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    • Understanding Dissociation: A Protective MechanismRecognize signs of dissociation like emotional numbness, body disconnection, and memory loss. Learn the neurology behind it and practice self-regulation techniques to improve overall well-being.

      Dissociation is a protective mechanism of the nervous system that can manifest in various ways, from mild daydreaming to severe episodes of feeling out of body or losing large chunks of time. It's important to recognize the signs of dissociation, such as feeling emotionally numb, disconnected from your body, or having trouble remembering certain experiences. Dissociation is the opposite of self-regulation, where the conscious mind finds safety within the body. It's crucial to understand the neurology of dissociation and its impact on our daily lives to learn practical ways to repattern this response and improve overall well-being.

    • Understanding Dissociation: A Complex Response to Threatening StimuliDissociation is a normal response to overwhelming stimuli, characterized by disruptions in psychological functioning, including memory fragmentation, identity confusion, emotional numbing, and even bodily symptoms. It's a protective mechanism that helps ensure survival by blocking out threatening stimuli.

      Dissociation is a complex phenomenon characterized by a disruption or discontinuity of the normal subjective integration of one or more aspects of our psychological functioning. It can manifest in various ways, such as memory fragmentation, identity confusion, emotional numbing, and even bodily symptoms like the inability to feel pain or feeling out of one's body. Dissociation is a protective mechanism of the brain and nervous system that decides to block out threatening stimuli to ensure survival. It can affect different parts of our sensory and cognitive systems, including the interoceptive system, which is responsible for processing internal bodily sensations. Dissociation can occur in mild forms, like daydreaming or autopilot driving, or in severe cases, where one may lose real time and have limited memory of certain periods of their life. It's essential to remember that dissociation is a normal response, and it doesn't signify any underlying issue or weakness. However, it can lead to feelings of guilt and grief when one is unable to remember significant memories or experiences shared by others.

    • Understanding the interoceptive system and its role in traumaTrauma can lead to a loss of interoceptive skills, making it difficult to accurately sense and respond to body signals. Practicing mindfulness, deep breathing, and body awareness exercises can help retrain the interoceptive system.

      Our bodies have an intricate system, the interoceptive system, which allows us to sense and respond to internal signals. This system helps us regulate our bodies and keep us safe. However, when we experience trauma, our nervous system may dissociate to protect us from overwhelming emotions and physical sensations. This dissociation can lead to a loss of interoceptive skills, making it difficult for us to accurately sense and respond to our body's signals. Over time, this can result in an inaccurate perception of threats and an overactive response to non-existent dangers. It's important to understand that these responses are a natural protective mechanism, but we can work to retrain our interoceptive system through practices such as mindfulness, deep breathing, and body awareness exercises to improve our ability to accurately sense and respond to our body's signals.

    • Our bodies react to threats with heightened sensitivityOur interoceptive system can mistakenly perceive non-threatening situations as dangerous, triggering freeze, dissociation, or panic responses. Dissociation, a form of detachment from reality, can make these responses more severe.

      Our bodies are wired to respond to life-threatening situations with heightened sensitivity and preparedness. This is due to our brain's interoceptive system, which predicts threats based on past experiences. However, this heightened sensitivity can sometimes result in a false sense of threat and lead to states of freeze, dissociation, or panic. These responses are natural defense mechanisms during traumatic events but can become problematic when triggered in non-threatening situations. Dissociation, a form of detachment from reality, is closely linked to the freeze response and can make it easier to enter a dissociative state when already frozen. It's important to understand that these responses are normal but can be challenging to manage when they occur in non-threatening environments.

    • The link between emotions and memoryAs we age or experience trauma, the limbic system, responsible for emotions, becomes less refined, affecting memory. Stress and fear responses can impact memory by reducing blood flow to the frontal lobe and activating the amygdala, leading to memory loss and rearrangement.

      The memories and emotions are closely linked, and the limbic system, which is responsible for emotions, becomes less refined as we age or experience trauma, leading to memory loss. When we're under threat, our body reduces blood flow to the frontal lobe, where thinking, analytical, and memory functions reside, and increases activation to the survival part of the brain. This results in an inability to access higher order thinking systems and remember things effectively. The amygdala, which plays a role in processing emotions and memories, can become overactive, leading to hijacking of our experience and rearrangement of memories. It's important to note that these responses are adaptive in dangerous situations but problematic when they become chronic. Brain-based communities, like Brain based, offer resources and expert guidance to help train the nervous system for resilience, reduce stress, and create lasting behavior change. By understanding the connection between emotions, memories, and the nervous system, we can begin to take steps towards positive adaptation and improved cognitive function.

    • Learning to disconnect as a coping mechanism for traumaTrauma can lead to dissociation, disconnection from body and pain, dangerous situations, avoidance behaviors, and a need for nervous system work and frontal lobe activation to create new reactions to triggers.

      Dissociation, a learned response to trauma, can lead to a disconnection from the body and an inability to accurately feel emotional and physical pain. This disconnection can result in dangerous situations or relationships, as individuals may not be able to fully experience or make cognitive decisions about their circumstances. Avoidance behaviors, such as social media use or self-sabotage, are highly linked to dissociation and can further hinder individuals from addressing and escaping harmful situations. It's important to remember that dissociation is a learned response to survival and that it's possible to start creating new reactions to triggers through nervous system work and frontal lobe activation. Additionally, acknowledging the connection between dissociation and body dysmorphia, specifically the inner critic and disconnection from the body, can help individuals recognize and address the root causes of their experiences.

    • Understanding Dissociation: A Complex Response to StressDissociation is a coping mechanism for dealing with intense emotions and stress, leading to detachment. Gradual techniques like vagus nerve training and vocal exercises can help reconnect with emotions and physical sensations.

      Dissociation is a complex response to fear, anxiety, and stress, often leading to extreme avoidance and detachment. It's linked to conditions like complex PTSD, social anxiety, and perfectionism. Interpreting signals accurately is crucial, as it can lead to either a panic response or detachment. When using tools to come out of dissociation, it's essential to remember the importance of a gradual approach, as reconnecting with emotions and physical sensations can be overwhelming. Techniques like vagus nerve training and simple vocal exercises can help reactivate the vagus nerve and bring people back into their bodies.

    • Responding to immobility, dissociation, or freezeListen to your body, test techniques to upregulate or downregulate vagus nerve, and cultivate a diverse toolkit of exercises for unique needs.

