#jealousy

After Jesus' resurrection, He appears to some of His disciples on the beach of the Sea of Galilee. Peter is so excited to see Jesus, he runs in hauling a huge net of fish all by himself. But his exuberance is soon squelched when Jesus tells him of the death he will soon face. Peter takes his focus off of Jesus and falls. What is this exchange all about and what do Jesus' Words to Peter say to us?

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On episode 9 of the Brave Girl podcast, Jade introduces her new segment, Magical Connections. This segment highlights miracles, blessings in disguises, and damn right lucky moments that people experience on a daily basis.

Jade also explores a listener's question about her green eyed monster that is controlling her life and impacting on her relationships. Jade dives deep into how normal jealousy is, what it looks like when we let it control us, and how to diffuse jealousy in practical, grounded, and powerful ways.

All of this & more on this episode of the Brave Girl podcast!

Share your brave stories and questions to @jade.chiron on Instagram.

Music by ComaStudio.

This episode is one I've been grappling with for many years. It's hard to see friendships go, especially the ones we were in for the long haul. The truth is, death is a natural process to the flow of life and that goes for anything that ends...which is everything. Death of friendships can come about in many different ways. It could end in a drag out blow out. It could end slowly over time and slip away into the abyss. Or it could be the realization that we are no longer in alignment with someone else and so we gracefully remove ourselves. We could at either end of these situations at any time and it doesn't hurt any less. The truth is, losing friendships sucks! In this episode, I discuss why and how these things happen, the relationship to age and maturity, and touch on a few ways that I have experienced this in my own life. Just know, it's ok that friendships die. It's all part of this thing we call life. Please follow, subscribe, share, or leave a review! I hope you enjoy and I'll see you next time. 

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VIDEOS:

"What Makes a Friendship Last?"
https://www.ted.com/talks/mona_chalabi_what_makes_a_friendship_last?language=en

"The Science of Friendship"
https://youtu.be/8DbP34U3buY

TUNES:

"Let Go" by Frou Frou
https://youtu.be/13WAhlE02ew

"I'd Rather Go Blind" by Etta James
https://youtu.be/u9sq3ME0JHQ

"Ex-Factor" by Lauryn Hill
https://youtu.be/cE-bnWqLqxE

"Bye Bye Bye" by N'Sync
https://youtu.be/Eo-KmOd3i7s

A definition of bullying:  https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3918673/

Negative physical, verbal, or relational actions that (a) have hostile intent, (b) cause distress to the victim, (c) are repeated and (d) involve a power imbalance between perpetrators and victims.

What researchers have learned about it:

• There is no single profile of a young person involved in bullying. Youth who bully can be either well connected socially or marginalized, and may be bullied by others as well. Similarly, those who are bullied sometimes bully others.
• Solutions to bullying are not simple. Bullying prevention approaches that show the most promise confront the problem from many angles. They involve the entire school community—students, families, administrators, teachers, and staff in creating a culture of respect. Zero tolerance and expulsion are not effective approaches.
• Bystanders, or those who see bullying, can make a huge difference when they intervene on behalf of someone being bullied.
• Studies have shown that adults can help prevent bullying by talking to children about bullying, encouraging them to do what they love, modelling kindness and respect, and seeking help.

WHAT PARENTS CAN DO:     Ask questions of everyone, write everything down and become the most pleasant nuisance you can be until it is resolved.

Beforehand: Parents create trust with children by initiating open, honest discussions. Communicate values and learn about your child’s experience. Make it easier for your children to turn to you if they witness or experience bullying. A bully's preferred method of intimidation is to keep his victim isolated. A parent's best strategy for countering bullying is to reach out to as many people as necessary to make sure that the bullying comes to an end.

