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    Explore " emotional fitness" with insightful episodes like "How ignored emotions show up in the body with Barbarah Nicoll M.A.", "A Magicians Tale with Ryan Michael", "Somatic Therapy and the healing you didnt know you needed w/ guest Tanya Wishlove", "Men's Work - Unlocking the Power of Emotional Fitness - Episode 240" and "Emotional Fitness (feat. David Greenwalt)" from podcasts like ""Kicked in the Junk", "Kicked in the Junk", "Kicked in the Junk", "Let's Coach with Carolyn - Career Strategist, Leadership and Life Coach" and "Salad With a Side of Fries Nutrition, Wellness & Weight Loss"" and more!

    Episodes (33)

    How ignored emotions show up in the body with Barbarah Nicoll M.A.

    How ignored emotions show up in the body with Barbarah Nicoll M.A.

    Ever have a physical injury bring up emotions you weren’t expecting or a strange reaction that caught you off guard?

    In this episode we discuss and explain why these situations can arise and different strategies to move through them.

    Barbarah shares some of her vast wisdom in the many non-traditional healing modalities she has studied over the years and her experiences in dealing with her own unexpected challenges.







    Are you at a place in your life and you feel stuck?

    Reach out to https://www.lifepurposefully.ca/ for a no charge 30min clarity call to help you find direction and take action.

    A Magicians Tale with Ryan Michael

    A Magicians Tale with Ryan Michael

    “How the hell did that do that?!”

    Not only have a said this a few times while witnessing a magic trick but also seeing someone take their passion and make it into a fulfilling career.

    In this episode I have an awesome discussion with Magician Ryan Michael about how he did exactly that. Not only do we cover how he become the top Mentalist and Illusionist in Canadian but a few challenges he overcame along the way. He shares some of his habits which clearly paid off and his mindset at an early age.

    I hope you enjoy this discussion because I know I did.

    What more Ryan Michael?
    Follow him on Instagram:

    https://www.instagram.com/ryanmichaelmagic?igsh=MWNiYzczcWJlZDNscw==

    Are you at a place in your life and you feel stuck?

    Reach out to https://www.lifepurposefully.ca/ for a no charge 30min clarity call to help you find direction and take action.

    Somatic Therapy and the healing you didnt know you needed w/ guest Tanya Wishlove

    Somatic Therapy and the healing you didnt know you needed w/ guest Tanya Wishlove

    Ever wonder what Somatic Therapy is or better yet why you should even care about it?

    In this episode I have a wonderful discussion with Tanya Wishlove regarding Somatic Therapy and her work with the nervous system.
    We dive into how our bodies can hold onto trauma we don’t even know is there and how freeing this work can be.

    I share my experiences with my own Somatic Therapy journey and how much I benefited from this type of work.

    Listen in to see how you can benefit from this work with experiences and trauma you probably aren’t even aware of.

    Want to learn more about Somatic Therapy with Tanya?
    Reach out to here at: www.kelownatraumatherapy.com

    https://kelownatraumatherapy.janeapp.com/locations/main-office/book#/staff_member/7

    Are you at a place in your life and you feel stuck?

    Reach out to https://www.lifepurposefully.ca/ for a no charge 30min clarity call to help you find direction and take action.

    Men's Work - Unlocking the Power of Emotional Fitness - Episode 240

    Men's Work - Unlocking the Power of Emotional Fitness - Episode 240

    With the state of our country, or better yet, our world, men have to reclaim their power.  Men have begun to numb themselves to certain feelings and emotions and, as a result, are acting in ways that could be detrimental to society.  There is confusion as to their role and place in society, along with men struggling with how to resolve conflict and make peace with themselves and those around them. Can we find an antidote to the numbness and a path to creating wholeness in men? 

    In this episode, sought-after coach Stephen Kotev joins us to share his insights and experiences on the troubling aspects of men and relationships, conflict resolution, embodiment, numbness, and becoming whole.  We discuss:

    •   If men have become defective 
    •   If men are owning their stuff or just numbing the pain 
    •   Giving yourself permission to make mistakes 
    •   Not getting caught in the trap of perfection and more...

    So if you are ready to reclaim your power and understand why emotional fitness is the key, tune in and be ready to take lots of notes. For the women in our audience, you'll want to tune in to understand the men in your life better. 


