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Today's Tea is I Love Lemon by Bigelow

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Guest Speaker - Meryl Sher
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LOVE Section -Guest Speaker Links -  Focus James
website: www.focusjames.com
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https://www.facebook.com/TheFocusOfLove

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References:

• Schedule your Consultation Call to see if coaching is the right fit for you!
• FREE Relationship Communication Boost Register Here
• Emotional Guidance Scale (Available for download from my website!)
• Enlightened Relationships Facebook Group

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If you enjoyed this episode then share it with your friends and family.

Don't forget to SUBSCRIBE to the show on your favorite listening platform to get automatic episode updates for "Enlightened Relationships!"

Please take a minute to leave us an honest REVIEW and RATING. They really help when it comes to the ranking of the show and I make it a point to read every single one of the reviews.

Thanks for listening!

References:

• Schedule your Consultation Call to see if coaching is the right fit for you!
• FREE Relationship Communication Boost Register Here
• Emotional Guidance Scale (Available for download from my website!)
• Enlightened Relationships Facebook Group

Website:

www.lindseykporter.com

If you enjoyed this episode then share it with your friends and family.

Don't forget to SUBSCRIBE to the show on your favorite listening platform to get automatic episode updates for "Enlightened Relationships!"

Please take a minute to leave us an honest REVIEW and RATING. They really help when it comes to the ranking of the show and I make it a point to read every single one of the reviews.

Thanks for listening!

References:

• Schedule your Consultation Call to see if coaching is the right fit for you!
• FREE Relationship Communication Boost Register Here
• Emotional Guidance Scale (Available for download from my website!)
• Enlightened Relationships Facebook Group

Website:

www.lindseykporter.com

Three Ways of Focusing - Three Different Lives

For pedagogical purposes we imagine three different persons.  The first lives their lives by focusing on achieving goals.  The second has their focus on purpose.  And the third one on meaning.

We discuss what types of differences arise as a result of this in their world views, in how they connect and interact with others, in how they view science, in their narrations of what is, and in who they believe they are.  We also look at where win-lose and win-win dynamics fit in.

The three persons are fictitious but it is easy for us to tend to lean more towards one of them.  By choosing to allow the view and focus of the third person we automatically gain a number of advantages as to our mode of operation in the world and how we feel about it.  We are also given greater access to clarity, creativity, and imagination.

By spending more time in the realm of pure Awareness, uncluttered by mind concepts, the door for identifying with it opens wider, and thus also our passage into a different way of functioning.

If you have any comments, questions, or suggestions for the podcast you can contact me on Instagram @BasiasThoughts.  And, of course, if you would like to see more content from me do sponsor me on https://www.patreon.com/basia because that will allow me to focus more on content creation.

When we’re hooked in or feeling defeated by conflict and division, perhaps our focus is too narrow. It might be time to open up to the bigger picture. This  skill, Broadening Perspectives, is from Conflict Resolution Network's 12 skills approach to resolving all kinds of conflicts constructively. 
 
We've tested and refined these skills over many years to support you in better relationships at home, at work and in the community. And help you design much better solutions, too! 

Our presenter is Helena Cornelius, a professional psychologist with a wealth of conflict resolving experience. 

Inspired by the book, Everyone Can Win, by Helena Cornelius, Shoshana Faire and Estella Cornelius, Christine James joins the writing and production team to create this audio series. 

Our music is by Stewart D’Arrietta. 

Visit the Conflict Resolution Network website for the accompanying online Certificate Course, Trainer's Manuals and extra reading at www.crnhq.org

How can you  help people who are really stuck and angry with each other?  There are lots of mediating interventions that can turn difficult conversations around. This is the second episode of our Introduction to mediation in Conflict Resolution Network's 12 skills approach to resolving approach to resolving conflicts constructively. 
 
We've tested and refined these skills over many years to support you in better relationships at home, at work and in the community. And help you design much better solutions, too! 

Our presenter is Helena Cornelius, a professional psychologist with a wealth of conflict resolving experience. 

