Don't Miss NOW for a Regret... DO THE WORK - Day 371

Don't wait for special.  You have it every day right in front of you.  Appreciate it for what it is.

We are all trying to survive what life throws at us.  This show is my experience trying to survive and enjoy life while being an entrepreneur and a dad.  

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Whenever we take on a project it always seems so much bigger when it is in your head than on paper.  Putting it on paper frees your brain up to work on specific tasks instead of worrying about it all.

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I always wanted to live to be very old.  Now I am not sure that I do.  Here's why.

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Heard this recently and giving it a try.  Pick one person and be extra kind to them for 30 straight days.  Then see how the relationship changes. 

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I have recently started to see a lot of benefits to starting the day by thinking about how I want the day to play out and what I need to do to make it play out that way.  Call it the daily pre-mortem.  I think it helps.  Try it.

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Next time you want to blame someone else for being ____ ask yourself - what did I do about it?  We are quick to blame others when we could have done more or done things differently.  It's often partially our own fault, more than we would like to admit. Admit it and be better.

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A dailyish show focusing on the reality of being a dad, running multiple businesses and all of the organization, productivity, and lifehacking that is in place to make it all work.  The show will make you cry, laugh, like me, and hate me, but most importantly it will remind you to remember what is truly important in your life.

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#594

DO THE WORK PODCAST:

A dailyish show focusing on the reality of being a dad, running multiple businesses and all of the organization, productivity, and lifehacking that is in place to make it all work.  The show will make you cry, laugh, like me, and hate me, but most importantly it will remind you to remember what is truly important in your life.

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Produced by podcaster, entrepreneur, and dad of three daughters - Diego Footer.

#593

DO THE WORK PODCAST:

A dailyish show focusing on the reality of being a dad, running multiple businesses and all of the organization, productivity, and lifehacking that is in place to make it all work.  The show will make you cry, laugh, like me, and hate me, but most importantly it will remind you to remember what is truly important in your life.

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Produced by podcaster, entrepreneur, and dad of three daughters - Diego Footer.

#592

DO THE WORK PODCAST:

A dailyish show focusing on the reality of being a dad, running multiple businesses and all of the organization, productivity, and lifehacking that is in place to make it all work.  The show will make you cry, laugh, like me, and hate me, but most importantly it will remind you to remember what is truly important in your life.

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Produced by podcaster, entrepreneur, and dad of three daughters - Diego Footer.

It blows me away that people don’t realize that complaining about someone is actually giving them mental leverage over you.

As I reflect on it, the reason I don’t complain is probably more out of competitiveness than anything else — I just don’t want to give you the satisfaction that you have any say in how my life is going to play out. No one has say -- not my teachers, not the current state of political correctness, nothing.

This isn’t coming from a negative place, or wanting to secretly hurt other people that have hurt me. It’s about coming from a place of confidence and control.   

We're revisiting Brain Candy episodes 53 & 54 about personality tests, childhood nostalgia, and listener mail. We hear why Sarah knew she had OCD way back in 2016 and then somehow forgot despite having literally even symptom. She retook a personality test and her results now are not the same as in 2016, so we hear how she's changed. We discuss how the "worst case scenario" game she learned on Brain Candy is helpful to her still. Susie is still mourning the death of her childhood mecca, Pizza Hut, and she is demanding to speak with the manager. We debate what makes something "offensive" and whether we should apologize when we offend people.

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Is it possible to mess it up with the right person? Can you miss your chance if you make the wrong move? 

When you make a mistake, the worst feeling in the world is, "what if I had done things differently?"

We talk about how to get over your past failures in love and the mindset that will stop you living in regret. 

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Today we welcome Dan Pink who is the New York Times bestselling author of When, Drive, A Whole New Mind, and To Sell is Human. Dan’s books have won multiple awards, have been translated into 42 languages, and have sold millions of copies around the world. His articles and essays have also appeared in The New York Times, Harvard Business Review, The Atlantic, Slate, and other publications. His most recent book is called The Power of Regret: How Looking Backward Moves Us Forward. 

In this episode, I talk to Dan Pink about regret. Dan collected regrets from over 15,000 people across different countries and sorted them into four major categories. He shares insights from his research and shows us how to reframe regret so we can live out the rest of our lives with more authenticity and purpose. We also touch on the topics of happiness, mortality, philosophy, post-traumatic growth, and personality.

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Topics

02:52 The universality of regret

05:40 Demographic differences in regrets

11:53 Free will and fatalism

15:47 What could have beens

19:13 Action vs inaction

24:12 The four core regrets

28:40 Regret done right

36:04 Debunking “No regrets”

37:59 We don’t talk enough about mortality

41:20 Deathbed regrets

42:38 Regret and gratefulness

45:40 Treat yourself with kindness

47:30 Shame, guilt, remorse 

48:21 Do public figures experience more regret?

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We're back after our summer hiatus, and hopefully feeling refreshed because we have a lot of wrongs to right. We reflect a bit on our approach to fixing our mistakes, but Susie is wondering why no one is apologizing to her for their mistakes. We discuss Brain Candy episodes 43 on Trolls and episode 44 on Race in America. We hear why Sarah was engaging the trolls when we started Brain Candy, but she no longer does, and she claims Susie still falls for people who demand too much of her time and attention. Susie explains why she was cringing at their social justice warrior approach to race in the Brain Candy episode, and why she prefers to focus on people's intentions now rather than whether they say the politically correct terminology. We talk about Rachel Dolezal, the white woman who pretended to be Black because she "identifies" as such. And Sarah realizes she needs to get back to her musical preferences instead of attending concerts with majority white people.

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