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    Side Effects of Aging (with Zerandrian Morris)

    enMarch 23, 2022

    Podcast Summary

    • The Importance of Clear Communication and Unexpected ConnectionsClear communication can lead to deeper conversations and unexpected connections. Affordable, high-quality education at Grand Canyon University offers opportunities for personal growth.

      No matter what form of media we choose to engage with, whether it's audiobooks or academic research, immersing ourselves in our favorite content can bring meaningful connections and insights. Zirandrian Morris, a prolific thinker and academic, shared a humorous anecdote about a misunderstood interaction that led to a deeper conversation about black women and relationships. This experience highlights the importance of clear communication and the potential for unexpected connections. Additionally, Grand Canyon University offers affordable, high-quality education with significant institutional scholarships, making it an attractive option for those seeking to further their education. Overall, the power of communication and the value of personal growth were prominent themes in this discussion.

    • From trainer to entrepreneur: Learning from marginalized communitiesUnderstanding systemic roots of issues leads to personal growth and transformation, igniting change in white organizations and society at large.

      Ignorance and intellectualism can coexist, and it's never too late to educate ourselves and make complex issues accessible to others, even if it means flipping traditional power dynamics. The speaker, a former public health professional, shared her journey from being a full-time racial equity trainer to becoming an entrepreneur helping white organizations become more anti-racist. She emphasized the importance of understanding the systemic roots of issues like racism and addiction, and the potential for personal growth and transformation when we're open to learning from those who have been marginalized. The speaker also highlighted the current groundswell of interest in anti-racism and the opportunity it presents for those who have the knowledge and motivation to make a difference.

    • Exploring aging and identityAs we age, we may discover new aspects of ourselves and the importance of self-care, connection, and compassion.

      As we age, we become more aware of our bodies as the vehicles that carry our spirits through life. This awareness can be heightened by various experiences and realizations, including personal health concerns or the loss of loved ones. For some, this awareness may also include recognizing and embracing aspects of their gender identity that may not fit neatly into traditional categories. This conversation between two friends illustrates the complexities and nuances of aging and identity, and the importance of open dialogue and understanding. As we navigate the joys and challenges of growing older, it's essential to prioritize self-care, connection, and compassion.

    • Exploring Aging, Body Image, and HealthEmbrace aging, adapt to body changes, prioritize health through physical activity, and maintain open communication with healthcare providers.

      Our bodies change as we age, and it's essential to adapt and explore new ways to maintain our health and well-being. The speaker shared her personal experiences with aging, body image, and the exploration of women's clothing and healthcare. She expressed feeling more comfortable in fitted clothes when she's slimmer and advocated for men to explore certain women's clothing based on their shape. She also discussed the challenges of aging, including the loss of flexibility and the importance of physical therapy and Pilates to maintain bone health. Additionally, she shared her experience with a benign pelvic exam and the importance of open communication with healthcare providers. Overall, the conversation highlighted the importance of embracing the changes that come with aging and taking proactive steps to maintain our health and well-being.

    • Embracing wisdom through aging and self-expressionAging brings unexpected challenges, but the wisdom gained and self-expression can help maintain a youthful spirit. Avoid creating narratives based on assumptions and communicate openly.

      Aging brings unexpected changes, and it's essential to embrace the wisdom gained along the way. The speaker shares her experience of dealing with a sudden health issue and how her mother's words of encouragement helped her maintain a youthful spirit. She also highlights the unique connection between pop culture and self-expression for the Black community. Furthermore, the speaker emphasizes the importance of not creating narratives about people based on assumptions and the need to communicate openly. In essence, aging may bring challenges, but the wisdom and experiences gained can help individuals navigate through life's uncertainties.

    • Navigating Fame and Authentic ConnectionsAmanda discusses the challenges of maintaining authentic connections in the face of fame, including discomfort with recognition and the importance of feeling comfortable in one's own skin.

      The speaker, Amanda, grapples with the complexities of fame and authentic connections. She expresses her discomfort with being recognized and the pressure to be genuine in her interactions. Amanda shares her experiences of being approached by people who claim to know her, despite not having a genuine connection. She also discusses her shyness and the importance of feeling comfortable in her own skin, both metaphorically and literally, as she ages and faces health concerns. Ultimately, Amanda reflects on the value of genuine connections and the importance of being true to oneself, even in the public eye.

