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What feeling are you chasing in bed? No, I’m not talking about orgasm. I’m talking about an emotion, like feeling worshiped, praised, or unbelievably desirable. On the other hand, maybe it arouses you to feel degraded, objectified – even humiliated. On today’s show, I’m unpacking a kink that’s getting a ton of attention lately on social media: praise kink. It falls under the larger umbrella of core erotic desires, which we all have. I show you how to identify your core erotic desires and how to turn them into realities. I also get into your kinky questions, including: when you adore your fiancée, but fantasize about sex with your much kinkier ex, what now? And when your partner constantly gets hit on my other men, is it healthy to get turned on by it? All this and more in today's episode. Show Notes: Ask Emily: How Do I Get a Stronger Erection? Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide) Yes! No! Maybe? List Article: How to Make a Mess ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure TAKE THE SEX IQ QUIZ! Email proof of purchase to smartsex@sexwithemily.com and I’ll send you a link to take the quiz Sex With Emily: Home More Sex With Emily: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sex therapist Vanessa Marin is back and we’re digging into: why we’re (sadly and ironically) proven to be less likely to try new things in the bedroom the longer we’ve been partnered; how to spice up your sex life when things get bland – including how to find out and explore your sexual fantasies; how not all orgasms (even for men!) are created equal; and the TikTok sex challenges we should probably pass on. For our previous conversations with Vanessa, check out: Episode 195 Sex Talk & That Night in Miami: Sex Therapy with Vanessa Marin and Episode 196 How Glennon & Abby Learned to Talk Dirty with Vanessa Marin. About Vanessa: Vanessa Marin is a sex therapist and instant New York Times Best Selling author of Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life, co-written with her husband and partner-in-crime, Xander Marin. Vanessa is here to help you kick shame out of the bedroom so you can start feeling the connection, pleasure, and joy you deserve! Vanessa has been featured in various major publications and has written for The New York Times, Allure, and Lifehacker. TW: @VMTherapy IG: @vanessaandxander To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Audio porn is one of the most brilliant sex tech innovations of the past few years. It’s immersive, discreet, and super intimate – you literally feel like you’re in the room with people who are having sex. Plus…it’s a great way to ratchet up your own dirty talk or your masturbation routine.  So on today’s best of episode, I’m sharing my conversation with Caroline Spiegel, creator of Quinn: an audio erotica app that was one of the first to market. We talk about audio porn and solo sex, how to use audio erotica with a partner, and a special bonus! Caroline and I listen to some audio erotica together, including a guided masturbation clip. Plus, we take your questions like, enjoying porn as a blind individual, how to embrace a naturally sexy voice, and – wild card – can you really be allergic to semen? Find out on today’s show. More Try Quinn: Website | Apple App Store | Android App Store | Instagram | Twitter Show Notes: How Do I Explore Bisexuality While In a Relationship? The Yes No Maybe List  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sexual fantasies give us a window into what we need: a type of touch, a type of power, or even a type of person. But what if you’re one of those people who’s like: “I don’t know how to fantasize, Emily?” Then look no further than sex educator and author of Curvy Girl Sex Elle Chase. Elle joins me to talk about cultivating your erotic daydreams, what your fantasies say about your desire style, and how to turn a common fantasy into a reality: finding a friend with benefits.   Plus, we take your questions! How to respond to a partner who desperately wants to watch you have sex with another (but you’re not so into it), what to say to a partner who thinks butts are gross, how to talk about your kink to a new partner and much more.  For More Elle Chase:  Website | Twitter | Instagram | Facebook Elle’s Naughty Coloring Book | Curvy Girl Sex by Elle Chase | Elle’s Fantasy Course  Show Notes: Tell Me What You Want by Justin Lehmiller Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski The Yes No Maybe List  We Vibe Toys Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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On this week's Totally Extra: Tracy's Dog is out and along comes a baby, a live petty polly, uneven brows, potty training disasters, a nip piercing incident and a threesome fantasy.