      When dealing with states of immobility, dissociation, or freeze, it's essential to assess and respond appropriately based on individual needs. While some techniques, like cold showers, sensory stimuli, humming, and singing, can help upregulate the vagus nerve and promote relaxation, others may require downregulating the vagus nerve and activating the sympathetic system through intentional movements. The key is to listen to your body and test different methods to determine what works best for you. Additionally, for those experiencing body dysmorphia, focusing on training the visual system can lead to new inputs and ultimately, a different output. Remember, everyone's nervous system responds differently, so it's crucial to cultivate a diverse toolkit of exercises to work with your unique needs.

    • Understanding the role of sensory and motor systems in stress and nervous system functionTraining and rehabilitating areas of high sensory or motor input in the body can improve nervous system function, reduce stress, and enhance authentic expression

      Our sensory and motor systems play a significant role in how we perceive and experience the world, and deficits in these systems can lead to increased stress and threat responses in the nervous system. The concept of sensory and motor homunculus explains how certain areas of the body with high sensory or motor input receive larger representations in the brain. By rehabilitating and training these areas, we can improve the quality of information being sent to the brain, reducing the threat level and allowing for greater expression and connection to our bodies. This process can be challenging as it goes against societal expectations and deep-rooted ideas of body hierarchy, but having tools to work with the nervous system can make this journey safer and more possible. Healing and finding our own expression, despite societal pressures, is a radical yet necessary step towards reducing stress and living authentically.

    • Healing from internal systems of oppression and practicing self-loveEngage in healing journey, dismantle harmful paradigms, practice embodiment, be aware of dissociation, use tools to help nervous system and bodies feel safe, fully engage in process without self-sabotage or exhaustion

      Embarking on a healing journey to dismantle internal systems of oppression and practicing self-love, self-acceptance, and embodiment can be a challenging and scary process. However, it's essential for our health and well-being to move out of harmful paradigms that prioritize perfection and self-criticism. Embodiment, or the ability to fully experience emotions and express ourselves in an embodied way, is crucial for this process. Dissociation, which involves leaving the body, can hinder embodiment and make it difficult to fully engage in the healing process. Somatic experiences, such as breath work or plant medicine, can lead to dissociation if we're not prepared for the emotional energy they release. Intellectual dissociation, where we intellectualize our experiences rather than feeling them in our bodies, is another form of dissociation that can hinder the healing process. To successfully navigate the healing journey, it's essential to have tools and understanding to help our nervous systems and bodies feel safe and relaxed, allowing us to fully engage in the process without leading to self-sabotage, exhaustion, or further dissociation.

    • Coping mechanisms can become maladaptiveIntellectualizing and dissociating can help cope with trauma and stress, but they can also hinder healing when they become detrimental. Our bodies and nervous systems need to process emotions to make progress.

      While intellectualizing and dissociating can be effective coping mechanisms for dealing with trauma and stress, they can also become maladaptive and hinder our healing process. Our bodies and nervous systems need to experience and process emotions in order to make progress, not just think about it. Dissociation, like other survival responses such as binge eating and addiction, serves a purpose but may need to be addressed and replaced with new tools when it becomes detrimental. Remember, survival and safety come first, and everything else builds on that foundation. If you find yourself dissociating and need guidance, consider trying resources like the ones offered at rewiretrial.com. In the next episode, we will explore the concept of presence and how it relates to dissociation.

    • Practice presence and repattern your nervous systemBy focusing on the present moment, we can break free from old patterns, fully engage with the world, and enhance our daily lives. Practicing presence is a powerful tool for personal growth and living a more fulfilling life.

      By practicing presence and repatternning our nervous system, we can increase our ability to handle stimuli and live a more embodied, full life. This means moving away from dissociative responses and instead fully engaging with the world around us, both emotionally and physically. This skill of presence is essential for living a rich and meaningful life. By focusing on the present moment, we can break free from old patterns and fully experience the world around us. This not only enhances our daily lives but also allows us to better handle challenges and stressors. So, in essence, the practice of presence is a powerful tool for personal growth and living a more fulfilling life.

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    Trauma Rewired podcast is intended to educate and inform but does not constitute

    medical, psychological or other professional advice or services. Always consult a

    qualified medical professional about your specific circumstances before making any

    decisions based on what you hear.

    We share our experiences, explore trauma, physical reactions, mental health and

    disease. If you become distressed by our content, please stop listening and seek

    professional support when needed. Do not continue to listen if the conversations are

    having a negative impact on your health and well-being.

    If you or someone you know is struggling with their mental health, or in mental

    health crisis and you are in the United States you can 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.

    If someone’s life is in danger, immediately call 911.

    We do our best to stay current in research, but older episodes are always available.

    We don’t warrant or guarantee that this podcast contains complete, accurate or

    up-to-date information. It’s very important to talk to a medical professional about

    your individual needs, as we aren’t responsible for any actions you take based on the

    information you hear in this podcast.

    We invite guests onto the podcast. Please note that we don’t verify the accuracy of

    their statements. Our organization does not endorse third-party content and the

    views of our guests do not necessarily represent the views of our organization.

     

    We talk about general neuro-science and nervous system health, but you are unique.

    These are conversations for a wide audience. They are general recommendations and

    you are always advised to seek personal care for your unique outputs, trauma and

    needs.

    We are not doctors or licensed medical professionals. We are certified neuro-somatic

    practitioners and nervous system health/embodiment coaches. We are not your

    doctor or medical professional and do not know you and your unique nervous

    system. This podcast is not a replacement for working with a professional.

    The BrainBased.com site and Rewiretrail.com is a membership site for general

    nervous system health, somatic processing and stress processing. It is not a

    substitute for medical care or the appropriate solution for anyone in mental health

    crisis.

    Any examples mentioned in this podcast are for illustration purposes only. If they

    are based on real events, names have been changed to protect the identities of those

    involved.

    We’ve done our best to ensure our podcast respects the intellectual property rights of

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    We share our experiences, explore trauma, physical reactions, mental health and disease. If you become distressed by our content, please stop listening and seek professional support when needed. Do not continue to listen if the conversations are having a negative impact on your health and well-being. 

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    We  invite guests onto the podcast. Please note that we don’t verify the accuracy of their statements. Our organization does not endorse third-party content and the views of our guests do not necessarily represent the views of our organization.

    We talk about general neuro-science and nervous system health, but you are unique. These are conversations for a wide audience. They are general recommendations and you are always advised to seek personal care for your unique outputs, trauma and needs. 