Inspired by the book, Everyone Can Win, by Helena Cornelius, Shoshana Faire and Estella Cornelius, Christine James joins the writing and production team to create this audio series. 

Our music is by Stewart D’Arrietta. 

Visit the Conflict Resolution Network website for the accompanying online Certificate Course, Trainer's Manuals and extra reading at www.crnhq.org

How can you best help others in conflict? Don’t take sides! Once you have a grip on the basics of mediation, you’ll be a very handy person to have around, even if you never formally mediate a conflict. This episode is part of Conflict Resolution Network's 12 skills approach to resolving conflicts constructively. 
 
We've tested and refined these skills over many years to support you in better relationships at home, at work and in the community. And help you design much better solutions, too! 

Our presenter is Helena Cornelius, a professional psychologist with a wealth of conflict resolving experience. 

Inspired by the book, Everyone Can Win, by Helena Cornelius, Shoshana Faire and Estella Cornelius, Christine James joins the writing and production team to create this audio series. 

Our music is by Stewart D’Arrietta. 

Visit the Conflict Resolution Network website for the accompanying online Certificate Course, Trainer's Manuals and extra reading at www.crnhq.org

Do you have a board of advisors? If your answer is "no" or "what is that?" then this podcast is a must listen to for you.

Today's guest is John Francis, or better known as Johnny Franchise! Johnny Franchise helped build his family business from 1 location to over 1,000 locations, help take it public, and eventually sell the business. He then became the franchisee of the year for PostNet and received the “Franchisee of the Year Award” from the International Franchise Association! John also serves on numerous boards and, most notably, sits on the Board of Directors for Sport Clips.  He has a ton of great lessons and wisdom to share.

Here are some of the links to connect with Johnny Franchise!

• His website: https://johnnyfranchise.com/
• His newsletter: https://share.hsforms.com/14dMl2dHQSg6aLx2ky9zDHw4n1q5
• He has a FREE OFFER: 10 low-cost and no-cost ways that franchisees can improve their results. https://pages.johnnyfranchise.com/top-10-tips-for-franchisee-success

Follow Johnny Franchise on his social media channels listed below: 

• https://www.linkedin.com/in/johnnyfranchise/
• https://www.facebook.com/TheJohnnyFranchise/
• https://www.instagram.com/thejohnnyfranchise/
• https://twitter.com/John_Francis_MN

If you are ready to talk about franchising your business you can schedule your free, no-obligation, franchise consultation online at: https://bigskyfranchiseteam.com/ or by calling Big Sky Franchise Team at: 855-824-4759.     

It's time to negotiate. Here's how to make the best deal possible, one that's fair for everyone involved - hard on the problem, yet soft on each other. This episode is packed with helpful Negotiation techniques from Conflict Resolution Network's 12 skill approach to resolving conflict constructively. 

We've tested and refined these skills over many years to support you in better relationships at home, at work and in the community. And help you design much better solutions, too! 

Our presenter is Helena Cornelius, a professional psychologist with a wealth of conflict resolving experience. 

It's based on the book, Everyone Can Win, by Helena Cornelius, Shoshana Faire and Estella Cornelius. Christine James has joined the writing team for this audio series. 

Our music is by Stewart D’Arrietta. 

Visit the Conflict Resolution Network website for the accompanying online Certificate Course, Trainer's Manuals and extra reading at www.crnhq.org

The more options the better the choice. If you can get together and think about the situation from different angles, creatively, you’ll design innovative and imaginative strategies to address the conflict.   Need more tips on how to do that? Listen up. This episode is from Conflict Resolution Network's 12 skills approach to resolving conflicts constructively. 

We've tested and refined these skills over many years to support you in better relationships at home, at work and in the community. And help you design much better solutions, too! 

Our presenter is Helena Cornelius, a professional psychologist with a wealth of conflict resolving experience. 

It's based on the book, Everyone Can Win, by Helena Cornelius, Shoshana Faire and Estella Cornelius. Christine James has joined the writing team for this audio series. 

Our music is by Stewart D’Arrietta. 

