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    Elissa Goodman: 3 Health Secrets From Celebrities Favorite Nutritionist & 2 Health Trends You Are Wasting Your Money On

    enJuly 22, 2024
    What role do past experiences play in personal growth?
    How do podcasts like Therapy for Black Girls help listeners?
    What dietary choices did the speaker find beneficial?
    Why is emotional well-being important in the healing process?
    How can hypnosis aid in personal healing journeys?

    Podcast Summary

    • Past experiences, personal growthOur past experiences shape our present growth and development, emphasized through various podcasts and resources focusing on mental health, personal development, self-care, and nourishing our bodies.

      Our past experiences, no matter how seemingly insignificant, contribute to our present growth and development. This idea is explored in the Therapy for Black Girls and She Pivots podcasts, which focus on mental health, personal development, and inspiring pivots women have made. Radi Devlukia's A Really Good Cry podcast encourages listeners to embrace their emotions and tune into their bodies. Mental health and self-care are essential, and resources like Calm offer accessible tools to help manage stress and anxiety. Alyssa Goodman's cleanse expertise emphasizes the importance of nourishing our bodies with whole, anti-inflammatory foods and cleansing to reset and restore our health. Overall, these podcasts and resources offer valuable insights and practical tools to help listeners become the best versions of themselves.

    • Plant-based diet and well-beingA plant-based diet can lead to improved energy and overall well-being. Listening to your body and intuition in making dietary choices, practicing self-care, and reducing stress are important for healing.

      Nourishing the body with plant-based foods can lead to improved energy levels and overall well-being. The speaker, who has personally experienced health struggles and cancer, emphasizes the importance of listening to one's body and intuition in making dietary choices. She shares how her transformation began with moving towards a plant-based diet, juicing, and practicing self-care modalities like yoga and therapy. She also highlights the importance of emotional well-being and reducing stress in the healing process. The speaker shares her belief that the mindset of believing in one's ability to heal is crucial, and she has witnessed stage four cancer heal without Western modalities.

    • Self-love and HydrationSelf-love and proper hydration are essential for overall wellbeing and healing. Nourishing foods, particularly vegetables and fruits, can be easily incorporated through juicing. Address low self-esteem, find peace within, and maintain optimal health through hydration and mineral intake.

      Self-love and proper hydration are crucial elements for overall wellbeing and healing. The speaker emphasizes the importance of addressing low self-esteem and finding peace within oneself. She also advocates for consuming nourishing foods, particularly vegetables and fruits, which can be easily incorporated into daily life through juicing. The speaker's personal experiences and recommendations are supported by resources such as "Radical Remission" and "The Heal Documentary." Additionally, the speaker highlights the importance of hydration and the often overlooked role of minerals in maintaining optimal health. By focusing on self-love, proper hydration, and nourishing food choices, individuals can promote balanced mental and physical wellbeing.

    • Proactive HealthFocusing on one change at a time, such as hydration, plant-based foods, and sleep, can lead to significant improvements in overall health. Regular blood work and muscle testing can help identify potential health issues before they become serious.

      People often wait until they experience pain or health issues before taking their wellbeing seriously. However, it's essential to prioritize health proactively. When working with clients, focusing on one change at a time, such as hydration, plant-based foods, and sleep, can lead to significant improvements. Regular blood work can help identify potential health issues before they become serious. Muscle testing is a method to help individuals determine which supplements are best for their bodies. When choosing supplements, it's crucial to minimize fillers and additives, which can cause digestive issues for some people.

    • Nutrition and Supplements, Mental HealthEducate yourself on food and supplements, learn to read labels, and prioritize simple, real ingredients for optimal health. Don't forget mental health and self-care for personal growth.

      Both food and supplements play essential roles in our overall health and wellbeing. While food should be the foundation, certain supplements, like vitamin D, are necessary for optimal health. It's crucial to educate ourselves on what we're putting into our bodies by learning to read labels and understanding the importance of simple, real ingredients. Additionally, mental health and self-care are vital components of personal growth, as discussed on podcasts like "Therapy for Black Girls" and "A Really Good Cry." By tuning in to these conversations and implementing healthy habits, we can improve our emotional wellbeing and become the best versions of ourselves.

    • Diet and Gut HealthIndividualized attention to diet and gut health is crucial for optimal well-being. Cleanses with whole, natural foods and targeted supplements can improve digestion and overall health. Proper hydration, fiber intake, and stress management are essential.