    Connect with Steve: https://stephenkotev.com/
    Connect with Carolyn: https://carolyn360.com or use the code leader to meet Carolyn on the Owwll app - https://infinitycoaching.net/appleowwll 

    Emotional Fitness (feat. David Greenwalt)

    Emotional Fitness (feat. David Greenwalt)

    The Salad With a Side of Fries podcast is hosted by Jenn Trepeck, discussing wellness and weight loss for real life, clearing up the myths, misinformation, bad science & marketing surrounding our nutrition knowledge and the food industry. Let’s dive into wellness and weight loss for real life, including drinking, eating out, and skipping the grocery store. 

    Today, Jenn is joined by David Greenwalt, creator of the Leanness Lifestyle University. He has been coaching people on weight management for over 20 years and has a science-based approach to helping people get lasting effects. David shares his program's pillars: nutrition, exercise, and emotional fitness. He deep dives into what Emotional Fitness is and why it is necessary for a permanent lifestyle change. Tune in today to learn how to set your WHYpower to achieve your wellness goals.

    IN THIS EPISODE:

    ●   [4:30] How did David get started in health and fitness?

    ●   [10:13] Why are quick answers around health and fitness doing people a disservice? 

    ●   [14:56] David explains the nutrition pillar of long-term health and weight management. 

    ●   [19:02] David discusses the exercise pillar of long-term health and weight management.

    ●   [22:43] What is Emotional Fitness?

    ●   [33:02] How does someone start building the muscle of Emotional Fitness?

    ●   [43:40] What impact does compassion have on Emotional Fitness?

    ●   [48:34] What is WHYpower, and why is it better than willpower?

    KEY TAKEAWAYS:

    ●   60%-90% of what we eat in the United States is ultra-processed. Focus on just 1% daily, make a simple swap in your diet, and then keep building from there. You don’t have to do a complete 180 with your eating; taking baby steps and reducing the ultra-processed food in your diet will lead you to better health.

    ●   Focus on what you want, not what you fear or don’t want. Practice gratitude exercises to focus on the positivity in your life. Accept what we cannot change, have the courage to change what we can, and always seek wisdom to know the difference. 

    ●   Emotional fitness is what keeps the food and exercise pillars going. It is also about feeling authentically good more often, increasing emotional resilience, making better decisions in moments of stress, and having improved self-awareness.

    ●   Why Power: Doing what needs to be done, when it needs to be done, whether you feel like it or not. If you have a strong enough WHY you will show up for yourself. Understand your goals and understand why it is so personally important to you, then you will stick with it.

    QUOTES: 

    “My real food adaptation is this: it is whole, minimally processed, edible parts of plant and animal where/if anything has been added to it, it is whole or minimally processed ingredients commonly found in kitchens.” - David Greenwalt

    “Anything that's pure cardio, you're not going to keep the muscle. The only way you are going to keep the muscle, which is so precious for all the reasons I mentioned and more, is strength training; it's the only way. You are for sure going to lose muscle as you age if you don't do strength training.” - David Greenwalt 

    “Emotional fitness is about helping us feel authentically good more often, increasing emotional resilience, making better decisions in the moment of stress, and having improved self-awareness and regulation.” - David Greenwalt

    RESOURCES:

    Become A Member of Salad with a Side of Fries

    Jenn’s Free Menu Plan

    A Salad With a Side of Fries

    A Salad With a Side of Fries Instagram

    GUEST RESOURCES: 

    Leanness Lifestyle University

    David Greenwalt Instagram

    David Greenwalt Facebook

    Leanness Lifestyle University YouTube Channel

    David Greenwalt LinkedIn

    GUEST BIO:

    Leanness Lifestyle University was founded in 1999 by David Greenwalt. As an early adopter of the Internet, David saw the potential of two-way real-time communication unique to this form of media.

    Leanness Lifestyle was launched from inception with a science-based educational framework. Having worked directly with clients since 1986, David had already realized that “calories in, calories out” messaging didn’t work.

    David knew the only real way to help people lose fat, keep muscle, and then keep the fat off permanently was to educate and provide a truly personal touch. Leanness Lifestyle was the first online program to couple nutrition, exercise, and emotional-fitness education with accountability, motivation, and personal support.