IF YOU THINK YOUR TEEN MIGHT HAVE BEEN BULLIED: Start the conversation in a general way because it’s humiliating to admit.
IF THEY AREN’T SURE IT WAS BULLYING: Ask open-ended questions to get more information about what happened, so you can help them identify bullying.
IF YOUR CHILD WAS THE BULLY:  Stay calm. Be open and listen. Ask questions. The goal is to help them learn from this and work through the reasons they did it so you can help them find other, healthy ways to deal with their feelings or situations that come up. You will also need to work with the school or parents to deal with it. 

BULLYING
https://www.stopbullying.gov/resources/teens

https://childmind.org/article/what-to-do-if-your-child-is-bullying/

https://www.kidscape.org.uk/media/133790/kidscape-log-and-school-contact-record.pdf

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/passive-aggressive-diaries/201203/what-parents-can-do-when-b

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Bec and Nat interview writer Marissa Stapley, whose writing career takes a major turn when Reese Witherspoon endorses her latest novel Lucky.

Marissa Stapley has worked as a newspaper journalist and magazine editor, and is now the internationally bestselling author of the novels Lucky, a Reese’s Book Club December 2021 Pick, The Last Resort, Things to do When It’s Raining, and Mating for Life. Her work has been published in fifteen countries and two of her novels, including Lucky, have been optioned for television. She also co-writes holiday rom-coms (The Holiday Swap, All I Want for Christmas) under the pen name Maggie Knox. She lives in Toronto with her family.

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There's no question that the teen years are the years of change. Everything is different. Nothing changes faster than our emotions. Tween years come with unique challenges. This period in life should come with a warning label. Caution: Dealing with Negative Emotions. BEWARE! 

Join me for this episode of 9 and 1/2 Podcast, where we will be discussing some common negative emotions tweens face and how to cope with those feelings. 

This week we have an extra long but super fun episode to make up for not dropping an official episode last week. Check out @underconstructionpodcast on Insta for last week's live episode. 

We throw it back to the OG pilot episode of #UCP. Put it simple ‘Cuckholding is enjoying your partner enjoy pleasure without the evolutionary adaptation of jealousy.’  How far have you evolved? (0:00)

Rocky then tells about how is 'Summer Movie' didn't pan out. (6.42)
What are your barriers and boundaries? ‘I put my phone on DND as soon as a notification comes in’ (12:37) What is rude however? ‘Link’s in the bio sis’ (15:18)

#NotLegaladvice: ‘Hospital Covid ward worker used dead patient’s bank card to buy pop and crisps’  (21:25)
We then discuss men’s ‘fear of emasculation’; Why don’t men like their nipple being sucked? / Why don’t men moan? and some advice #PegaWeek  (29:05) 

Apple sets a clear return to work roadmap (Monday, Tuesday, Thursday), what are your thoughts on how we return? Is uncertainty problematic? (45:47)

Transition: His & Her’s - Internet Money 

We dissect ‘GoFundMe culture’. Is any reason valid to make an account? (54:16)  What are your thoughts on sharing a house with a partner purely for rent purposes? (1:27:04)
Finally, Mask on/Off post pandemic? 

Outro: Air Forces - Mustafa

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Who of us hasn't had to deal with jealousy before? Whether it's that we are envious of something someone else has that we don't, or that we don't want someone else to have something we don't have, or maybe we don't want someone to be happier than us - we've all been there! Most of us know envy is sinful, but how do we get rid of it. Do we console ourselves with the fact that someone else's life is not as good as it appears? Do we remind ourselves there are many less fortunate than ourselves? Do we make a list of things we are grateful for? Or do we do something constructive for someone less fortunate to change our perspective? We've all probably heard all of these advices, but are any of them Biblical? Tune in and find out!

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In this episode we discuss Damini turning up late for Dami's birthday last week and what's expected of friends (3:30). Damini then gives a special commentary of his take on the Super League(32:00) Rocky discusses the death of Harry Uzoka and emotions that caused his death to happen (43:00). Dami tells us about an embarrassing thing that happened to her earlier in the week(58:00).

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