I might still be married today.

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This episode is about “if I treated my wife as nice as I treated that damn dog”. I fought with my wife about getting a dog for ever. Dawn is my x-wife and the boys mom and we get to laugh about these stories.

At the height of my marriage to Dawn I was successful in the mortgage business, I was making good money for the family… I was in my mid to late 30’s and I had a good run. Had a couple a young kids and I was arrogant, she was a stay at home mom, and I was like “I’m working, I’m producing, I’m bringing home the bacon…” And in hindsight I should be afforded certain “dickness” or “Assholeness”. I was surfing a lot. I could be frustrated when I came home.

One time I was asked to grab something from the grocery store on the way home. Which was sort of on the way by the way. And I remember, I lost my shit… I had an arrogant attitude. It was going to be out so much to go get hamburger buns and lettuce…

“Machy” was the dogs name. A little Yorky. Little bastard pissed all over the house. We started calling him the crotch warmer 2000 cause he would sleep between my legs and keep my crotch warm. God I loved that dog!

Anyway, I come home one day and there’s that damn dog. She just went ahead and got it… I was always prioritizing my stuff. God forgive I brought her some flowers now and then… I was always scared if I bought her flowers it would escalate. So lame.

God I was a pain in the ass I had lots of opinions and was real snappy. I was just what you’d expect from an A type sales guy who demanded respect. This might sound worse than it is.

I just remember that at that time I’d come home and give that dog so much love and be so forgiving of that little dog. And in spite of the dogs little hiccups it had I loved and treated that dog very good.

I had this total moment of awareness, “OMG, if I could just be as nice to Dawn as I was to that damn dog, I might still be married today.”

…I talked about it once, and people thought it was really funny and a lot of successful husbands could relate. They were like “Holy crap, I perhaps treat my pets better than I do my family.”.

Holy crap - I’ve come a long way people, I have come a long way.

I would encourage you - If you are lucky enough to have a wife, and you’re luck enough to have a pet. Please treat your significant other as well as you treat your pet.

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enJuly 19, 2021

“Do the dishes for God”

“Do the dishes for God”. That’s what somebody told me back on the day. When my life was on the line in early recovery… And I thought doing the dishes at my job was beneath me. And arrogance was seeping out of my pores… Love you John B you helped saved my life.

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“Do the dishes for God”. That’s what I had a sponsor tell me back in the day. Way way back in the day. A spiritual mentor, a sober coach, a sponsor. That’s what the call “those things” in recovery. I have been sober since I was 17 years and 9 months old. The last day of high school I was on an airplane headed to a treatment center. The judge had given me the option of, 6 months in jail, or go to treatment and get sober. Thanks to a confluence circumstances I was inspired for sobriety. And it has stuck one day at a time.

My first couple years of sobriety were kind of unruly. For the 12 steps to be affective you must take the 12 steps. The first couple of years I decided to hold meetings hostage with my complaining and crying and arrogant youthful attitude.

I came to a point at a couple years of embrace the 12 step methodology, get a sponsor… Just so you know I do not represent the 12 steps. I could flame out and then people would be like “recovery doesn’t work!”

…I was coming unglued and my sponsor John B… who was the night cook at the “Elkhorn Cafe”. And John was a calm dude. and I wanted that. So I asked John to be my sponsor and my life changed that day. And he encouraged me to do the dishes for God.

I had this habit of at the time, I was arrogant, and whenever I got a job I wanted to be boss, CEO, whatever… I did not like paying my dues…

So I worked at “Mountain High Pizza Pie” and I was tasked with doing the dishes and I was not happy about it. “Don’t you know who I am?”

I didn’t think I could survive if I had to continue to do the dishes from time to time at my job because it was beneath me and I thought I should be the manager. And he said, “Perhaps you should do the dishes for God.” “Do the dishes for God, do a good job for God.” And it worked. I was like “yes, I can do that.” Do it for something greater than myself.

And this process of the summit reminds of that… and when Kent said “stop being selfish, you are just worried about yourself, you can help so many people!” And I was reminded of yes, do what you are doing for a higher order perhaps, if you don like the word “God”… To give back…

And for whatever reason the other day, I as was looking for motivation to continue on, I was reminded of John B, “do the dishes for God.” And from then on I got much better and paying your dues, and working, and doing it for the good of the restaurant, the good of the cause… Have I said that enough.

God bless John B… he was so patient, he would just… I don’t even know what happened to him. The dude saved my life literally… We would read the “Big Book”. So much good content in there. And how he modeled recovery for me is how I still to this day 33 years later (cause it took me a couple years to getting around to asking for help) I still use that foundation that he gave me.

So John B, who used to work at the “Elk Horn Cafe” if you are listening… “I love you”. Thank you for saving my life, for giving me the time you gave me. For teaching me accountability.

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enJuly 18, 2021

“Dad, I’ve got something to tell you... I got a girl pregnant!”

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On this day my 20 year old told me he got a girl pregnant! He actually didn’t he just wanted to soften me up for some other news. And we get to hang out and talk for 3 hours because he wanted to hear my life story back when I was his age… And he sure did listen! It was kind of a wild day I must say.

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Hat Hair - My hair literally looks like a hat…

I was on a 3 hour Russell Brunson call… I’m not happy with Russel Brunson right now. “Damn you Russell Brunson! Some super exciting training he was doing live for us on the 2CCX… I got baited into it… Russell! Had plans to do all this work today… but then a 3 hour training… argh.

Purpose of this episode… What happened today, yesterday.

My 20 yr old son cooper came over to get his important mail today… These are the times I get to see him these days. “Dad, I’ve got something to tell you.” “I got a girl pregnant!”

What! “No I didn’t, but I’m moving to Los Angeles with some friends…”

My other son is 18… I feel like I’m full heading into empty nest mode.

We hung out for three hours, and talked. I got to tell him I’m proud of him… The little guy. He’s 6’2”.

I want to go strike out and try some new stuff… He wanted to hear about my times when I was his age…

Well I got sober, I was a pro snowboarder, I was in the inaugural Swatch World Snowboarding championships! But I had a brittle body so I kept hurting my ankle…

So off to fly airplanes and go to college… I almost killed myself multiple times being a dumb ass in an airplane… Yeah I’m gonna die if I do this or I’m going to be bored out of my brain flying a bus around. You’re just flying a bus and it’s more boring then that.