      Our diet and gut health are intricately connected, and what works best for one person may not work for another. The speaker shared her experiences with protein bars and the importance of whole, natural foods. She also discussed the different cleanses she offers, including a regular cleanse with a detox tonic, a super sea bar, bone broth or vegan broth, salads, soups, lattes, digestive enzymes, and magnesium. For those with constipation issues, there's a gut cleanse with activated charcoal, chia pudding, sauerkraut, and Tulsi tea. The goal is to clean out the digestive system and improve overall health. The speaker emphasized the importance of fiber, hydration, and proper digestion, and encouraged people to go to the bathroom once or twice a day at a minimum. She also mentioned that animal protein takes longer to digest than plant-based foods and that stress can negatively impact digestion. Overall, the speaker's message is that individualized attention to diet and gut health is crucial for optimal well-being.

    • Balance in health and wellbeingOverdoing protein or following rigid diets without considering individual needs and tolerance can lead to stress and discomfort. Listen to your body, observe 360 and find sustainable changes for overall health and happiness.

      Finding balance in health and wellbeing is a personal journey that requires commitment and understanding of individual needs. Overdoing protein intake or following rigid dietary rules without considering digestion and personal tolerance can lead to stress and discomfort. Additionally, the use of excessive supplements or over-exercising can also negatively impact health. It's essential to listen to one's body and observe the 360, taking into account various factors such as temperature, sleep, and emotional wellbeing. Food should be a source of joy and not a source of stress or pressure. The key is to find what works best for each individual and make small, sustainable changes that promote overall health and happiness.

    • Self-care basicsEat real food, stay hydrated, get enough sleep, practice self-care like meditation and yoga, avoid overdoing supplements, and connect with mind and body through practices like journaling, expressing gratitude, and spending time in nature.

      Self-love and balance are key to managing stress and maintaining good health. However, it can be overwhelming to navigate the abundance of information and choices available. To find balance, it's essential to return to the basics, such as eating real food, staying hydrated, getting enough sleep, and practicing self-care like meditation and yoga. It's important to avoid overdoing supplements and getting too worked up over small things. Additionally, getting in touch with your mind and body through practices like journaling, expressing gratitude, and spending time in nature can help you identify what works best for you. For some, plant medicine journeys with the guidance of a shaman may provide deeper insights and release of subconscious blocks, leading to greater peace, love, and self-acceptance.

    • Self-love and healingSelf-criticism often stems from childhood experiences and can be released through self-compassion, breath work, and introspection. Healing can benefit both the individual and those around them.

      Self-love and awareness are powerful tools for personal growth and healing. During a transformative experience, a woman realized the impact of her self-criticism and the root cause of it, which stemmed from her childhood. She discovered the importance of releasing old patterns and embracing self-compassion. Breath work and introspection were instrumental in her journey, allowing her to gain perspective and understand the connection between her past and present. By acknowledging and addressing the sources of her self-imposed limitations, she was able to take steps towards healing and finding peace. This process not only benefited her but also helped her clients in their own healing journeys. The awareness gained through self-reflection and healing modalities can provide valuable insights and help individuals navigate challenges in their lives.

    • Healing modalitiesEveryone's healing journey is unique, explore various modalities like meditation, plant medicine, energy healing, and self-awareness to find what works best for personal growth and consciousness.

      Everyone's journey to consciousness and healing is unique, and there is no one-size-fits-all approach. Some people find their personal awakening through meditation and being with teachers, while others may require a moment of revelation through plant medicine or energy healing like hypnosis. Hypnosis can help tap into the subconscious mind, revealing the root of issues and helping to make positive changes. Ultimately, it's essential to be open to various modalities and practices to find what works best for each individual's healing journey. Remember, our current habits and patterns are simply programming of our subconscious mind, and we have the power to reprogram it through self-awareness, reflection, and different healing modalities.

    • Self-compassion and kindnessHarsh self-judgment can lead to harsh judgment of others. Practicing self-compassion and understanding that people are going through challenges can bring positive change in the world. Inspiration from children's ability to quickly turn things around and manifest good experiences.