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    Trauma Rewired podcast  is intended to educate and inform but does not constitute medical, psychological or other professional advice or services. Always consult a qualified medical professional about your specific circumstances before making any decisions based on what you hear. 

    We share our experiences, explore trauma, physical reactions, mental health and disease. If you become distressed by our content, please stop listening and seek professional support when needed. Do not continue to listen if the conversations are having a negative impact on your health and well-being. 

    If you or someone you know is struggling with their mental health, or in mental health crisis and you are in the United States you can 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.  If someone’s life is in danger, immediately call 911. 

    We do our best to stay current in research, but older episodes are always available.  We don’t warrant or guarantee that this podcast contains complete, accurate or up-to-date information. It’s very important to talk to a medical professional about your individual needs, as we aren’t responsible for any actions you take based on the information you hear in this podcast.

    We  invite guests onto the podcast. Please note that we don’t verify the accuracy of their statements. Our organization does not endorse third-party content and the views of our guests do not necessarily represent the views of our organization.

    We talk about general neuro-science and nervous system health, but you are unique. These are conversations for a wide audience. They are general recommendations and you are always advised to seek personal care for your unique outputs, trauma and needs. 

    We are not doctors or licensed medical professionals. We are certified neuro-somatic practitioners and nervous system health/embodiment coaches. We are not your doctor or medical professional and do not know you and your unique nervous system. This podcast is not a replacement for working with a professional.

    The BrainBased.com site and Rewiretrail.com is a membership site for general nervous system health, somatic processing and stress processing. It is not a substitute for medical care or the appropriate solution for anyone in mental health crisis. 

    Any examples mentioned in this podcast are for illustration purposes only. If they are based on real events, names have been changed to protect the identities of those involved. 

    We’ve done our best to ensure our podcast respects the intellectual property rights of others, however if you have an issue with our content, please let us know by emailing us at traumarewired@gmail.com 

    All rights in our content are reserved



    What is Neuro-Somatic Intelligence? FAQ: Your Questions Answered

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    Disclaimer

    Trauma Rewired podcast  is intended to educate and inform but does not constitute medical, psychological or other professional advice or services. Always consult a qualified medical professional about your specific circumstances before making any decisions based on what you hear. 

    We share our experiences, explore trauma, physical reactions, mental health and disease. If you become distressed by our content, please stop listening and seek professional support when needed. Do not continue to listen if the conversations are having a negative impact on your health and well-being. 

    If you or someone you know is struggling with their mental health, or in mental health crisis and you are in the United States you can 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.  If someone’s life is in danger, immediately call 911. 

    We do our best to stay current in research, but older episodes are always available.  We don’t warrant or guarantee that this podcast contains complete, accurate or up-to-date information. It’s very important to talk to a medical professional about your individual needs, as we aren’t responsible for any actions you take based on the information you hear in this podcast.

    We  invite guests onto the podcast. Please note that we don’t verify the accuracy of their statements. Our organization does not endorse third-party content and the views of our guests do not necessarily represent the views of our organization.

    We talk about general neuro-science and nervous system health, but you are unique. These are conversations for a wide audience. They are general recommendations and you are always advised to seek personal care for your unique outputs, trauma and needs. 

    We are not doctors or licensed medical professionals. We are certified neuro-somatic practitioners and nervous system health/embodiment coaches. We are not your doctor or medical professional and do not know you and your unique nervous system. This podcast is not a replacement for working with a professional.

    The BrainBased.com site and Rewiretrail.com is a membership site for general nervous system health, somatic processing and stress processing. It is not a substitute for medical care or the appropriate solution for anyone in mental health crisis. 

    Any examples mentioned in this podcast are for illustration purposes only. If they are based on real events, names have been changed to protect the identities of those involved. 

    We’ve done our best to ensure our podcast respects the intellectual property rights of others, however if you have an issue with our content, please let us know by emailing us at traumarewired@gmail.com 

    All rights in our content are reserved

     

    The Neurology of Empathy

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    So what’s the difference between having empathy and being an empath, and how can you change subconscious behavior? In this episode, Elisabeth, Jennifer and Matt cover the signs of being an empath, the causes of elevated empathy, such as deficits in the interoceptive system, and how it impacts our overall health.

    If you identify as an empath, tune in to learn about the power of nervous system regulation for changing harmful empath behavior!

    Topics discussed in this episode:

     

    • What it means to be an empath
    • Empathy from a neurosomatic perspective
    • Causes of high empathy
    • Why being an empath isn’t always a good thing
    • How deficits in the interoceptive system lead to empath behavior
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    • How to retain your empathic gifts and also prioritize yourself
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    www.neurosomaticintelligence.com

     

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    https://www.rewiretrial.com

     

    Book a discovery call for the upcoming NSI cohort

    https://calendly.com/traumarewired/nsi-discovery-call-with-jennifer

     

    Connect with us on social media:

    @trauma.rewired

     

    Join the Trauma Rewired Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/761101225132846

     

    FREE 1 Year Supply of Vitamin D + 5 Travel Packs from Athletic Greens when you use my exclusive offer: https://www.drinkag1.com/rewired

    This episode was produced by Podcast Boutique https://www.podcastboutique.com

     

    Disclaimer:

    Trauma Rewired podcast  is intended to educate and inform but does not constitute medical, psychological or other professional advice or services. Always consult a qualified medical professional about your specific circumstances before making any decisions based on what you hear. 

    We share our experiences, explore trauma, physical reactions, mental health and disease. If you become distressed by our content, please stop listening and seek professional support when needed. Do not continue to listen if the conversations are having a negative impact on your health and well-being. 

    If you or someone you know is struggling with their mental health, or in mental health crisis and you are in the United States you can 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.  If someone’s life is in danger, immediately call 911. 

    We do our best to stay current in research, but older episodes are always available.  We don’t warrant or guarantee that this podcast contains complete, accurate or up-to-date information. It’s very important to talk to a medical professional about your individual needs, as we aren’t responsible for any actions you take based on the information you hear in this podcast.

    We  invite guests onto the podcast. Please note that we don’t verify the accuracy of their statements. Our organization does not endorse third-party content and the views of our guests do not necessarily represent the views of our organization.

    We talk about general neuro-science and nervous system health, but you are unique. These are conversations for a wide audience. They are general recommendations and you are always advised to seek personal care for your unique outputs, trauma and needs. 