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On today’s throwback show, I’m discussing the ins and outs of a fantasy that has become a lot more popular: cuckolding or “hot wifery”. I share tips to bring up your fantasy with your partner, why people enjoy it, how you can navigate FFM and MMF threesomes, and what to consider before you dive into your next sexual fantasy. I also take your calls and answer questions like how to get over the jitters when you want to go to the strip club with your husband for the first time, and what to do when your partner has extreme separation anxiety when you leave town and why writing your own erotica can be incredibly hot (and even help with initiating sex). For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Renowned clinical sex therapist and best-selling author, Ian Kerner Ph.D. joins me today to talk about sex scripts, why fantasies are important for a relationship, the dynamics of kink, porn as “homework” and how to get into a flow state during sex. Dr. Kerner is the author of the legendary book She Comes First, “the thinking man’s guide to pleasuring a woman” and he just released a new book So, Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex. We cover a lot in this interview including what has changed in his last 20+ years as a practicing sex therapist. Hint: erectile dysfunction in younger men is real. Dr. Kerner (“the man who made oral sex into an art form”) walks us through his latest book and explains how you can decode and rewrite your relationship’s sex script and bring your erotic self into the bedroom to transform your sex life. We discuss the importance of psychological arousal, what happens to your body during the honeymoon phase, when to challenge the monogamy script, what to do when there is a “desire discrepancy” in a relationship and so much more. “When it comes to sex and relationship problems, many of us are leading lives of quiet desperation. Sometimes you can be lying in bed next to someone and feel a million miles apart. Talking about sex and relationships is hard, but self-silencing can be even harder in the long run.” – Dr. Kerner Show Notes: Ian's New Book: So Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex Getting Cliterate w/ Dr. Ian Kerner Rosemary Basson Emily Nagoski, Ph.D. The Kinsey Institute For more information about Ian Kerner, visit: IanKerner.com For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is giving you the ins and outs on a fantasy that’s been becoming a lot more popular lately: cuckolding – and she’s taking your calls. She gives you some pro tips on cuckolding, then gives advice on what to do when your spouse turns into a jerk every time you come back from vacation, why writing your own erotica can be incredibly hot (and help with initiating sex), and how to get over the jitters when you want to take your husband to a strip club, but you’re a little nervous. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Woo More Play, Boston Scientific, Care/Of, SiriusXM Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is talking about the most common fantasies we all have and what makes them so hot– plus, she’s taking your calls. She breaks down a few fantasies – from bondage to group sex, what to do when you love your partner – but are dangerously close to crossing the infidelity line, you think your husband has the “madonna/whore” complex – but it’s actually a lot deeper than that, and opening up about your love for wearing thongs when your wife buys you boxers. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Womanizer, Good Vibrations, SiriusXM, Calex Jopen Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex advice, tips & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week’s episode of the podcast, I interviewed Allison Maxwell, a social worker and PhD student of clinical social work. I refer patients to her regularly for psychoanalysis, and she has had a wonderful impact on their mental health journey.

What is psychodynamic theory?

Psychodynamic therapy is a form of talk therapy where the practitioner work focuses on the patient’s emotion, fantasies, dreams, unconscious drives and wishes, early and current life relationships, and the relationship that is forming between the patient and therapist.

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On today’s show, Emily is joined by host of the Disability After Dark podcast Andrew Gurza to talk about how to overcome insecurities and gain confidence in the bedroom, no matter what’s holding you back. They dive into what it means to be a “queer cripple,” ways to make sex with disabilities as hot and pleasurable as possible, and how to make oral sex and masturbation as comfortable as possible – including sex toys with disability in mind. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Fleshlight, Adam & Eve, Foria Follow Emily: @sexwithemily Follow Andrew: @andrewgurza Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s the last show of 2017! On today’s show, Emily is joined by Deputy Jamie to reflect on the best and the worst sex of the year, and what lessons can be learned to make sure 2018 is full of the greatest sex yet. Emily and Jamie discuss what it really means to change sexually. From prioritizing intimacy to feeling the lasting emotional benefits from sexual afterglow, they cover everything you need to become a more attentive lover. Also, why watching lesbian porn is totally cool, and how to deliver just the right amount of kink. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dating and communicating can be tricky to master. Should you divulge your sexual history? How do you tell someone you’re non-monogamous? What’s the best way to get over your partner’s specific porn preferences? In this show, Emily and Anderson have the advice you need for these and many more of your love and sex quandaries. The two also take a stroll down memory lane, get real about the best and worst parts of car sex and hear from a listener who shares the story of his “bang check” success. So whether you need a little porn pep talk or some nifty tricks for tying your lover up in bed, this show has your answers! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

October is coming to its end, and Sex With Emily is here to help you close it out with a kinky, freaky bang! On today’s show, Emily is doling out tips and techniques for how to take your existing sexual inclinations the the next level of naughty. If you’re looking to spice up your sex life but aren’t sure where to start, Emily’s got a great formula for finding your hot spot. How do you turn your fantasies into erotic reality? What steps can you take to heat up your sensual massage? How can you and your partner amplify your porn fetish? Emily gives step-by-step guidance for all these sexy situations and also takes a call from a loyal listener looking to put her kinky sex preferences into practice with her partner. From fast food fantasies to blindfolds in bed, this Sex With Emily podcast is sure to help add some spice to any “vanilla” sex life — you might even catch Emily sing a jingle or two! Don’t miss it! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Phone sex operator Ms. Liz talks about phone sex for beginners, the most popular male fetishes and why they exist, taboo topics, the psychology behind men’s sexual desires and her weirdest most bizarre phone sex requests. Emily talks old flames and whether you should rekindle those fires, what happens when you carry baggage from past relationships, testicle length, and good ‘ol fashioned female ejaculation. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.