      Kindness towards oneself and others is a law that can bring about positive change in the world. Alyssa and the podcast host shared their belief that harsh self-judgment often leads to harsh judgment of others. They emphasized the importance of self-compassion, understanding that people are going through challenges in their lives, and the power of manifesting good things instead of focusing on the negative. Alyssa also expressed her inspiration from her daughters, who have the ability to quickly turn things around and manifest good experiences. The conversation touched on various topics, including gut health, detoxing, cleansing, and plant medicine, offering listeners a menu of options and ideas for improving their lives. Overall, the message was to stay open to new approaches and not give up when one way doesn't work.

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    Robert Greene: How to Deal with Negative People When They Are in Your Family, Friend Circle or Work

    How do you deal with negative people close to you?

    How do you stay positive around negative people?

    Today, Jay welcomes Robert Greene, known for his bestsellers like "The 48 Laws of Power" and "The Daily Laws." Robert's works draw on historical figures and events to provide insights into the dynamics of power and social influence. His books are often used as guides for personal development, leadership, and understanding the complexities of human interactions. 

    Robert shares tips on dealing with negative people, emphasizing the importance of emotional distance and understanding that everyone has their flaws and shares his thoughts on the idea that our sense of self is just a mental construct, and real enlightenment comes from letting go of our egos. He also stresses the importance of questioning your beliefs to truly understand who you are and what you’re meant to do in life. 

    Followed by Jay and Robert's discussion on why it's more important to judge people by their character rather than their intelligence or charm, how a strong character is shown by handling criticism well, working well with others, and managing stress. They also talk about how modern life can make us less empathetic and the need to genuinely connect with others. 

    In this interview, you'll learn:

    How to deal with negative people

    How to develop empathy in modern life

    How to question your own beliefs

    How to stay true to yourself

    How to handle criticism constructively

    How to manage stress effectively

    By understanding the nature of the self, maintaining emotional distance from negativity, and focusing on genuine connections, we can foster a stronger sense of empathy and authenticity in our lives.

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

    What We Discuss:

    • 00:00 Intro
    • 05:31 How to Deal with Negative People?
    • 09:04 Look Behind the Mask
    • 13:26 Getting Attracted to the Wrong People
    • 15:02 Filling Up the Emptiness
    • 17:23 Surprising Characteristics in Humans
    • 19:10 Our Capacity for Empathy
    • 21:31 What’s Your Most Repeated Thought?
    • 22:34 How Quiet the Mind
    • 24:54 Becoming More Aware
    • 30:20 How We Process What We’re Experiencing
    • 33:42 Who Really Are You?
    • 37:44 How People Think About You
    • 41:00 People’s Perception of You
    • 43:46 The Before and After
    • 46:57 Timeless Knowledge in Books
    • 49:58 What Makes You Excited?
    • 53:16 The Second Self
    • 55:57 The Core of Your Reality
    • 59:21 Limited Language
    • 01:01:41 The Limited Circle of Harmony
    • 01:04:49 Different Thoughts About the World
    • 01:11:04 Slowing Down
    • 01:13:21 Robert on Final Five  

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    4 Ways We Self-Sabotage & 3 Ways to Improve the Relationship We Have With Ourselves

    4 Ways We Self-Sabotage & 3 Ways to Improve the Relationship We Have With Ourselves

    What’s blocking you?

    What’s holding you back?

    Today, Jay talks about the concept of self-sabotage, examining how it manifests in various aspects of our lives and offering strategies for overcoming it. Self-sabotage is defined as behaviors that undermine our own success, happiness, and stated goals. These actions often occur subconsciously, rooted in deep psychological patterns formed during early childhood.

    Jay outlines four primary ways people self-sabotage: chronic lateness, procrastination, putting oneself down, and perfectionism. He also discusses the habit of putting oneself down, which can manifest through over-apologizing or refusing to take credit for accomplishments. This behavior is often linked to low self-esteem or an internalized critical voice from childhood.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    How to Recognize Self-Sabotage

    How to Stop Putting Yourself Down

    How to Change Negative Self-Talk

    How to Understand Your Triggers

    How to Set Boundaries

    By understanding and working through these patterns, you can unlock your full potential and achieve the success and happiness you desire.

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    03:08 What is Self-Sabotage?

    05:41 Passive-Aggressive Behavior

    08:22 Behavior that Counters What We Tell Ourselves

    11:08 What Leads to Self-Sabotage?

    14:26 #1: Chronic Lateness

    16:22 #2: Procrastination

    19:53 #3: Putting Yourself Down

    23:15 #4: Perfectionism

    27:01 Three Ways to Deal with Your Self-Sabotaging Behavior

    28:53 weird noise in the background

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