    We are not doctors or licensed medical professionals. We are certified neuro-somatic practitioners and nervous system health/embodiment coaches. We are not your doctor or medical professional and do not know you and your unique nervous system. This podcast is not a replacement for working with a professional.

    The BrainBased.com site and Rewiretrail.com is a membership site for general nervous system health, somatic processing and stress processing. It is not a substitute for medical care or the appropriate solution for anyone in mental health crisis. 

    Any examples mentioned in this podcast are for illustration purposes only. If they are based on real events, names have been changed to protect the identities of those involved. 

    We’ve done our best to ensure our podcast respects the intellectual property rights of others, however if you have an issue with our content, please let us know by emailing us at traumarewired@gmail.com 

    All rights in our content are reserved



    Healing The Relationship To Our Body

    Healing The Relationship To Our Body

    Relationship to the Body

    Season 03, Episode 30

    Our bodies are always speaking to us, but often we’re not able to understand or listen to what they’re trying to communicate.

    In this episode, hosts Jennifer and Elisabeth unpack the complexities of our relationship to the body, including how our perceptions, emotions and beliefs about our bodies significantly impact our overall well-being. They dive deep into the impact the interoceptive system has on the nervous system, emotions and behaviors, especially in relation to disordered eating and body dysmorphia.

    Jennifer and Elisabeth explore how past traumas shape our body image and inhibit our ability to express emotions safely through the body, sharing their own journeys from the cycle of maladaptive behaviors to loving acceptance.

    Tune in to hear their insights into having a healthier, more compassionate relationship with your body!

    Topics discussed in this episode:

     

    • Exploring the relationship to the body
    • How we develop our body image
    • Interoceptive awareness and our ability to connect to the body
    • The connection between trauma and the relationship to the body
    • Understanding body dysmorphia and dissociation
    • Sensory mismatch in relation to body dysmorphia
    • The emotional aspect of the relationship to the body
    • Building a healthier relationship to the body

     

    Contact us about private Rewire Neuro-Somatic Coaching:

    https://brainbased-wellness.com/rewire-private-neuro-somatic-coaching/

     

    Learn more about the Neuro-Somatic Intelligence Coaching program and sign up for the spring cohort now! https://www.neurosomaticintelligence.com/?utm_medium=aff-traumarewired&utm_content&utm_source

     

    Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer on the Brain Based Membership site:

    https://www.rewiretrial.com

     

    Connect with us on social media:

    @trauma.rewired

     

    Join the Trauma Rewired Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/761101225132846

    FREE 1 Year Supply of Vitamin D + 5 Travel Packs from Athletic Greens when you use my exclusive offer: https://www.drinkag1.com/rewired

    This episode was produced by Podcast Boutique https://www.podcastboutique.com

    Trauma Rewired podcast  is intended to educate and inform but does not constitute medical, psychological or other professional advice or services. Always consult a qualified medical professional about your specific circumstances before making any decisions based on what you hear. 

    We share our experiences, explore trauma, physical reactions, mental health and disease. If you become distressed by our content, please stop listening and seek professional support when needed. Do not continue to listen if the conversations are having a negative impact on your health and well-being. 

    If you or someone you know is struggling with their mental health, or in mental health crisis and you are in the United States you can 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.  If someone’s life is in danger, immediately call 911. 

    We do our best to stay current in research, but older episodes are always available.  We don’t warrant or guarantee that this podcast contains complete, accurate or up-to-date information. It’s very important to talk to a medical professional about your individual needs, as we aren’t responsible for any actions you take based on the information you hear in this podcast.

    We  invite guests onto the podcast. Please note that we don’t verify the accuracy of their statements. Our organization does not endorse third-party content and the views of our guests do not necessarily represent the views of our organization.

    We talk about general neuro-science and nervous system health, but you are unique. These are conversations for a wide audience. They are general recommendations and you are always advised to seek personal care for your unique outputs, trauma and needs. 

    We are not doctors or licensed medical professionals. We are certified neuro-somatic practitioners and nervous system health/embodiment coaches. We are not your doctor or medical professional and do not know you and your unique nervous system. This podcast is not a replacement for working with a professional.

    The BrainBased.com site and Rewiretrail.com is a membership site for general nervous system health, somatic processing and stress processing. It is not a substitute for medical care or the appropriate solution for anyone in mental health crisis. 

    Any examples mentioned in this podcast are for illustration purposes only. If they are based on real events, names have been changed to protect the identities of those involved. 

    We’ve done our best to ensure our podcast respects the intellectual property rights of others, however if you have an issue with our content, please let us know by emailing us at traumarewired@gmail.com 

    All rights in our content are reserved



    Healing Dissociation

    Healing Dissociation

    “You can’t be present and dissociated at the same time.”

    These wise words from co-host Jennifer Wallace encompasses why this topic is so important to explore. Presence is the truth of our emotions and our reality, because we cannot heal what we do not feel. Being present with our emotions, and feeling them in our body, allows us to truly understand and heal our nervous system in ways that dissociating from the body cannot.

    This is a powerful conversation highlighting what goes on in the brain and nervous system when we dissociate, and how this protective mechanism can become maladaptive when its original function no longer serves us. There is a way to overcome dissociation and authentically feel emotions in the body to truly heal.

    In this episode, Elisabeth Kristoff and Jennifer Wallace deep dive into dissociation and its characteristics. The discussion begins with defining what dissociation is and how it is learned at an early age as a protective mechanism, followed by unraveling how dissociation shows up in the brain, specifically which brain structures are involved in disassociation, as well as the connection between the vagus nerve and the interoceptive system as it pertains to dissociation.

    It’s not enough to just understand these concepts intellectually, the real healing happens when we can experience them, which means feeling them in our bodies. That’s where Neurosomatic Intelligence Coaching comes in, where we teach you the tools you need to heal the whole self, and move out of dissociation and into the body in a safe way.

    Tune in for this and more!