Than off to Bozeman for the rest of my “5 yr degree”. Where I opened a dance club w my buddy Eric. Oh I had a card room to… Before I quit gambling in 1995 because I was a gambling addict as well. I was a professional gambler. I played in the World Series of Poker in 1994. I won a seat into the Texas Hold ‘em main table.

Then I graduated w/my finance degree. “How the hell did you end up in San Francisco”…

I wanted to move to the big city :). I got an opportunity to house sit in the San Francisco bay area…

By a confluence of circumstances I became a DJ…

“What ever happened to Eric?” Eric died of AIDS. Mis you Eric, Love you Eric…

Cooper listened to it all. ‘OMG you’ve had such an amazing life”. He was captivated. “I want some of that, I want to go try new things.”

It was a very sweet moment!

I felt like if I did not tell that story it would have slipped through the cracks…

I got to tell him I loved him and am proud of him.

OMG I was broke in my mid twenties trying businesses and somehow I made it all happen. So I was scared for him for a moment…

All young people move out and figure it out.

There were a bunch of tears, and I meditated a bunch of times to let those emotions flow through. Beautiful, rich, melancholy, LIFE… Just feeling it :).

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enJuly 17, 2021

Interview #28 Arlina A. 27 years one day at a time and still growing...

Arlina A has been in recovery for 27 years and her mission is to help other people. Currently she’s filling the hole of helping women to find sobriety inside and outside of traditional recovery. Much to many’s chagrin it turns out there just may be solutions outside of the “12 steps”. Arlina is incredibly well read in the personal growth space and can put her money where her mouth is… She’s funny, fun to talk to, and just an all out amazing women. She gets into her most recent bitch slap at the end.

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Arlina A from Idaho. You can find everything Arlina here: www.Soberlifeschool.com

She was the first podcast I was on. And yes I was a little unruly on her podcast:). One day at a time podcast. https://odaatchat.com/ She’s had her podcast 5 years. June 2016. How does that happen? (Tim Ferriss)

Corporate sales history:). Celebrated shopping and the fan fare wares off. The “something I said helped her stay sober” moment that outweighed any big check moment.

Arlina’s been sober 27 years. We are not reps for AA lol.

You’ve got to give it away to keep it and I’m greedy so…

Some women don’t want to go to a “He” centered format…

The big book and 12x12 are magical. Take what you like and leave the rest.

Fear of death will manifest differently for women maybe. Men and the warrior mentality. Men are considered disposable…. What is our value? Those who are able to confront intimacy. Comparison is the thrift of joy.

What you think about you bring about. Be intentional and mindful and look at the positives. Focus on what you are doing right so you can do more of that.

I’m of the mindset that everyone is doing the best they can with the information they have in the moment. The brain-it’s an efficiency thing.

You can’t hate yourself into wellness. The inner dialogue is just ridiculous.

The whole idea about meditation is to give us a little pause between the thought and the response. The brains job is to think. That’s it’s job. But we don’t need to attach ourselves to those thoughts.

Your tool for evolution If you spot it you got it! You can’t love or hate something about yourself unless it’s something you love or hate about someone else. The pot calling the kettle black.

But it also works about the people you admire.

Making the popping sound. “Make the popping sound son.”The sound that you hear when your hard comes out of your ass. Or In a more spiritual way it’s when the veil of denial is lifted.

I had no tools to resolve my pain to resolution.

A little riff on “the steps”…

The distractions (addictions) are endless!

The limitless possibilities are available all the time.

My ability to recognize where I am making mistakes turned out to be my super power. “I am not what I do”.

Recovery is about recovering our whole selves. The good and the bad. Can you love your unloveable parts? Could I meet my dearest charterer defect with empathy and compassion?

If I’m judging others I am really judging myself…. The reverse of that is true as well. George Orwell - You get in trouble your thought crimes.

Oprah riff. She loves Oprah. Oprah introduced her to all these teachers that have blown her mind and transformed her world.

Marianne Williamson, Gary Zukav, Deepak Chopra, Wayne dyer. “The seed of the soul”, “The Dancing Wu Li Masters”

I quit the corporate life - I could not live any longer not being aligned with my purpose, which is to help others.

The practical solutions that Marianne Williamson offers. Tell me what you love about men “We’re not complicated…” (and more). I love her answer of how men are relative to women.

Gary Zhukov - what a sweet sweet soul. Depack’s meditations. Wayne Dyer. Tony Robins. “Change your mind, change your life”

Who’s the biggest pain in the ass in the world right now? Politicians.

Aa is not the only way. There are many paths to recovery. Addiction is a very complicated issue. Using people to make myself feel better. SLAA. Sex and love addicts anonymous.

I’m broken, I’ll never be fixed, I’m hopeless. At essence we are all basically the same. We are all doing the best we can with the information we have. There are teachers bringing light and love into the world. The answers are out there.

Negativity bias. Confirmation bias. There is no difference. We are all in the same boat. Often times people aren’t able to move to solution until their pain and feelings are validated.

Tara Brach - RAIN Meditation

What is it that I do want? That’s a more interesting question then what’s wrong with me… Ask better questions. We need to ask better questions.

Vulnerability and transparency and that requires a lot of courage. I have lots of unpopular options

When someone is sharing at a meeting and someone starts to cry, I hate the tissue distributors. Something is emerging, something needs to come out through tears, the are finally processing their negativity and someone shoved a tissue in their hand. It disrupts that persons process and I’m like “you fuckers!” Just let people cry - when they are ready for a tissue they will ask for one. And more on the “tissue distributors”.

I really do think that “the men should work with the men and the women should work with the women”. An recovery saying. When you know better you should do better. Not all (recovery) meetings are created equal. Some (recovery) meetings are very sick.

AA (recovery) is not the only way - people hate to hear that. We are not doctors, it is not ok to tell somebody to not to take their meditation.

There was a period where I thought I new better - I was confused about my role as a sponsor let’s say. Where I thought I new better than they did about themselves.

We are always changing. We are always evolving or devolving. Are used to think that I knew what was better for other people. I was self-righteous.

When I turned twenty (years sober) my overwhelming feeling was shame. Shame that I wasn’t “better yet”. That was the thought that came up for me and I was unprepared for it. That kind of shame Omg I still have judgments. Maybe that was when I started thinking we should focus on our assets.