    Many evolutions and advancements have occurred since 1999 and continue today.

    David is a Certified Wellness Coach earning his certification from the leading authority of wellness training—WellCoach™. Today, now more befitting of the original and continued education mindset, the website is called Leanness Lifestyle University (LLU). LLU provides a robust online campus with tools that lead the field in recording, tracking, reporting, and scoring the behaviors optimal for successful weight management. LLU is completely mobile and tablet friendly too!

    What Shape Are Your Emotions In? DTH Episode 133... Talking Emotional Fitness with Matthew & Chantal of 5th.Place

    What Shape Are Your Emotions In? DTH Episode 133... Talking Emotional Fitness with Matthew & Chantal of 5th.Place

    What Shape Are Your Emotions In?

    Did you know that emotions had a shape? I personally did not until I was approached recently by this week's guests. As someone who talks a lot on the podcast about emotions and how we need to understand and react well to our emotions, I was intrigued. It wasn't until I began to look in to Matthew & Chantal from 5th.Place that I knew about the Shape of Emotion...

    What is the "Shape of Emotion?"

    "
    Shape of Emotion is a model, process and tool of how we structure, store, represent and regulate our inner feeling states."  Working at the intersection of mindfulness and affective science, Chantal Dawtrey and Matthew Green of 5th Place developed Shape of Emotion as one way to address the scale of the mental health problem that stands in the way of learning, potential and hope. You can find some incredible tools and learn more about Shape of Emotion by visiting the 5th.Place website or listening to Matthew & Chantal's podcast "Emotions Matter. Really!"

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    Male Friendships & Using Sports to Connect | Andrew Cox | Sup' Man

    Male Friendships & Using Sports to Connect | Andrew Cox | Sup' Man

    Andrew Cox is more than just a businessman-- he's also a trainer, lifestyle coach, and educator in health and fitness. His ultimate goal? To lead others towards proactive health so that they can experience sustainable levels of vitality and performance. Something Andrew knows quite well from his own experiences playing sports as a youngster and continuing his movement practice into adulthood with capoeira training. In addition to being Joint Dynamics Ltd.'s Co-Founder and Director, Andrew positively impacts Hong Kong's wellness industry by modeling compassionate leadership within both his family unit and social circles.

    In this episode, we explore male friendships - how to do friendships after marriage and making new ones as adults. We also talk about ways to stay connected through fitness routines and share some laughs along the way.

    If you want to know more about what we're tackling in life, or if you just want to contact us, all the links are in the show notes.

    Tune in at

    www.tacklingminds.com 🎙 🎧

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    Mental Health Self-Care, Getting Out of Your Comfort Zone and Emotional Fitness with Dr. Emily Anhalt of Coa

    Mental Health Self-Care, Getting Out of Your Comfort Zone and Emotional Fitness with Dr. Emily Anhalt of Coa

    Today's guest Dr. Emily Anhalt believes that mental health issues are much easier to prevent than they are to fix. That's why we're discuss mental health self care or what she calls "Emotional Fitness." Dr. Emily Anhalt is a psychologist and the Co-Founder and Chief Clinical Officer of Coa, the gym for mental health. She is the leading researcher into the 7 traits of emotional fitness, a specialist in therapy for entrepreneurs and executives, an international speaker, and author.

    In this episode we discuss…

    • How we can prepare for tough times in life by doing emotional pushups
    • Why self-care isn’t always comfortableself care tips
    • What are the 7 traits of emotional fitness
    • Overcoming the time constraint of self-care
    • The amazing practice called a worry hour
    • The stress of success pressure aka HUSTLE PORN
    • The power of taking action now
    • This awesome daily journal that Emily uses

    If you love this conversation and want to try out Coa and it's membership, use code 'yogamagic' for 50% off your first month of membership. 

    Learn more:

    Follow Coa on Instagram: @joincoa

    Follow Emily on Instagram: @dremilyanhalt

    Learn more about Coa: www.joincoa.com

    Follow along on Instagram: @yogamagicpodcast and @ashley.sondergaard

    Learn more about Ashley and Yoga Magic at www.ashleysondergaard.com

     

    Let's stay connected! 

    Get the Cosmic Self-Care Mini Course for FREE when you sign up for our email list HERE. 