    Topics discussed in this episode:

     

    • Definition of dissociation

    • How dissociation is on a spectrum

    • The protective aspects of dissociation

    • How dissociation gets wired in the brain from an early age

    • The function of the thalamus and how it’s related to dissociation

    • The deep connection between the vagus nerve and the interoceptive system

    • How the brain makes predictions based on our past experiences

    • The possibility to train in new protective skills that are not maladaptive

    • Knowing about the  nervous system is not the same as experiencing it

    • Spiritual bypassing and dissociation 

    • The importance of presence in understanding the truth of emotions



    Contact us about private Rewire Neuro-Somatic Coaching: https://brainbased-wellness.com/rewire-private-neuro-somatic-coaching/

    Learn more about the Neuro-Somatic Intelligence Coaching program and sign up for the spring cohort now! https://www.neurosomaticintelligence.com

     

    Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer on the Brain Based Membership site: https://www.rewiretrial.com

     

    Connect with us on social media: @trauma.rewired

     

    Join the Trauma Rewired Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/761101225132846

     

    FREE 1 Year Supply of Vitamin D + 5 Travel Packs from Athletic Greens when you use my exclusive offer: https://www.drinkag1.com/rewired

     

    This episode was produced by Podcast Boutique https://www.podcastboutique.com



    Trauma Rewired podcast  is intended to educate and inform but does not constitute medical, psychological or other professional advice or services. Always consult a qualified medical professional about your specific circumstances before making any decisions based on what you hear. 

    We share our experiences, explore trauma, physical reactions, mental health and disease. If you become distressed by our content, please stop listening and seek professional support when needed. Do not continue to listen if the conversations are having a negative impact on your health and well-being. 

    If you or someone you know is struggling with their mental health, or in mental health crisis and you are in the United States you can 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.  If someone’s life is in danger, immediately call 911. 

    We do our best to stay current in research, but older episodes are always available.  We don’t warrant or guarantee that this podcast contains complete, accurate or up-to-date information. It’s very important to talk to a medical professional about your individual needs, as we aren’t responsible for any actions you take based on the information you hear in this podcast.

    We  invite guests onto the podcast. Please note that we don’t verify the accuracy of their statements. Our organization does not endorse third-party content and the views of our guests do not necessarily represent the views of our organization.

    We talk about general neuro-science and nervous system health, but you are unique. These are conversations for a wide audience. They are general recommendations and you are always advised to seek personal care for your unique outputs, trauma and needs. 

    We are not doctors or licensed medical professionals. We are certified neuro-somatic practitioners and nervous system health/embodiment coaches. We are not your doctor or medical professional and do not know you and your unique nervous system. This podcast is not a replacement for working with a professional.

    The BrainBased.com site and Rewiretrail.com is a membership site for general nervous system health, somatic processing and stress processing. It is not a substitute for medical care or the appropriate solution for anyone in mental health crisis. 

    Any examples mentioned in this podcast are for illustration purposes only. If they are based on real events, names have been changed to protect the identities of those involved. 

    We’ve done our best to ensure our podcast respects the intellectual property rights of others, however if you have an issue with our content, please let us know by emailing us at traumarewired@gmail.com 

    All rights in our content are reserved

     

    Self Abandonment of Complex Post Traumatic Stress

    Self Abandonment of Complex Post Traumatic Stress

    The essence of who we are radiates when we live in our purpose. When we can connect with our true self and share it with others. There are many blockers stopping us from being able to express our feelings, or even know what we’re experiencing, and one of them is self abandonment.

     

    Don’t let the “self” fool you — sometimes, we unintentionally abandon ourselves because of the survival responses born as a result of trauma. Until healing begins, we can get stuck living through learned patterns of ignoring our own needs in favor of others around us, suppressing feelings to protect ourselves from the neglect of others, and rejecting our intuition.

     

    Trauma Rewired host, Jennifer, and Elisabeth Kristof of Brain-Based Wellness are finishing the CPTSD series by discussing this final component of CPTSD: self abandonment. They talk about the ways we abandon ourselves through the lens of their own experiences, and how it manifests in a cycle of self-abuse and shame.

     

    If you find yourself disregarding your own health and happiness, tune in to understand this component of CPTSD and how healing is possible!

     

    Topics discussed in this episode:

     

    • Jennifer shares a recent story of self abandonment

    • Elisabeth defints self abandonment

    • Dissociation as a survival response

    • The effects of parentification

    • Healing self abandonment

    • How all the components of CPTSD work together

    • Becoming an expert of your nervous system

    • Toxic stress and disease

    • Learning to say “no” and self-regulate

    • The power of self-expression

    • Join the live-recording Q&A episode AND the new Facebook group!

     

     

    Contact us about private Rewire Neuro-Somatic Coaching: https://brainbased-wellness.com/rewire-private-neuro-somatic-coaching/

    Learn more about the Neuro-Somatic Intelligence Coaching program and sign up for the spring cohort now! https://www.neurosomaticintelligence.com

     

    Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer on the Brain Based Membership site: https://www.rewiretrial.com

     

    Connect with us on social media: @trauma.rewired

     

    Join the Trauma Rewired Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/761101225132846

     

    FREE 1 Year Supply of Vitamin D + 5 Travel Packs from Athletic Greens when you use my exclusive offer: https://www.drinkag1.com/rewired

     

    This episode was produced by Podcast Boutique https://www.podcastboutique.com



    Trauma Rewired podcast  is intended to educate and inform but does not constitute medical, psychological or other professional advice or services. Always consult a qualified medical professional about your specific circumstances before making any decisions based on what you hear. 

    We share our experiences, explore trauma, physical reactions, mental health and disease. If you become distressed by our content, please stop listening and seek professional support when needed. Do not continue to listen if the conversations are having a negative impact on your health and well-being. 

    If you or someone you know is struggling with their mental health, or in mental health crisis and you are in the United States you can 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.  If someone’s life is in danger, immediately call 911. 

    We do our best to stay current in research, but older episodes are always available.  We don’t warrant or guarantee that this podcast contains complete, accurate or up-to-date information. It’s very important to talk to a medical professional about your individual needs, as we aren’t responsible for any actions you take based on the information you hear in this podcast.

    We  invite guests onto the podcast. Please note that we don’t verify the accuracy of their statements. Our organization does not endorse third-party content and the views of our guests do not necessarily represent the views of our organization.

    We talk about general neuro-science and nervous system health, but you are unique. These are conversations for a wide audience. They are general recommendations and you are always advised to seek personal care for your unique outputs, trauma and needs. 

    We are not doctors or licensed medical professionals. We are certified neuro-somatic practitioners and nervous system health/embodiment coaches. We are not your doctor or medical professional and do not know you and your unique nervous system. This podcast is not a replacement for working with a professional.

    The BrainBased.com site and Rewiretrail.com is a membership site for general nervous system health, somatic processing and stress processing. It is not a substitute for medical care or the appropriate solution for anyone in mental health crisis. 

    Any examples mentioned in this podcast are for illustration purposes only. If they are based on real events, names have been changed to protect the identities of those involved. 