Instead of looking at how far I’d come I was looking at how far I needed to go. The default mode network. It’s always challenging to break out of that default mode.

Her most recent bitch slap - she had just put her son into treatment. “I didn’t realize how asleep at the wheel I had been”. At home. I have this workaholism thing. So that was brought to light. “Like last week!”

What I know to do is double down on my self care practice. Why am I distracting so much? Why can’t I tolerate silence. Every waking moment was filled with… ( her list is awesome)

(Son is 17)

Drastic change in the way I’m feeling thinking seeing the world. I was in denial about my kids. They are video game kids. They never went anywhere or did anything…. But low and behold…. I was not aware of the facts shall we say. “I looked good for a while”. I’m awake now. To my codependency. I was paralyzed by fear. I was in denial and I didn’t even know it.

I created “Bite me” custom cookies. I’m scaling! I’m always feeding my brain and it felt like a distraction. This all came to light last week. Home Depot. More doing. I’m exhausted Mischa. I’m exhausted.

The biggest blow up she’s seen in recovery. She saw her friend at a meeting in the morning…. And she was dead 3 hours later. If you have chronic pain go see a board certified addiction specialist.

Talk about a wake up call. Hence her recovery podcast. The “One day at a time” podcast.

Rebirth stories? We see so many good things on the daily. Thousands of good things go right every day. I’ve seen some crazy ass people…. And their lives change. Some people are unrecognizable for the better. It happens all the time.

Our little worlds are so small. There’s room for us all. There’s enough crazy to go around.

Look for her “Brain Washers Club”. A membership site.

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enJuly 16, 2021

Turns out I had a lot of success going legit

Going legit at Wells Fargo Home Mortgage leads to great success! My fears of doing things by the book were totally unfounded. And I promise I'll get to the "Do the dishes for God" episode.

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I am sure the anticipation is thick… For the “Do the Dishes for God” episode. Part of my journey is trying to do things legit. Can I just do things legit.

Is that what an entrepreneur does…? Find out what the rules are and then break em without going to jail?

When I worked at WellsFargo Home Mortgage (WFHM) what I was good at was figuring out there systems and then working within those systems. Now and then you would get your hand slapped.

When I started there in 2001 many things were coming together for me. Date, sales, tech, CRM’s, telemarketing, etc. Building lists, marketing to them, and then getting the phone to ring.

I was good at leveraging the Wells Fargo brand name and the good will. WFHM has a whole process for getting your marketing approved… Of course I started by bootlegging, in an ethical way, my marketing. The issue was that you had to have the disclosures dialed in. So I didn’t know an better. I was having a ton of success… A flier ends up in the wrong hands. “Hey, these are bootlegged, what are you doing?” So that’s how I would push the envelope.. As for forgiveness and not permission, that was my forte. And bosses loved me for that and hated me for that.

I had this amazing fear that, Wells Fargo is so restrictive there’s no way they will let me work with my ideas. Better to bootleg than ask for permission. Of course when I started going through the proper channels it worked very well AND I was legit all of a sudden. It was a powerful lesson for me.

I cheated ONE TIME in high school… I don’t know what possessed me… But my history teacher saw me, said something really funny, and then let me off the hook in a real funny way.

The fliers, they were done properly. I was able to have a lot of success and follow the rules. I was also scared of having my lists scrubbed against the Wells Fargo database. Of course initially I didn’t care and they were like guess what you should. It totally worked out because I had my lists scrubbed, had my fliers approved, etc and thrived!

My god that was a long time ago by now… I will get to the do the dishes for god the next episode.

My path to legitimacy, for service…

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enJuly 15, 2021

When I say "I'm good at it"; it means "I'll do it".

Well, I don’t get to the two stories I meant to get to… But I do talk about my skill set that I am good at recording podcast episodes and what that means… Also a progress reset on where I currently stand with the projects I’m tasked to do… Turns out it’s not as all bad as I may have thought. And that feels good.

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The main purpose of this episode is “Do the dishes for God” story…

It turns out I’m good at recording episodes. When I say “I’m good at it”. I’ll do it. I could literally do it everyday. If tasked I could record an episode every day. I read good content out of ACIM… Books on the bookshelf. I’m honestly good at rambling about nothing, I’m not saying that’s good. And it turns out that that’s a skill.

We are tasked to “publish a lot”. Learn to publish, create that publishing base of content. Learn how to communicate with your audience. How to test ideas. Turns out you have to have your shit together to test ideas. I am shooting from the hip a lot. I appreciate your patience in that regard.

I chose podcast.

Where I am behind on many things, one of which is the summit, although I am on task on the summit now. (I got the required summit docs on DocuSign! Created the stuff on docusign, got it sent out to the speakers, they are officially signing on docusign, and everyone is happy!) (I feel good about that right now.).

In theory, you were supposed to start the summit starting month 2. (As it goes in the high end coaching group 2CCX I’m in.) And been done with the summit end of month 4…

Took me a little bit more to get started lol! But I am on track.

The publishing that I am doing constantly is a good thing. Where others may find it hard. Perhaps I could help other people learn how to publish more consistently? That is something that I have to offer in the group that I am in. Because they encourage us to trade services with each other… Any who it was a pleasant reminder that I am on task on track with some of the stuff although it feels like I am not on track with a lot of the stuff.

I had this vision, when the “Tools Of A Good Life Summit” is done and complete, I am very much looking to go on tour with it… Go on podcast tour. Tell people. It is a good thing to talk about. A great thing to promote. I am very excited to have that to lead to get on podcasts. I think it will be great content for the podcast hosts! People are thirsty for good content.

…Do the dishes for God. I think I am going to save that for the next episode.

Another story… If I treated my wife as nice as I treated that dog that I had… This is when I was married… OMG how good my relationship may have been…

Love to all…

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enJuly 14, 2021

I truly, at this point in my life, literally don’t know what the heck I’m doing.

I start going through my nightly inventory; what do I need to talk to my mentor about? Chicks man. Which brings up the old GF. Then I wonder what the hell I’m doing with my life… And I cap it off with a 6 or 7 minute riff on the definition of “remit”.

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I honestly don’t know what the hell I’m doing… I truly, at this point in my life, literally don’t know what the hell I’m doing.