     

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    Book a Joint Astrology and Human Design Reading with Ashley & Sarah Leverett | During these 1 hour joint readings, Sarah will cover the basics of your Human Design chart including type, strategy, & authority. Then, Ashley will cover the key components of your natal chart & how you can work with the energy of your chart in your life today.

    Book a 1:1 Cosmic Self-Care Session with Ashley  | Learn how to use your astrological birth chart to personalize your self-care routines, rituals and practices with this 60 minute session and customized self-care plan. 

    Book a Birth Chart Reading with Ashley | Learn about the key components of your natal chart and how you can work with the energy in your life today during this 30 minute reading.

    61. Nataly Kogan on how to strengthen our humanity

    61. Nataly Kogan on how to strengthen our humanity

    We often overlook one of the most important relationships we have in our life. The relationship with ourselves. On this episode, Jen Fisher talks with Nataly Kogan, emotional fitness expert, founder and CEO of Happier, and author of “The Awesome Human Project: Break Free from Daily Burnout, Struggle Less, and Thrive More in Work and Life”, about how to look at ourselves and others through the lens of our awesome humanity by strengthening five emotional fitness skills - acceptance, gratitude, self-care, intentional kindness, and compassion, and the bigger why. 

    Corey Corpodian

    Corey Corpodian
    Corey believes in the power of working out. And this isn’t about working out your body and achieving physical fitness; it’s about working out your mind and achieving emotional fitness. Once he discovered how impactful mastering your mind and emotions are, he was able to double his income while working less, buy his dream beach house, and find the love of his life. This ability to shift his mental congruence allowed him to become a renowned consultant and motivational speaker in the world of business. Corey is the founder of Unleash Success and the author of Emotional Fitness. In his podcast, he has interviewed renowned entrepreneurs like Tom Bilyeu and Sam Bakhtiar to inspire people to achieve emotional fitness and unleash success.

    46: How I Became A Grief Coach

    46: How I Became A Grief Coach

    Because it’s May, and Aria died in May- I want to share my story again and a little bit about my journey to become a grief coach.

    -Very quick version of a very long story

    -My journey through grief and wanting to help others

    -As a grief coach, what’s important for me to do

    Links to any resources:When my daughter Aria died suddenly 4 years ago, I wondered if my life was over. My heart felt shattered into a million pieces. How was I supposed to go on without such an important person in my life? How can I breathe when I'm literally suffocating and drowning? It was difficult to describe my pain; it was an endless feeling of hopelessness.

    I carried sharp, intense grief for years. I felt as if I failed my daughter as her mother, and was terrified it would affect my other children as well. Everything felt so bleak and empty. What was the point and the purpose of life?

    It's difficult to describe this pain to someone who doesn't understand the depth and duration of child loss. There is something about this connection among us as grieving mothers, that we can speak without words.

    If you are a grieving mother, and looking for connection, hope, and ways to move forward after the death of a child, join me in 3 days of grief support. In this space, you will find support, encouragement, and deep knowing amongst other grieving mothers.

    Join to save your spot, go to www.reliefingriefsupportgroup.com. Again, in these 3 days, we are going to be walking through How everyone grieves differently, Emotions and stages of grief, and noticing thoughts patterns and emotions that come up for you in your grief journey. To join go to www.reliefingriefsupportgroup.com

    If you are a grieving mother and looking for others who know the pain of child loss, come join my free Grieving Moms Community Facebook group: www.meganhillukka.com/community

    Encore What to do with Conflicted Feelings

    Encore What to do with Conflicted Feelings
    It is hard enough to have one overwhelming emotion take over our thoughts and behaviors. But it is even more difficult for most of us to have two or three very opposite emotions. Our thoughts tell us that we should argue for these positions so that one of the emotions “wins.” But is that really what is the most effective plan? Is it possible that conflicted emotions can help us to heal, even help us to plan our lives in some way? Well, today we are going to be talking to Relationship Strategist and Emotional Fitness coach Jennifer Williams to answer some of these questions. If you have ever experience conflicted feelings, this show is for you. Don’t miss it.

    45: Triggers and Anniversaries

    45: Triggers and Anniversaries

    It’s still crazy how suddenly your life can be flipped upside down and everything changed in an instant. Today I want to talk about triggers, death dates, and how to navigate them. Everyone will navigate them differently, but I want to offer some things that have helped me so that these days are not all bad.