    We’ve done our best to ensure our podcast respects the intellectual property rights of others, however if you have an issue with our content, please let us know by emailing us at traumarewired@gmail.com 

    All rights in our content are reserved

     

    Social Anxiety of Complex Post traumatic Stress

    Social Anxiety of Complex Post traumatic Stress

    The term social anxiety gets tossed around a lot these days, however individuals with CPTS who experience social anxiety feel its effects on a visceral level. It can be highly debilitating and can affect the way we relate and connect to others, when the need for connection is at the very core of what makes us human.

    Knowing if you actually have social anxiety can be tricky, especially if there are socially acceptable coping mechanisms like overconsumption of substances involved. The proof is in the nervous system outputs, such as migraines, pain, exhaustion, or binge eating, after every social event. As well as, if these outputs cause you to refrain from being in social settings all together. At these times, it's important to reflect on whether you're genuinely comfortable in social situations or if social anxiety may be at play.

    In today’s episode, Elisabeth and Jennifer explore the world of social anxiety, specifically what signs in your nervous system to look out for if you suspect you have social anxiety, the difference between social anxiety and being socially awkward, the role substance use plays, how your attachment style can indicate your level of social anxiety, and how to repattern the nervous system using NSI tools to overcome social anxiety, and much more.

    As humans, we need to connect to others, and we need relationships to thrive. Social anxiety can impede these very human needs, however there is a way around it. It is possible to change how your nervous system takes in information, and change the way it reacts to that information, using simple tools to rewire and regulate.

    Tune in to hear how and more!


    Topics discussed in this episode:

     

    • What is social anxiety?

    • The nervous system outputs associated with social anxiety

    • Substance use and social anxiety

    • How the inner critic and toxic shame shows up in social anxiety

    • What is hypervigilance?

    • Physiological reasons why stress in social situations can cause protective outputs

    • How ADHD and social anxiety overlap

    • How attachment styles are related to social anxiety

    • Repatterning the nervous system to experience new outputs using NSI 



    Contact us about private Rewire Neuro-Somatic Coaching: https://brainbased-wellness.com/rewire-private-neuro-somatic-coaching/

    Learn more about the Neuro-Somatic Intelligence Coaching program and sign up for the spring cohort now! https://www.neurosomaticintelligence.com

     

    Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer on the Brain Based Membership site: https://www.rewiretrial.com

     

    Connect with us on social media: @trauma.rewired

     

    Join the Trauma Rewired Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/761101225132846

     

    FREE 1 Year Supply of Vitamin D + 5 Travel Packs from Athletic Greens when you use my exclusive offer: https://www.drinkag1.com/rewired

     

    This episode was produced by Podcast Boutique https://www.podcastboutique.com



    Trauma Rewired podcast  is intended to educate and inform but does not constitute medical, psychological or other professional advice or services. Always consult a qualified medical professional about your specific circumstances before making any decisions based on what you hear. 

    We share our experiences, explore trauma, physical reactions, mental health and disease. If you become distressed by our content, please stop listening and seek professional support when needed. Do not continue to listen if the conversations are having a negative impact on your health and well-being. 

    If you or someone you know is struggling with their mental health, or in mental health crisis and you are in the United States you can 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.  If someone’s life is in danger, immediately call 911. 

    We do our best to stay current in research, but older episodes are always available.  We don’t warrant or guarantee that this podcast contains complete, accurate or up-to-date information. It’s very important to talk to a medical professional about your individual needs, as we aren’t responsible for any actions you take based on the information you hear in this podcast.

    We  invite guests onto the podcast. Please note that we don’t verify the accuracy of their statements. Our organization does not endorse third-party content and the views of our guests do not necessarily represent the views of our organization.

    We talk about general neuro-science and nervous system health, but you are unique. These are conversations for a wide audience. They are general recommendations and you are always advised to seek personal care for your unique outputs, trauma and needs. 

    We are not doctors or licensed medical professionals. We are certified neuro-somatic practitioners and nervous system health/embodiment coaches. We are not your doctor or medical professional and do not know you and your unique nervous system. This podcast is not a replacement for working with a professional.

    The BrainBased.com site and Rewiretrail.com is a membership site for general nervous system health, somatic processing and stress processing. It is not a substitute for medical care or the appropriate solution for anyone in mental health crisis. 

    Any examples mentioned in this podcast are for illustration purposes only. If they are based on real events, names have been changed to protect the identities of those involved. 

    We’ve done our best to ensure our podcast respects the intellectual property rights of others, however if you have an issue with our content, please let us know by emailing us at traumarewired@gmail.com 

    All rights in our content are reserved

     

    Toxic Shame Of Complex Post Traumatic Stress

    Toxic Shame Of Complex Post Traumatic Stress

    As a human, you have most likely felt shame to some degree. Although it is a normal human protective emotion to keep us safe on a societal level, shame can become toxic when it persists and when we internalize the critical narrative from that shame.

    Toxic shame shows up in many ways, however, the way it shows up physiologically is understood the least, but the most telling. From posture, dilated pupils, tense muscles, to inflammation in the body, headaches, and diseases, it is possible to visibly see shame on a person’s body. This is a result of the body protecting itself, and there is no shame in that. However once it becomes maladaptive, and absolute “I am” statements start becoming permanent fixtures in rumination, one’s perception of self shifts, which can eventually cause serious mental and physical health issues.

    On today’s episode, Elisabeth and Jennifer discuss how toxic shame differs from regular shame, how toxic shame shows up, what happens in the body when it does, where toxic shame originates from, how shame and pleasure shows up in those with a history of childhood sexual abuse, and what you can do to recognize and repattern toxic shame with Neuro-Somatic Coaching.

    Just as toxic shame is developed, it can be undeveloped, by learning how to recognize when and how it shows up in the body, then repatterning the neural pathways in real time using NSI tools, and allowing repressed emotions to mobilize.

    This episode is filled with knowledge and insight you don’t want to miss. Tune in for this and more!