Going over my nightly inventory :). What do I need to discuss with my mentor? “Chicks man. Chicks.” That’s what I need to talk to him about.

My last GF we broke up in November, right before Thanksgiving… And actually we were just friends… And I guess we broke up from being friends.

But I have really been off the market completely. And kind of liking it :). But now and then I wonder will I ever date again. Will I ever be compelled; other than a random, the girl, that I would see walking and crossing paths?

Update on the girl, wha wha wha. A friend told me.…did I already talk about that? See I don’t know what the hell I’m doing.

Right now in this moment… I’m like; I’ve spent all this money on this coaching program… I do have a podcast out of it. “Hey! I got a podcast out of it.” Yeah me, everybody and their brother and their dog has a podcast… And a friend says yeah, “and their cat”.

Just in this moment as I was hunting for more influencers to get on my summit I had a moment of financial insecurity. What the hell am I doing? And what am I going to do with my life? I was talking to Meg… and I was saying “I’m going to be on my death bed and wondering what I am going to do with my life?”

I looked up the word “remitted” today… And OMG it’s the longest definition in the world… Here it is! I’m not going to type it all out :).

Which led to “desist”. I better look up “Desist”. You get that too.

Ok - Remitted - 1c; to let attention or diligence slacken: relax.

OMG, I love that, it’s so good. I was not sleeping well for a bit… And my mentor was like it’s “stress”. I was like holy crap is that whats keeping me up. Stress from the summit. and I’m paying for it.

Hey bro, why don’t you just relax, that is what relaxing is!

After all the definitions… Isn’t remit (or remitted) the best word ever!?

I hope you’re listening to this as you’re going to bed and my soothing voice is putting you to sleep. Or it’s getting you excited for the office if you are listening to it in the morning.

The illusion of “alone”.

I read some notes today after a juicy meditation and such, and go down the list. Thoughts on "alone". Quick what is Gods will. An update on “the girl” (anti-climactic), which of course reminds me of a story! And some bad ass A Course In Miracles!

Episode notes:

I’d written down some notes after I’d done my meditation and done the ACIM. I’d contemplated sin, I’d contemplated, I’d contemplated death, I’d contemplated… If I could see myself in others as sinless I could have that ultimate love. I love that idea I do.

I’m going to show some vulnerability and read them to you.

What do I fear about my words, about my jovialness, about my thoughts? I am scared to push people away and be alone. So what? It becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. If I’m not being myself I’m going to not be bringing in the right people. They will not see me as authentic.

I literally can’t fuck it up! And I am alone anyway :). I.e not in a relationship. And I have a lot of alone time anyway. Ironically I am learning I am not alone… I am only alone with God. And I am a part of God and so is everyone else. So I am alone with everyone, all the time. The illusion of alone.

I am doing enough, I am enough, and so is everyone :). God has me doing what he wants me to do right now, because I am doing it. What’s Gods will? What’s happening right now. This old-timer told me that. A very wise man. “You know what Gods will is?” “It’s what’s happening right now.” God has me doing what he wants me to do right now, because I am doing it.

Update on the girl: Whahhh whahhh whahhh… It petered out so fast, before it even started… But it was fun to get a phone number.

Which reminded me of a story. Back when I was in Casper Community Collage, Harvard on the hill. My roommate Dave tells me… Talk to two new girls a day, a simple interaction, and you will find yourself a date and/or a girlfriend. He told me that and I applied it and the results were amazing. I put action out that way and this really cool girl showed up from somewhere else. She just plopped in. You can apply this to anything. I applied it to sales all the time. You apply action, the results will come, you just don’t know where from. I’ve never seen it fail. It may be as a direct result… or it may be from a perceived “random” occurrence :).

More ACIM stuff. “Nothing around you is but part of you…” “Look on it lovingly and see the light of heaven in it, so you will come to understand all that is given you.” Those were instructions.

Put your contempt aside and try it! That used to suss out contempt in me.

Everything I look at tomorrow, every person place or thing, I am going to try to consciously look on it lovingly, no matter what, and see the light of heaven in it. You know why? So I will come to understand that all is given me.

Let it rip. No apologies. And afford that to everyone else. Bam!

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enJuly 12, 2021

Here is the definition of “Sin” according to Webster…

Reading “A Course In Miracles” all the time it is always talking about sin, and that sin is an illusion. And it mentions the word A LOT. So I go ahead and look it up in the dictionary. It makes for a lot of fun. Also a tiny blurb on projecting and all as control freaks who are afraid of death :).

Episode notes:

I have not done an A Course In Miracles episode in a while. A feel like the ACIM episodes are very vulnerable for me because I start talking about God and sin and it can feel very dogmatic and I am not a very dogmatic person. Much of what ACIM talks about is that sin is an illusion, that sin is not real. That I am not sinful. That you are not sinful. That all of us, everybody, and this is the rub, everybody, even the people who you think are sinful. Are not.

We are all one… The illusion of separation, so sin is not real, because we are all what.

ACIM uses the word often.

Here is the definition of Sin according to Webster’s dictionary:

Sin

1 a: an offense against religious or moral law.
1 b: an action that is thought to be highly reprehensible.
The more we can see that sin is an illusion, than the better we will feel about others and about ourselves.
1 c: an often serious shortcoming or fault.
I am going all in on this idea that there is no sin. Can my god be big enough that there is no sin? If there is an executioner coming to get me, can I smile at him as he opens the door to the executioners room? Can I believe there is something more/greater beyond me?
2 a: a transgression of the law of god. (That’s pretty heavy)
2 b: a vitiated state of human nature in which the self is estranged from god.

I love that, we feel separate.

Vitiated:

1 to make faulty or defective/impair
2 to debase in moral or aesthetic status.
3 to make in affective.

An ineffective state of human nature in which the self is estranged from god! I love that. When I am estranged from god I am ineffective.

Sin as a Verb. Sinned sinning.

1 To commit a sin. To commit an offense or fault.

I love the idea that we are all gods children, everybody. And so none of us are committing offenses or faults, we are doing the best we can in the moment.

ACIM Chp 23, THE WAR AGAINST YOURSELF, sec "Introduction", 2.4. “It is as certain you will fear what you attack as it is sure you will love as what you perceive as sinless.” And I thought that was pretty fancy.

Some commentary on that that I am to tired to type cause I’m tired from working on the summit :).