    • Embracing the Challenges of Aging and Caring for Aging ParentsShift perspective on aging tasks, view as necessary upkeep, embrace process, practice self-care

      Aging comes with various responsibilities and challenges, which can feel daunting but are essential for maintaining independence and self-care. This can feel especially true when taking care of aging parents, dealing with legal matters like wills, and ensuring physical health. It's essential to shift our perspective on these tasks, viewing them as necessary upkeep rather than burdens. Moreover, the cultural perception of aging varies among different communities, with black folks often viewing aging as a source of wisdom rather than diminishment. It's crucial to embrace the process of aging and find ways to make it a positive experience. Additionally, self-care practices like meditation and exercise can help manage stress and maintain overall well-being.

    • Respecting Elders and Their WisdomAppreciate and respect the diversity and complexity of aging, value and identify unique perspectives, and preserve the wisdom and experiences of our elders.

      As we age, we face various challenges, both physically and socially. One of the most significant issues is the loss of our elders, who carry valuable wisdom and experiences. Amanda Seals shares her personal experiences of correcting someone for disrespecting her identity and the importance of respecting boundaries and gatekeeping. She also highlights the significance of preserving the wisdom of our elders, especially during times of great loss, such as the COVID-19 pandemic. Seals emphasizes the importance of valuing and identifying the unique perspectives and experiences of each generation, especially the Gen Z population, who are the only living generation spanning both analog and digital eras. Ultimately, it's essential to appreciate and respect the diversity and complexity of aging, and to take steps to preserve the wisdom and experiences of our elders.

    • Embracing the value of the pastAcknowledging lessons from the past and recognizing the role of elders in shaping culture can bring meaning to our present experiences. Embrace aging as a bridge between generations and celebrate the journey of growing older.

      Recognizing and appreciating the connections between generations and the value of learning from the past can bring meaning to our present experiences. The speaker emphasizes the importance of acknowledging the lessons from our past and the role of elder musicians and figures in shaping our understanding of culture. They also touch upon the significance of aging as a bridge between generations and the importance of embracing the journey of growing older. The speaker expresses excitement about the potential for intergenerational connections and the regalness of aging, rather than fearing it. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of honoring the past and present to create a rich and meaningful understanding of our world.

    • Embracing Aging: Opportunities for Growth and EmpowermentAging is not a negative experience, but an opportunity to embrace growth, recognize achievements of older women, and empower younger generations through experiences and platforms.

      Aging is not a negative experience, but rather an opportunity for growth and empowerment. This was a theme that emerged during a conversation about representation, resilience, and the importance of knowing history. The speaker, who has alopecia and is excited about embracing her baldness, emphasized the importance of recognizing the achievements of older women like Toni Morrison and Maya Angelou. She also noted that as we age, we may not have the same physical stamina or ability to lead in the same way as we once did, but we can still make a difference by using our experiences and platforms to empower younger generations. The conversation also touched on the importance of being conscious of our health and medical needs as we age, rather than trying to ignore or hide them. Overall, the conversation highlighted the importance of embracing the aging process and recognizing the value and contributions of older adults.

    • Acknowledging the realities of agingBeing a realist about aging means acknowledging potential challenges and taking preventative measures to prepare, without being pessimistic or paranoid. Contributing to the world through sharing perspectives is a valuable way to never truly 'age out'.

      Being a realist is an important approach to aging. The speaker acknowledges the challenges of parenting and homeownership, even if she hasn't experienced them herself. She believes in preparing for potential difficulties, whether it's through preventative measures in public health or simply being realistic about the realities of aging. The speaker emphasizes that being a realist doesn't mean being pessimistic or paranoid, but rather acknowledging the possibilities and taking steps to prevent issues when possible. She encourages everyone to put their thoughts and perspectives out there, whether through writing or other means, as a way to contribute to the world and never truly "aging out." The speaker also expresses gratitude for those who work tirelessly behind the scenes to keep things running, from healthcare workers to industrial supply providers like Grainger.

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