    Topics discussed in this episode:

     

    • The difference between guilt and shame
    • Difference between regular shame and toxic shame
    • How toxic shame affects posture
    • How shame is a protective response
    • What is shame inflammation and its correlation to disease states?
    • Why mobilizing the body is crucial to process emotions
    • What is emotional attunement?
    • Overcoupling of shame and pleasure in the case of childhood sexual abuse
    • The types of body boundary violations
    • What to do if you are having a toxic shame response?
    • Why it’s important for practitioners to understand when a client is in a shame response
    • Repattering shame in real time

     

     

    Contact us about private Rewire Neuro-Somatic Coaching: https://brainbased-wellness.com/rewire-private-neuro-somatic-coaching/

    Learn more about the Neuro-Somatic Intelligence Coaching program and sign up for the spring cohort now! https://www.neurosomaticintelligence.com

     

    Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer on the Brain Based Membership site: https://www.rewiretrial.com

     

    Connect with us on social media: @trauma.rewired

     

    Join the Trauma Rewired Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/761101225132846

     

    FREE 1 Year Supply of Vitamin D + 5 Travel Packs from Athletic Greens when you use my exclusive offer: https://www.drinkag1.com/rewired

     

    This episode was produced by Podcast Boutique https://www.podcastboutique.com

     

    Trauma Rewired podcast  is intended to educate and inform but does not constitute medical, psychological or other professional advice or services. Always consult a qualified medical professional about your specific circumstances before making any decisions based on what you hear. 

    We share our experiences, explore trauma, physical reactions, mental health and disease. If you become distressed by our content, please stop listening and seek professional support when needed. Do not continue to listen if the conversations are having a negative impact on your health and well-being. 

    If you or someone you know is struggling with their mental health, or in mental health crisis and you are in the United States you can 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.  If someone’s life is in danger, immediately call 911. 

    We do our best to stay current in research, but older episodes are always available.  We don’t warrant or guarantee that this podcast contains complete, accurate or up-to-date information. It’s very important to talk to a medical professional about your individual needs, as we aren’t responsible for any actions you take based on the information you hear in this podcast.

    We  invite guests onto the podcast. Please note that we don’t verify the accuracy of their statements. Our organization does not endorse third-party content and the views of our guests do not necessarily represent the views of our organization.

    We talk about general neuro-science and nervous system health, but you are unique. These are conversations for a wide audience. They are general recommendations and you are always advised to seek personal care for your unique outputs, trauma and needs. 

    We are not doctors or licensed medical professionals. We are certified neuro-somatic practitioners and nervous system health/embodiment coaches. We are not your doctor or medical professional and do not know you and your unique nervous system. This podcast is not a replacement for working with a professional.

    The BrainBased.com site and Rewiretrail.com is a membership site for general nervous system health, somatic processing and stress processing. It is not a substitute for medical care or the appropriate solution for anyone in mental health crisis. 

    Any examples mentioned in this podcast are for illustration purposes only. If they are based on real events, names have been changed to protect the identities of those involved. 

    We’ve done our best to ensure our podcast respects the intellectual property rights of others, however if you have an issue with our content, please let us know by emailing us jennifer@traumarewired.com  All rights in our content are reserved



    Related Episodes

    Healing Dissociation

    Healing Dissociation

    “You can’t be present and dissociated at the same time.”

    These wise words from co-host Jennifer Wallace encompasses why this topic is so important to explore. Presence is the truth of our emotions and our reality, because we cannot heal what we do not feel. Being present with our emotions, and feeling them in our body, allows us to truly understand and heal our nervous system in ways that dissociating from the body cannot.

    This is a powerful conversation highlighting what goes on in the brain and nervous system when we dissociate, and how this protective mechanism can become maladaptive when its original function no longer serves us. There is a way to overcome dissociation and authentically feel emotions in the body to truly heal.

    In this episode, Elisabeth Kristoff and Jennifer Wallace deep dive into dissociation and its characteristics. The discussion begins with defining what dissociation is and how it is learned at an early age as a protective mechanism, followed by unraveling how dissociation shows up in the brain, specifically which brain structures are involved in disassociation, as well as the connection between the vagus nerve and the interoceptive system as it pertains to dissociation.

    It’s not enough to just understand these concepts intellectually, the real healing happens when we can experience them, which means feeling them in our bodies. That’s where Neurosomatic Intelligence Coaching comes in, where we teach you the tools you need to heal the whole self, and move out of dissociation and into the body in a safe way.

    Tune in for this and more!

    Topics discussed in this episode:

     

    • Definition of dissociation

    • How dissociation is on a spectrum

    • The protective aspects of dissociation

    • How dissociation gets wired in the brain from an early age

    • The function of the thalamus and how it’s related to dissociation

    • The deep connection between the vagus nerve and the interoceptive system

    • How the brain makes predictions based on our past experiences

    • The possibility to train in new protective skills that are not maladaptive

    • Knowing about the  nervous system is not the same as experiencing it

    • Spiritual bypassing and dissociation 

    • The importance of presence in understanding the truth of emotions



    Contact us about private Rewire Neuro-Somatic Coaching: https://brainbased-wellness.com/rewire-private-neuro-somatic-coaching/

    Learn more about the Neuro-Somatic Intelligence Coaching program and sign up for the spring cohort now! https://www.neurosomaticintelligence.com

     

    Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer on the Brain Based Membership site: https://www.rewiretrial.com

     

    Connect with us on social media: @trauma.rewired

     

    Join the Trauma Rewired Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/761101225132846

     

    FREE 1 Year Supply of Vitamin D + 5 Travel Packs from Athletic Greens when you use my exclusive offer: https://www.drinkag1.com/rewired

     

    This episode was produced by Podcast Boutique https://www.podcastboutique.com



    Trauma Rewired podcast  is intended to educate and inform but does not constitute medical, psychological or other professional advice or services. Always consult a qualified medical professional about your specific circumstances before making any decisions based on what you hear. 

    We share our experiences, explore trauma, physical reactions, mental health and disease. If you become distressed by our content, please stop listening and seek professional support when needed. Do not continue to listen if the conversations are having a negative impact on your health and well-being. 

    If you or someone you know is struggling with their mental health, or in mental health crisis and you are in the United States you can 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.  If someone’s life is in danger, immediately call 911. 

    We do our best to stay current in research, but older episodes are always available.  We don’t warrant or guarantee that this podcast contains complete, accurate or up-to-date information. It’s very important to talk to a medical professional about your individual needs, as we aren’t responsible for any actions you take based on the information you hear in this podcast.

    We  invite guests onto the podcast. Please note that we don’t verify the accuracy of their statements. Our organization does not endorse third-party content and the views of our guests do not necessarily represent the views of our organization.

    We talk about general neuro-science and nervous system health, but you are unique. These are conversations for a wide audience. They are general recommendations and you are always advised to seek personal care for your unique outputs, trauma and needs. 

    We are not doctors or licensed medical professionals. We are certified neuro-somatic practitioners and nervous system health/embodiment coaches. We are not your doctor or medical professional and do not know you and your unique nervous system. This podcast is not a replacement for working with a professional.