Ok, a big thought people… So what upsets me, If I’m projecting on to people, If I look at a murderer and think they are bad it is just because I fear death. The illusion of dying in the right way. Or the right time. We are all just a bunch of control freaks who have a hard time comprehending the end.

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enJuly 11, 2021

Is that pronounced “Wean’er?” Or “Wine’er?”

On this episode I am all in on the 2021 Tools For A Good Life Summit! I am having a ton of fun interviewing the speakers and more speakers confirm. The numbers are playing out. And a little rif on my son may just fail a class and not graduate high school! I had to call him out.

Episode notes:

Register here for the Tools For A Good Life Summit www.toolsforagoodlifesummit.com! I am all in on the summit. From previous episodes I realize how much I had been hedging…

But first, please Jesus let Waylon graduate… I got the email that no father wants! “Your son is in danger of not graduating!” As I record this he has 3 weeks left of school and he has an “F” in history. I’m sorry to call you out Waylon but my god! He had all A’s last year, but the senioritous and the covid…

He’s trying, he’s gone from 25% to 37%… But he’s got a way to go… I let my guard down for a minute and… I thought he was on auto pilot and he was on auto pilot to not graduating…

But anyway, I am all in on the summit! as I was editing old episodes when I recorded this one I realized I was hedging in a big way. But just confirming again that I am all in :). Cutting the check was the all all in moment. As of this recording may 28th I have 5 of the “Tools For A Good Life Summit” interviews done. Register here www.toolsforagoodlifesummit.com!

I interviewed Craig Weiner today and he was awesome! We had a funny moment with his last name…He’s been helping people for 20-30 years. What a great guy man.

I have interviewed a diverse bunch. There is a spiritual theme through all of these speakers… They are all tapped in.

I’ve all of the sudden started clocking the hours. The universe has helped make space for that.

THe numbers are working to about 1 speaker per 10 emails. I got a couple of speakers from the 2nd invite sent to speakers. I.e. invited them again…

Recording podcast episodes has really taken a back seat… So much of my creative energy has gone to the summit that it seems to be taking from episode recording. I am 6 weeks ahead so there actually is no sense of urgency :).

The episode I just edited today, which was recorded 6 weeks ago, I wanted to not publish that episode! Cause it sucked… But I published it anyway.

A teaser for my “top tips to going through divorce gracefully” episode. It’s funny, some people don’t want to go through their divorce gracefully… They want to fight :).

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enJuly 10, 2021

Interview #27 "Meg the Awesome!"

After interview #11 Jess Beers and Interview #16 Greg Beckett, I introduce you to the fourth part and final piece of the Flow Group: Meg Gibbs! Meg has deep deep routes in Native American Shamanism and those style modalities; effectively having grown up in it with her family… She is also powerful in movement having being a trained dancer since a very young age. And, of course there, is more to the story… There are bombs a plenty in this one!

Episode notes:

I'm still working hard on the Tools For A Good Life Summit register here https://toolsforagoodlifesummit.com/ and actually take all the notes for this episode while I was walking... Not a bad job!

Find all things Meg Gibbs right here: www.Meggibbs.com

Arc of life. Megs mom died when she was young. Breast cancer 3 times. 9 - 24 effectively. Ended up being primary caregiver. Best friend etc. spiritual worker. Indigenous perspective. Meg effectively got mentored in the buis at a young age.

Grief - I get to decide. I like toTalk about grief w some sassyness. Nobody gets to decide what you’re going through but you. There are some universal truths but…

Mz- Kyle cease. The grief pattern. I finally feel like I’m on the other side of grief. My parents died at same time as her mom.

She joined a “the dinner party”. Gone through loss in 20’s and 30’s.

I like her idea of compounding loss…

That feeling of all my heart is being ripped out of my body again. Where other people take a couple days eat ice cream and are back out there… They’re like whatever I don’t care :-)

Don’t cry at the barista just get my chai and leave… Don’t cry at the barista just get my chai and leave.

You’ve got to do it the best way you know how… I so value people who show up… Even though they know they’re gonna say the wrong thing or do the wrong thing. They still show up.

“That sense of who is that part of me. What is that maybe wants to be rekindled And maybe what part wants to be let go of.

Transition to following her inspiration to become a coach… When I found Coaching I was like “You mean I get to get paid to have important conversations about people’s dreams and fears and shit that matters…

That’s the rainbow and butterflies version. But that’s not what happened… That’s not how it went.

People think coaching is advice giving. And it’s not. Coaching is about asking questions and drawing somebody’s answers out of themselves. Out of Their truths. Out of their knowing. It’s not my job to tell somebody what to do.

So I started a business in the midst of grief…. I didn’t know this was going to be hard. I just knew I’d like to talking to people. And eight years deep and I’m still trying to figure it out… We are in this for the long-haul. I signed up for this 10 or 20 year track.

Which direction do you want to go? Native American Shamanism and how powerful rich and deep that is in your life. Or the movement exercises and visualizations.

Has an alternative family…. Lesbian moms. Huge gay family. Lots of adopted family. Was trying to have a normal experience and failing…

When 11 Mom started working with a Lakota teacher so she started working with the Lakota teacher to…. And the Native American shamanism starts from there….

Godfather started the “First Existential Congregation” when she was 6. The first E…

The way I decided which collage to go to is I did a Medicean wheel in the back yard…

I was totally misunderstood in the outer world.

I want to help people feel safe in the world.

Shamanism is how I see the world. It’s very ingrained in how I see the world.

As a child I grew out unblocked. You told me to go outside and find spirit and that’s what I did.

When 17 yrs old. Meets her other teacher, Don Mariano, lives in the Andes of Peru. He is a mountain shaman vs a jungle shaman.

This integrated into how I see the world and how I show up in the world. Vs I learned a methodology and now I’m going to teach it to you.

She was in the “AP” class of healers at a young age. “I’m so weird”. I came out of the womb with no chance of being normal. And I was so mad about it as a kid. “I just wanted to be a cheerleader.”

I have these kind of seminal moments…

Dance…. The movement thing… I was 11 when I started dance…. I grew up really fast…. I had joined a conservatory and was dancing in New York by 12….

I have learned to name now “dance trauma”…. The body issue stuff from hitting puberty. I was “voluptuous”. It was a hard experience. We lied on our resumes about our weight when we were 14. It was not a realistic standard of how it is to be a person.