    There’s a quote I heard, never waste a trigger. I love this quote. Because we are triggered, we want to avoid things. We want to run away from it, and never look, or see something. Whatever our trigger is. But when you can notice your triggers, these triggers are just things that present to you, that can show you what you can work on if you want to work on it. I believe fully that triggers can be healed. That you can work through them and instead of being a trigger, they only bring up a memory instead.

    -Different ways of coming to anniversary days

    -Noticing the thoughts you are thinking surrounding the day

    -Noticing the triggers and working with them

    -What we have done for Aria’s death date


    Links to any resources:When my daughter Aria died suddenly 4 years ago, I wondered if my life was over. My heart felt shattered into a million pieces. How was I supposed to go on without such an important person in my life? How can I breathe when I'm literally suffocating and drowning? It was difficult to describe my pain; it was an endless feeling of hopelessness.

    I carried sharp, intense grief for years. I felt as if I failed my daughter as her mother, and was terrified it would affect my other children as well. Everything felt so bleak and empty. What was the point and the purpose of life?

    It's difficult to describe this pain to someone who doesn't understand the depth and duration of child loss. There is something about this connection among us as grieving mothers, that we can speak without words.

    If you are a grieving mother, and looking for connection, hope, and ways to move forward after the death of a child, join me in 3 days of grief support. In this space, you will find support, encouragement, and deep knowing amongst other grieving mothers.

    Join to save your spot, go to www.reliefingriefsupportgroup.com. Again, in these 3 days, we are going to be walking through How everyone grieves differently, Emotions and stages of grief, and noticing thoughts patterns and emotions that come up for you in your grief journey. To join go to 

    www.reliefingriefsupportgroup.com

    If you are a grieving mother and looking for others who know the pain of child loss, come join my free Grieving Moms Community Facebook group: www.meganhillukka.com/community

    Episode 27: What Do the Students Want?

    Episode 27: What Do the Students Want?

    To empower students is quite simple. Help them to be seen and heard. Show them that they matter.

    Everyone is discussing the impact of this year's school closures while politicians and school leadership make plans for the changes that will occur when schools reopen.

    Educators are demanding that their voices be heard in these decisions and parents are wanting more choices in how to proceed.

    There is one group though who is impacted the most by these decision, yet their opinions are rarely sought after.

    What do the students want?

    For this episode, we asked several students this question. Will you join Compassionate Educators in asking your students and children what their concerns are as well as what they most look forward to? 

    Let's change lives together.

    Join our Facebook community at https://www.facebook.com/groups/compassionateeducationresources/  for more resources.

    Register here for the FREE Emotional Fitness Workshop beginning on May 18 https://www.compassionateeducators.com/workshop.

    Visit https://www.compassionateeducators.com/ to learn more about working directly with Marie and services she provides to educators & schools or email support@compassionateeducators.com 

    Support the show

    44: Caring For the Child Within

    44: Caring For the Child Within

    We all come to grief with our own stories and experiences. As children, we may have had experiences that were painful and intense. These experiences may have taught us, that we need to put up a front, that in order to be cared for we need to be helpless, that in order to receive love we need to be complicit, that is order to not get hurt, we have to criticize others. 

    The little child within has reasons for doing that. It’s the way we can protect ourselves. This way of blocking painful or difficult emotions is the way as a child you felt you needed to protect yourself, when you didn’t quite know any different.

    -Importance of emotions and caring for ourselves and your inner child

    -Getting super curious about your triggers and how that will help you be able to work through them

    -ideas of things you can do to begin caring for your inner child

     

    Links to any resources:

    When my daughter Aria died suddenly 4 years ago, I wondered if my life was over. My heart felt shattered into a million pieces. How was I supposed to go on without such an important person in my life? How can I breathe when I'm literally suffocating and drowning? It was difficult to describe my pain; it was an endless feeling of hopelessness.

    I carried sharp, intense grief for years. I felt as if I failed my daughter as her mother, and was terrified it would affect my other children as well. Everything felt so bleak and empty. What was the point and the purpose of life?

    It's difficult to describe this pain to someone who doesn't understand the depth and duration of child loss. There is something about this connection among us as grieving mothers, that we can speak without words.