    The BrainBased.com site and Rewiretrail.com is a membership site for general nervous system health, somatic processing and stress processing. It is not a substitute for medical care or the appropriate solution for anyone in mental health crisis. 

    Any examples mentioned in this podcast are for illustration purposes only. If they are based on real events, names have been changed to protect the identities of those involved. 

    We’ve done our best to ensure our podcast respects the intellectual property rights of others, however if you have an issue with our content, please let us know by emailing us at traumarewired@gmail.com 

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    Attachment is the Root of Complex Trauma

    Attachment is the Root of Complex Trauma

    Our last episode introduced the brain as a social organ, and how this topic relates to the neurobiology of relationships. Today, we dive deeper into how the brain develops through social interactions, why social connection is a survival need, and what happens in the body when we experience connection with other people.

     

    Matt Bush is joining Jennifer and Elisabeth to discuss the impact of trauma on the brain’s functioning, and therefore, our relationships, expression, sense of safety, and overall health. They talk about what happens when you’re not primed for connection in childhood, how the brain is wired to be part of the social structure in relationships, what part of the brain guides us toward dysregulation and protective outputs, and lots more.

     

    If any of this sounds confusing, be sure to listen for Matt’s definitions of attachment schema and C-PTSD from a neurosomatic perspective, which make it easier to understand how these systems and inputs come together for integration.

     

    You’ll also finally learn why complex trauma is an attachment would, and most importantly, that change is possible and how you can get started NOW. Tune in for all this and more!

     

    Topics discussed in this episode:

     

    • The impact of attachment patterns on brain function

    • How the brain develops through social interactions

    • The role of the insular cortex

    • John Bowlby’s attachment theory

    • How a mother’s nervous system impacts a child’s

    • The resiliency of our nervous system

    • Attachment styles and Bowlby’s experiment

    • Matt’s neurosomatic definition of attachment schema and C-PTSD

    • How we can rewire attachment

     

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    The Freeze Trauma Response

    The Freeze Trauma Response

    Have you been putting off sending that important email or having a difficult conversation? Thesecould be signs of freeze trauma response. Not taking action and procrastinating seems likeinnocent occurrences, because we all do it right? However, these can be seriously damaging to our lives and nervous systems.

    The prolonged trauma that lives in our bodies that doesn’t have a chance to move through us
    can wreak havoc in not only our lives but in our bodies. We have a hard time knowing when we
    are in freeze response because it is so difficult to pinpoint because it gets roped in with
    character attributes like laziness or dissociation.

    Then why do we do this? Well, our brains are very good at protecting ourselves from real or
    perceived threats, so they create these barriers to not put ourselves in situations where we
    could potentially have an exaggerated stress response. Then we continue to procrastinate, and
    go into numbing activities.

    However, there is a way to move through this and design a life where procrastination isn’t the
    norm, and we can live more fulfilling, healthier lives. Rewiring our bodies isn’t an easy task, but
    the reward is exponential.

    Tune in today to hear how you can move out of the freeze trauma response and into life!

    Topics discussed in this episode:
    ● What is the freeze response?
    ● Why does the freeze response occur?
    ● What happens when someone stays in a freeze response?
    ● How dissociation falls under freeze response
    ● How working with the nervous system can help remedy freeze response
    ● Protective postures used in freeze response
    ● Interrupting the protective posture feedback loop
    ● Shame associated with freeze response
    ● Is freeze response related to depression?
    ● Importance of identifying and understanding freeze response

     

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    We are live onsite three times a week to answer your questions and help you work with your nervous system. Get the tools to relieve your stress, burnout, and anxiety today!

     

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    The Inner Critic of Complex Post Traumatic Stress

    The Inner Critic of Complex Post Traumatic Stress

    We’ve all experienced the inner critic to some extent. You know, that voice inside of your head saying you’re not good enough, or that you’re a bad person. Where does this voice come from and why is it so vicious?

    Well, for people dealing with CPTS, this voice is even louder, and even more critical. The volume gets turned up ten notches, and turning it off feels like a game of tug of war. Understanding where this voice comes from and how it manifests is a crucial part to replacing the inner critic with self compassion.

    On this episode of Trauma Rewired, Elisabeth and Jennifer sit down to discuss the inner critic, specifically the severity of it when it comes to people with CPTS, what activates the inner critic loop cycle, what part of the brain the inner critic activates, the reflexive responses associated with the inner critic, and finally, how NSI training can help with quieting the inner critic.

    This type of reflexive response is created as a means of survival, the brain always wants to protect itself. However, the constant cycle of judgment, criticism, demeaning thoughts about the self becomes maladaptive when it stops serving its original purpose.

    There is a way to quiet the inner critic, which we want to share with you today.

    Tune in to find out how to turn down the volume on the inner critic, and the volume up on self compassion.

    Topics discussed in this episode:

     

    • Characteristics of the inner critic for those experiencing CPTS
    • Where the inner critic lives in the brain
    • The fawn response and how it’s related to the inner critic
    • What activates the inner critic loop?
    • The root cause of the inner critic
    • How authenticity is affected by attachment style
    • Freeze trauma response
    • The opposite of the inner critic
    • How NSI training can move you out of the inner critic loop cycle
    • The importance of creating an internal environment of safety 
    • Being exposed to other people’s inner critic
    • Gossip as an external critic
    • Combating the external critic with self compassion

     

    If you would like to WATCH the episode and/or have closed captions, check out our Trauma Rewired YOUTUBE channel! 

     
    If you would like transcripts of this episode, you can find them HERE on Apple Podcasts. 

     

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    Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer on the Brain Based Membership site: https://www.rewiretrial.com

     

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    We talk about general neuro-science and nervous system health, but you are unique. These are conversations for a wide audience. They are general recommendations and you are always advised to seek personal care for your unique outputs, trauma and needs. 

    We are not doctors or licensed medical professionals. We are certified neuro-somatic practitioners and nervous system health/embodiment coaches. We are not your doctor or medical professional and do not know you and your unique nervous system. This podcast is not a replacement for working with a professional.

    The BrainBased.com site and Rewiretrail.com is a membership site for general nervous system health, somatic processing and stress processing. It is not a substitute for medical care or the appropriate solution for anyone in mental health crisis. 

    Any examples mentioned in this podcast are for illustration purposes only. If they are based on real events, names have been changed to protect the identities of those involved. 

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