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    Dealing With Imposter Syndrome: Claim Yourself As A Confident Leader, part 2 of 2

    en-usSeptember 23, 2023
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    About this Episode

    In today’s episode, we continue to dive deep into the phenomenon known as imposter syndrome. This episode explores the influence of personal values on roles and success, offers exercises to identify values, discusses strengths in relation to values, highlights the benefits of defining core values, addresses why values change, debates the alignment of professional and personal values, and ends with a self-assessment on living authentically. Join us in unraveling the power of values in our lives.


    What you’ll learn:

    • The Importance of Self-Reflection: By taking the time to examine your beliefs and principles, you can make more informed decisions in both your personal and professional life.
    • Alignment Enhances Success: Aligning your values with your roles and goals can contribute to your success and overall fulfillment
    • Values Evolve: Values are not static; they can change over time due to personal growth, experiences, and shifting priorities




    00:49 How your values align with your role and with your success

    02:17 Exercises that can be done to establish one’s value

    04:05 STRENGTHS

    05:42 Benefits of defining your core values

    06:12 Why values change

    07:40 Should professional values and personal values align?

    11:44 Are you actually living like the person you claim to be?


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