    If you are a grieving mother, and looking for connection, hope, and ways to move forward after the death of a child, join me in 3 days of grief support. In this space, you will find support, encouragement, and deep knowing amongst other grieving mothers.

    Join to save your spot, go to www.reliefingriefsupportgroup.com. Again, in these 3 days, we are going to be walking through How everyone grieves differently, Emotions and stages of grief, and noticing thoughts patterns and emotions that come up for you in your grief journey. To join go to www.reliefingriefsupportgroup.com 

    If you are a grieving mother and looking for others who know the pain of child loss, come join my free Grieving Moms Community Facebook group:www.meganhillukka.com/community

     

    43: What does it mean to be a mother?

    43: What does it mean to be a mother?

    Mother's day is right around the corner. I want to hold space for you, if you are a grieving mother with no other children, a grieving mother with other children, a grieving mother who lost her child before they were born. Wherever you are in your grief, this day can be hard.

    Today I wanted to ask the question what does it mean to be a mother? What does motherhood look like for you after child loss? What kind of mother do you want to be to your child who is gone, and your children who are here if you have other children?

    -Loving someone opens us up to the possibility of pain

    -Living is a choice we each have to make in our own lives

    -Coming from a place of love

    -Noticing the thoughts that might be circulating in your head

    If you are a grieving mother and looking for others who know the pain of child loss, come join my free Grieving Moms Community Facebook group: www.meganhillukka.com/community

    42: Are You Going Backwards in Grief?

    42: Are You Going Backwards in Grief?

    You ever feel like you have finally climbed out of the hole of grief, things are going well, and then bam. You are back at the bottom again?

    -Megan's story when she felt like she was going backwards

    -What does going backwards mean to you?

    -What thoughts are you thinking about going backwards and how do those make you feel?

    -Grief work is always peeling back layers

    -You never go backwards in grief, you are always walking forward with grief.

    Links:

    If you are a grieving mother and looking for others who know the pain of child loss, come join my free Grieving Moms Community Facebook group: www.meganhillukka.com/community

    Mastering Time Management

    Mastering Time Management

    With exams and deadlines just around the corner, mastering time management can be the key to helping you ease deadline stress and can help you avoid unhealthy habits like cramming or pulling all nighters.

    Ben and Becki, along with this month's guest Malene, have some tips and tricks you can use to help you successfully manage your time and smash those deadlines.

    For more Student Life content check out our website and find us on social media at @uolstudentlife where we have lots of content planned to help you with online learning and exam prep over the next few weeks!

    41: Grief Comparison

    41: Grief Comparison

    Today’s topic is about grief comparison. There is so much comparison in our lives, especially in grief. Your grief is different from everyone else. You can’t compare the depth of your grievance to the other person. Comparison serves a purpose in trying to understand from a place of trying to understand. Comparison is like a judgement of who has it worse or who is valid in their grief.

    The experience of loss is going to be different for each one of us. Focusing on your own journey can help on your grief journey. We have the right to grieve no matter what happened. You are right where you need to be. And each step you take is a step forward. Just keep taking little steps every day. You are never alone in this journey.

    In this episode Megan discuss:

    1. Why are they feeling that way towards you?
    2. Why are they doing so much better than you?
    3. Is compassion and empathy finite?

    If you are a grieving mother and looking for others who know the pain of child loss, come join my free Grieving Moms Community Facebook group: www.meganhillukka.com/community

    40: Choosing Joy in Grief

    40: Choosing Joy in Grief

    On this episode, I want to talk about how each one of us has to make a personal decision on our own grief journey. How are we going to live in our grief and what choices we’re going to make? You’d think how you’d become a better person after this traumatic experience. Will you be compassionate or have more love for others? But with pain and grief, comes peace and joy, if you want and look for it.

    I’ve found so many blessings. Adversities are still there and it teaches us to be appreciative with the things and people we have around us, if we choose to look for them. I still grieve, I still hurt, and I still have pain. But I believe in light and life. It’s not either or, it’s both.


    I’ll be discussing: 

    ·         How to process my emotions?

    ·         How to be compassionate for others

    ·         Learned to accept that every day could be our last day without the fear.

    ·         I can now find contentment in the little things. Smile with my kids, laugh at nothing and at small things that count.