At some point I started Choreography and started to focus on the process and creating a sacred place of feeling safe in your body…

At 17 18 my life was over because I was not going to be able to be the professional dancer that I strives to be since I was twelve because my body type wasn’t right. There’s a meg shaped hole in the universe and I’m the only one that can fill it. That failure I experienced created the space that I hold for people.

She references “The Liz Lerman Dance Exchange”. https://www.danceexchange.org/.

At one point she works with disabled body dancers…. An amazing combo of humans. “There’s 17000 other ways to do this”.

The experience of just “being in my body” is probably the most powerful learning that I’ve had in all these years.

(MZ) One of the most powerful things that you did for me…. Find the fun ness! It’s been huge in my life. Honoring the little boy in me. I was wanting to have that piece of freedom again. And note have to be an “achievement”.

Her move to Colorado from Atlanta. She really wanted it to be California….

I just kept waiting and people kept mentioning Colorado. “But it’s cold!” A wise person tells her perhaps people are a little more grounded in the mountains. I got off the plane and knew it was right. That sense of release of having a place is really phenomenal. Deciding to stay is opening up that community. And that I am where I am supposed to be.

Kyle Cease. How did you end up at flow group? Comedy is what helps me get through. And he labeled himself as a transformational comedian. So…. Jaunting off to “EOL” In CA followed the breadcrumbs. Flow group, I had money to play with… Perhaps anti climactic for you. “Yes”.

No current relationship. Single and ready to flamingo 🦩:).

I’m open to whoever wants to waltz into my life and be the right person long term.

EMDR - to work on trauma around loss from her mom.

In a 9 month training with Resmaa Menakem who wrote “My Grandmother's Hands: Radicalized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and BodiesI”

f now is the time… what do I want to do with that?

I started doing some of the “The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up”

To help sleep “The Power of When: Discover Your Chronotype”. Different sleep chrono types.

I’ve got to get my house in order.

There is no wrong way to do it. There is no wrong way to be you in the world.

For all things Meg go to www.Meggibbs.com

…and a meditation to take us home.

Thank you Meg the awesome :)

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enJuly 09, 2021

It was like “What the F just happened? Somehow I’m divorced dad guy.”

I made my last child support payment this day… As a divorced dad it took me a while to come to terms with, “OMG I’m divorced dad guy, and I’m making child support and alimony payments?” I also discuss some of the awesome summit interviews that I have had for the “Tools For A Good Life Summit”… I’m definitely pleasantly surprised!

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I made my last child support payment today… It’s a big deal. It’s sussing out interesting emotions in me. I got separated tail end of 2010… 10.5 yrs ago. That’s a lot of years of child support payments.

As a divorced dad it took me a while to come to terms with, OMG I’m divorced dad guy, and I’m making child support and alimony payments. It was such a disassociated moment because I had worked so hard to build a family and everything… It was like, “What the F just happened?” Somehow I’m divorced dad guy.

On the one hand I was like “I can’t wait until this is over and those are done.” But I had the very distinct awareness that “You’re just going to be a lot older”. So better enjoy making the payments because when they end you are just going to be a lot older. And guess what “I’m just a lot older”.

It’s such a marker of time. Both my boys are done with high school… And heading into their 20’s. One’s already 20. It’s a trippy thing man. Life is a trippy thing.

As mentioned already, I got 35 yrs sober. “I am not the clean and sober rep.” I just happened to be a dude who is clean and sober. And got to do a good 2/3’s of his life, so far, as that. It’s trippy.

I recorded two interviews for the summit and they were awesome! They were really good. Some people are dropping some nuggets of goodness and it’s a lot of fun.

Dom The Hypnotist - https://www.domthehypnotist.com/ I was so pleasantly surprised man. He crushed it! OMG he was good. Just the positivity and the awareness… I knew when I found him, This is a down to earth legit dude man, who knows about hypnotherapy, it would be amazing if I got him on. And sure enough I did. You have his interviews to look forward to…

The other was Sheryne Willson - https://www.innermindperformance.com/ Gosh she’s beautiful, a beautiful women just A shining light, and vulnerable. And willing to go for it. I was totally crushing on her. I could be in love lol. So pleasantly surprised she had so many nuggets and bombs.

I was so pleasantly surprised with both of them. Craig Weiner is tomorrow…

Sheryne asked me a couple of great questions and caught me off guard.

It’s coming together (the summit), I don’t know how.

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I’m very grateful for my parents because they saved me a lifetime of misery. Yes they did...

I’m very reflective as I recorded this episode. It is the 35th yr anniversary of me getting clean and sober. I tell you a little about some funny moments around that week of time; as well as it is hitting me very hard how my parents effectively helped save me from a lifetime of misery.

Episode notes:

It still freaks me out that Zoom tells me “I’m Recording”.

I’m somber, yet excited, and exhausted, and hopeful, and all these emotions going through me…

May 27th, 35 years ago today, was the day I got clean and sober. I was 17 years and 9 months old. For some reason I’m feeling it today. That’s like 35 years, 3 and 1/2 decades, that is quite a thing. Just with love, and amazement, and awareness, and awe. I don’t mean that in an egotistical way… I am at awe at the workings of the universe. I am grateful and humbled.

Some people said some really sweet things to me today. To be able to take those thoughts in , those nice words in, in a group setting… Some people were very nice and impassioned in what they were saying. Just good things. To feel that love. And to see other people be really uncomfortable, as awesomeness was showered on me :).

I want you to know that 35 years ago, Judge Rank… I had graduated to Judge Rank. And when you graduated to Judge Rank you were in trouble.

My father was a lawyer in town, a lawyer of note, and he had worked a deal with judge Rank…

I have him the whole “I have a friend routine”. He said I’ve already heard the story, don’t go to school, or they will arrest you.

So he worked the deal… You can go to jail for 6 months or you can go to treatment. And by the grace of god I new that sobriety was the path. “Great you can go turn yourself in in jail”.

They let me go to the last day of high school and I walked out of school, got in a car, headed to the airport, and was on a plane to a treatment center.

Both my mother and father, who both passed away sober. Layed the foundation of recovery for me. Mom had dad had planted the seed of recovery in me. That initial spark took hold. That’s quite a thing I think. I’m very grateful for my parents, because they saved me a lifetime of misery. Yes they did.