Visit the Conflict Resolution Network website for the accompanying online Certificate Course, Trainer's Manuals and extra reading at www.crnhq.org

Conflict can be complex; all those factors can do your head in. The process of mapping organises your thoughts so you can get a grip on what’s driving everyone involved. Mapping the conflict comes from Conflict Resolution Network's 12 skill approach to handling conflict constructively. We've tested and refined these skills over many years to support you in better relationships at home, at work and in the community. And help you design much better solutions, too! 

Our presenter is Helena Cornelius, a professional psychologist with a wealth of conflict resolving experience. 

It's based on the book, Everyone Can Win, by Helena Cornelius, Shoshana Faire and Estella Cornelius. Christine James has joined the writing team for this audio series. 

Our music is by Stewart D’Arrietta. 

Visit the Conflict Resolution Network website for the accompanying online Certificate Course, Trainer's Manuals and extra reading at www.crnhq.org

Don’t indulge or deny your emotions. They nourish you and your relationships. They’re your fire for change – they show you the issues. We bring you insights and skills based on Conflict Resolution Network's sixth skill in its twelve skill program.

We've tested and refined these skills over many years to support you in better relationships at home, at work and in the community. And help you design much better solutions, too! 

Our presenter is Helena Cornelius, a professional psychologist with a wealth of conflict resolving experience. 

It's based on the book, Everyone Can Win, by Helena Cornelius, Shoshana Faire and Estella Cornelius. Christine James has joined the writing team for this audio series. 

Our music is by Stewart D’Arrietta. 

Visit the Conflict Resolution Network website for the accompanying online Certificate Course, Trainer's Manuals and extra reading at www.crnhq.org

Do you hesitate before speaking up? Fear damaging relationship, blowing up or suffering a backlash? We handle the challenges of Appropriate Assertiveness in this episode from Conflict Resolution Network’s twelve skill approach to handling conflict constructively. the 12 skills approach to resolving your conflicts constructively. 

We've tested and refined these skills over many years to support you in better relationships at home, at work and in the community. And help you design much better solutions, too! 

Our presenter is Helena Cornelius, a professional psychologist with a wealth of conflict resolving experience. 

It's based on the book, Everyone Can Win, by Helena Cornelius, Shoshana Faire and Estella Cornelius. Christine James has joined the writing team for this audio series. 

Our music is by Stewart D’Arrietta. 

Visit the Conflict Resolution Network website headquarters for the accompanying online Certificate Course, Trainer's Manuals and extra reading at www.crnhq.org

Clash of personality or values? Skills, tools and understanding will navigate around these differences before they escalate. This podcast, our second on Empathy is from Conflict Resolution Network’s 12 skills approach to resolving conflicts constructively. 

We've tested and refined these skills over many years to support you in better relationships at home, at work and in the community. And help you design much better solutions, too! 

Our presenter is Helena Cornelius, a professional psychologist with a wealth of conflict resolving experience. 

It's based on the book, Everyone Can Win, by Helena Cornelius, Shoshana Faire and Estella Cornelius. Christine James has joined the writing team for this audio series. 

Our music is by Stewart D’Arrietta. 

Visit the Conflict Resolution Network website headquarters for the accompanying online Certificate Course, Trainer's Manuals and extra reading at www.crnhq.org

We’ve hit a bump and friction is rising! Contact between you both is uncomfortable. Perhaps it’s time move towards, not away, from the relationship. Use empathy skills to repair the bridge to understanding. There’s a lot to know about these skills, so there are two episodes, 3 and 4.

Empathy the third of the 12 skills approach for resolving your conflicts constructively. Conflict Resolution Network has tested and refined these skills over many years to support you in better relationships at home, at work and in the community. And help you design much better solutions, too! 

Our presenter is Helena Cornelius, a professional psychologist with a wealth of conflict resolving experience. 

It's based on the book, Everyone Can Win, by Helena Cornelius, Shoshana Faire and Estella Cornelius. Christine James has joined the writing team for this audio series. 

Our music is by Stewart D’Arrietta. 

Visit the Conflict Resolution Network website headquarters for the accompanying online Certificate Course, Trainer's Manuals and extra reading at www.crnhq.org