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enJuly 07, 2021

Look, this isn’t even real, it’s already happened or it’s a week away!

As I continue to check of boxes of the summit project, each milestone I think, “Ok, now I’ll be able to get some sleep.” But it just keeps opening Pandora’s Box just a little bit further!

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Blow nose, Clear throat, have a sip of water, make sure you have a glass of water available. That is my pre episode record checklist.

This episode is about Pandora’s Box. The Pandora’s Box episode. I better record this before I go to bed, or it will be one of those that I write it down that I never get to; because I have stacks of those.

About a week ago I really started not sleep well at night. Tossing and turning, the mind churning. I’d recorded a couple interviews…

I thought that after I did the first summit interview everything would settle down. The summit interviews are very different, I’m trying to suss out usable steps for the listeners. Valuable content. I was nervous about that. That’s a lot of pressure.

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Again, the first interview was Anthony Trucks, and he told some great stories of 60,000 person stadium moments…

So after I got the 2nd interview done I would sleep better… But it’s like Pandora’s Box. Each box that I check, each checklist that I get done, it opens the box even more! So there is a whole new set of things to worry about…

Every step where I have the breakthrough and think I’m done just leads to a bigger part of the puzzle. When I committed to the “Who” I was like please let this allow me to get some sleep…

I would be rolling through the interviews in my head in the middle of the night… “This interviews done, why is it rolling though my melon?”

Look, this isn’t even real, it’s already happened or it’s a week away.

“Getting one thing done and I hope it provides relief, but it just opens the box further”.

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enJuly 06, 2021

I whipped out the credit card. That’s the ultimate level of commitment isn’t it?

Recap: 1) The amazing Dawson Church is on the summit! 2) When podcasting; make sure you’re prepared. Your nose is blown, you have your water, and you’ve cleared your throat. And 3) How the “Who” fell into place. I committed to the “Who”! And more!

Episode notes:

It is incredible now that I’m a professional podcaster all the you have to do before you hit record.

Blow your nose.
Make sure your throats clear.
Make sure you have a glass of water.

Today - a very exciting day. My 5th speaker confirmation. Dawson church. Who wrote “Bliss Brain”. Very excited about that. You have Dawson church to look forward to on the “Tools for a good life summit” click here to register.

I’m burnt out and tired today :).

I committed a to a who! I cut a check to the “who” Andrea . Andrea, Yeah! She will help me on the summit tech side of things. She is going to help me build the summit “literally”. All the website stuff. All the magic. All the automation. All the hosting. It is going to allow you to have a beautiful experience.

I whipped out the credit card. That’s the ultimate level of commitment isn’t it? Because up until that exact moment I had just been scheduling and doing interviews. Plunking out some cash. Yeah. It’s happening. July 26-28th.

It’s cool how she fell into place. She is the perfect who for me. She was who #3. Who #1’s mother told on me so I lost him. I was a little bit disturbed by the universe. It was wishful thinking that who number one would work right away. Number 2 was not a good fit either. But I learned a lot from both.

I had this moment of “it could go one of two ways.” One was panic and put everything on hold - until I found The Who. I did have that thought. …but then the next thought; Be calm no need to panic. Keep pressing on. Keep interviewing inviting speakers and The Who will drop into place when the time is right.

And then shows up Andrea :). Patient. I need some patience. She’s patient w me. And she is very good at what she does so you know you are in good hands my audience. It is going to be an amazing experience top to bottom.

Recap: How The Who fell into place. I committed to The Who. Make sure you’re prepared. Your nose is blown, you have your water, and you’ve cleared your throat.

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enJuly 05, 2021

I was interviewed for a podcast for the first time! Yay!

Two main topics of discussion today… I was interviewed for a podcast for the first time and the fun insecurities that came from that. And how am I gonna deal with time right now? Cause the illusion of time is real!

Episode notes:

Tell me what you’re gonna say say it. Tell em what you said.

I’m a bit obsessive compulsive with my phone right now as I reach out to speakers… (And I talked to that new girl.) Looking for that adrenaline pop of the “yes”.

God bless podcasting and god bless that letting go of attachment, saying what’s on your mind and being messy…. Cause Having to do it right sometimes is to much work.

Gonna talk about two things.

I was interviewed for a podcast for the first time!

How am I gonna deal with time right now? Cause the illusion of time is real.

So Arlina’s “one day at a time podcast”. You can listen to the interview here https://odaatchat.com/index.php/2021/06/02/mischa/ Up until now I was not ready to go on a podcast and I was aware of it. I didn’t want to look bad let’s say. The ego was strong.

Sometimes I have these deep metaphysical thoughts and I fell like I don’t know how to talk about them yet.

So she reached back out…. “Let’s swap episodes.”

“Let’s do it” and I volunteered to go on first. It was cool to put that fear aside and put myself out there to new levels.

I think it went good :). And I let it rip. I talked about some stuff and I was like “uh oh”.

Every five years I’m like damn “whatever I was talking about five years ago I was talking out my ass”.

“Man was I just being self important?”

As I get new ideas I assume they are new to everybody. And they’re like duh Mischa. I’ve been playing in that space for a long time. “Welcome to the party”

It’s all in good fun.

The other thing is. As I’m feeling the time crunch of the summit…. Now I’ve got to systemize the thank you’s.

Omg further behind…. And I’m editing up the interviews. I can’t spend a whole evening editing up podcast interviews. I’ve got to find a better way. That can be a who or a how. I can take bits of the summit interviews and turn those into episodes. One to pre sell and the other a cool little teaser.

Conversations that I’m naturally having with people I need to be recording them and turn that into content. And it could be super fun.

I got interviewed for a podcast! Yay!

Deal with the illusion of time. That sure does feel real!

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enJuly 04, 2021

The right information is going to come at the right time. You do not need to worry.

First a riff on how, with my hair, the look I’m going for is “Middle Aged Jesus”. And then moving from a state of busy overwhelm and a little sleeplessness to everything is happening when, and where, and how it’s supposed to. So love it. Bottom line is the summit is just a representation of, and my insecurities around the summit are just magnifications of, my insecurities around life…

Episode notes:

The look I’m going, with my hair, middle aged Jesus. Said with love and no disrespect to Jesus or any Jesus believers out there.

But then as I saw my hair getting fuller and bigger, i thought… All the pictures I’ve seen of Jesus, he does not have as much hair as I do. His is maybe a little stringier, it’s long. Shoulder length, but it’s not quite as full and curly. A little more danglier curls. Maybe that’s because they didn’t shower as much back in the day…

Again, no disrespect to Jesus, but my hair is a little fuller. So middle aged Samson, that’s the look I’m going for.

I keep having this interesting experience of being pushed to the limit relative to time and what I’m capable of doing. Then I have that peak experience, slight overwhelm state, what is happening around here? How is this gonna get done?

Then I will get a key bit done… Yesterday it was creating some templates for speakers, some responses. It seems sometimes like people don’t like templating responses because they feel it de-personalizes it. But you can do a template and have it still be personal… the details can be templated, but you make it personal around that.

We called it “one-timing” it back in the mortgage business. “One Time” it. If you are going to be sending the same thing lots of times, create it one time so then you can automate it. People know it is the important stuff I need to know, and they don’t need it re-typed every time to feel special.

Anyhow, the peak overwhelm state, is making for a few sleepless nights… So I’ve been going to god. Like in the middle of the night, hey god :). The dogma less god…

I woke up at 4:30… Went to my hour mediation. Which have been awesome my meditations are really good right now.

Although I might not be having the transcendent experiences because I’m not doing it right… According to some Kriya Yoga practitioners.

But I had the opposite of the overwhelm this morning. I had the, everything is fine, everything is ok, everything its supposed to happen, and it’s gonna happen the way its supposed to happen. I am in good hands and I am free of the attachment of how when or what is gonna go down, and it’s gonna go down the way it’s supposed to. And I love that!

How am I gonna edit the interviews for the podcast, edit the interviews for the summit, perhaps a who? A really cool ideas came to me of who I could repurpose bits of the summit interviews for the podcast and it would be promotional at the same time.

The right information is going to come at the right time. You do not need to worry. And that feels good. And having that free of the expectation of whats going to come of it. The attachment of how when and where has slipped away. At least in this moment. The right stuff is gonna happen at the right time. And not only for the summit but for life.

Everything is happening when, and where, and how it’s supposed to. So love it.

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enJuly 03, 2021

Interview #26 Sales Ascender Sean Malone

Sean Malone’s “Bitch Slap” happened to be a bottom in his business… He walked away from a 7 figure company to start anew… Make no mistake Sean Malone is good at what he does and his new business, Sales Ascenders, is on the rise and good for his family and his soul! What's the number one thing he attributes to his success? Listen in! You'll want the answer.

Episode notes:

We’ve got sales stories, sports stories, and there’s some tears. Sean is a master salesman, and a master of the sales process, you'll probably want to hire him when we're done! Catch a listen because he gives you a frameworks, tips, tricks, and tools to help you succeed.

My favorite bombs!

"Small audiences can create big revenue if you do it right."
“I had a coach that taught me the fundamentals and I practiced the craft”
“Mind work, skill work, network. Every time! “

The books he references:

"Traction: Get a Grip on Your Business" by Gino Wickman https://smile.amazon.com/dp/1936661845/ref=cm\_sw\_em\_r\_mt\_dp\_BCCXEMVPMJK6Y4KPZ9T9?\_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
"Rocket Fuel: The One Essential Combination That Will Get You More of What You Want from Your Business" by Gino Wickman https://smile.amazon.com/dp/1941631150/ref=cm\_sw\_em\_r\_mt\_dp\_HGNDXDFAPXTGEY48C431?\_encoding=UTF8&psc=1

Thank you Sean Malone! You crushed!

Check out the Sales Ascenders Inner Circle private FaceBook Group here, (it is value add all the way) perhaps they will let you in: https://bit.ly/SalesAscendersInnerCircle

You can sneak peak and demo there software here: https://bit.ly/FlowChatDemo1

And I’m still working on my Tools For A Good Life Summit - Register Here - https://toolsforagoodlifesummit.com/ So that’s all the notes you get!

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enJuly 02, 2021

It turns out I was fretting for not; I’ve comfortably landed at 20 speakers.

A real time update on where I am with the summit. If you’ve been listening to my podcast for a while you know that i’m a month or so behind from recording to publishing… But to make sure everyone knows the Tools For A Good Life Summit is happening in a big way I thought I would give a realtime update as I’m driving to IKEA killing time…

Episode notes:

A driving episode! Off to Ikea - To get Waylon a new rug for his room. I’m either getting him a new rug for his room OR I am wasting time from working on copy for the 2021 Tools For A Good Life Summit”.

As I record this episode I have 20 confirmed speakers with 15 of the interviews recorded… and that’s good and I’m happy. It’s time to shift to next steps! I was hoping for 30, and for a while I was absolutely worried I was only gonna have 4 speakers. And it turns out I was fretting for not; I’ve comfortably landed between 4 and 30 speakers at 20.

To help me get to 20 I had a few missing holes or gaps in what I wanted people to speak on so I strictly focused on those gaps… Service, nutrition, and not nutrition to get ripped but nutrition for stress management, a balanced nutrition person. Also EMDR, and DBT. And CBT.

Amy Tran is the Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT) speaker, and she was amazing, speaking to parents with kids.

Was hoping for some chill prayer… Some non dogmatic prayer… Someone to speak on talking to source. But I have a few speakers who speak to prayer so all good.

Its time to get copy together. And it’s kind of freaking me out.

There is free access and paid access. Paid access is unlimited viewing as well as bonus videos, some speakers are offering VIP bonus gifts, summit workbook, transcript, MP3’s so you can download and listen on the go…

There will be this membership page that is all within the summit funnel. There is a membership landing page where everyone goes and watches the videos, etc.

You need copy for two reasons. 1) to explain how everything works so they can partake and then 2) sales copy to entice people to register.

So I get to work on sales copy. What’s freaking me out on sales copy is it took me 6 months to figure out what to name the summit in there first place. A headline to get me started… And that headline is not sufficient, lol.

So it’s taken me so much mental effort and stamina to get here that I am scared..

So here I am going to IKEA to get Waylon a good rug for his room… One to replace the temporary one I got him a bit ago…

Teenagers are hard on things that is all there is to it… So I’m headed to Ikea to get him a nice rug and to kill time before I work on sales copy. v2

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