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    Explore "#boundaries" with insightful episodes like "Emotional Neglect", "What is Neuro-Somatic Intelligence? FAQ: Your Questions Answered", "Healing Dissociation", "Self Abandonment of Complex Post Traumatic Stress" and "Social Anxiety of Complex Post traumatic Stress" from podcasts like ""Trauma Rewired", "Trauma Rewired", "Trauma Rewired", "Trauma Rewired" and "Trauma Rewired"" and more!

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    Emotional Neglect

    Emotional Neglect

    When we think about adverse childhood experiences, emotional neglect is often seen as less significant compared to other forms of trauma. Its subtleties make it easy to overlook, but the truth is that emotional neglect has a profound effect on our relationships and health as adults, from the detrimental effects on the brain and immune system.

    In this episode, hosts Jennifer and Elisabeth define emotional neglect and go over the signs and behaviors of those who’ve experienced it in childhood. They outline how it affects one’s ability to self-regulate, discern and express emotions, form healthy attachments, and more.

    As they explore the topic of emotional neglect, you’ll gain a better understanding of the nuances of emotional neglect, and how emotional neglect manifests in your adult behaviors. Most importantly, Jennifer and Elisabeth tools and strategies that can help you heal and learn emotional regulation.

    Tune in as we peel back the layers of emotional neglect and teach you how to nurture your emotional well-being!

    Topics discussed in this episode:

     

    • Subtleties of emotional neglect

    • The impact of neglect on emotional regulation

    • Signs of childhood emotional neglect

    • What healthy emotional modeling looks like

    • Emotional repression and immune function

    • Boundaries and parentification

    • Strategies to heal emotional neglect

     

    Listen to Trauma Rewired’s episode on “ACE Scores & Health Across Your Lifetime” here: https://illuminatedwithjennifer.libsyn.com/ace-scores-health-across-a-lifetime

     

    UNLOCK ANXIETY with Matt Bush! 

    https://neurosomaticintelligence.com/rewireanxiety/

     

    Become NSI certified and bring Neuro-Somatic Intelligence into your practice. Book a discovery call to see how NSI can support you. 

    https://calendly.com/traumarewired/nsi-discovery-call-with-jennifer

     

     Contact us about private Rewire Neuro-Somatic Coaching:

    https://brainbased-wellness.com/rewire-private-neuro-somatic-coaching/

     

    Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer on the Brain Based Membership site:

    https://www.rewiretrial.com

     

    Connect with us on social media:

    @trauma.rewired

     

    Join the Trauma Rewired Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/761101225132846

    FREE 1 Year Supply of Vitamin D + 5 Travel Packs from Athletic Greens when you use my exclusive offer: https://www.drinkag1.com/rewired

    This episode was produced by Podcast Boutique https://www.podcastboutique.com

    Trauma Rewired podcast  is intended to educate and inform but does not constitute medical, psychological or other professional advice or services. Always consult a qualified medical professional about your specific circumstances before making any decisions based on what you hear. 

    We share our experiences, explore trauma, physical reactions, mental health and disease. If you become distressed by our content, please stop listening and seek professional support when needed. Do not continue to listen if the conversations are having a negative impact on your health and well-being. 

    If you or someone you know is struggling with their mental health, or in mental health crisis and you are in the United States you can 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.  If someone’s life is in danger, immediately call 911. 

    We do our best to stay current in research, but older episodes are always available.  We don’t warrant or guarantee that this podcast contains complete, accurate or up-to-date information. It’s very important to talk to a medical professional about your individual needs, as we aren’t responsible for any actions you take based on the information you hear in this podcast.

    We  invite guests onto the podcast. Please note that we don’t verify the accuracy of their statements. Our organization does not endorse third-party content and the views of our guests do not necessarily represent the views of our organization.

    We talk about general neuro-science and nervous system health, but you are unique. These are conversations for a wide audience. They are general recommendations and you are always advised to seek personal care for your unique outputs, trauma and needs. 

    We are not doctors or licensed medical professionals. We are certified neuro-somatic practitioners and nervous system health/embodiment coaches. We are not your doctor or medical professional and do not know you and your unique nervous system. This podcast is not a replacement for working with a professional.

    The BrainBased.com site and Rewiretrail.com is a membership site for general nervous system health, somatic processing and stress processing. It is not a substitute for medical care or the appropriate solution for anyone in mental health crisis. 

    Any examples mentioned in this podcast are for illustration purposes only. If they are based on real events, names have been changed to protect the identities of those involved. 

    We’ve done our best to ensure our podcast respects the intellectual property rights of others, however if you have an issue with our content, please let us know by emailing us at traumarewired@gmail.com 

    All rights in our content are reserved



    What is Neuro-Somatic Intelligence? FAQ: Your Questions Answered

    What is Neuro-Somatic Intelligence? FAQ: Your Questions Answered

    Our latest episode dives deep into the transformative power of Neurosomatic Intelligence (NSI) and its potential to ripple positive change across communities. 

    We explore how understanding the nervous system can sharpen our existing strengths, address our weaknesses, and cultivate resilience. By intentionally training our nervous systems, we’re not just enhancing our personal health but fostering a connectedness that benefits the larger society.

    Whether you're a therapist, coach, or simply someone invested in personal development, this episode is packed with insights to help you harness the power of your nervous system for more effective and empathetic interactions. The discussion emphasizes the significance of understanding and intentionally training the nervous system for better outcomes as well as exploring the interplay between emotions and behaviors.

    NSI brings a holistic approach that acknowledges the complexities of trauma, emphasizing safety, calibration, and the importance of dosage in therapeutic practice. We aim to provide practical tools for practitioners working with the nervous systems of their clients, ensuring that interventions are tailored to individual needs. Our goal is to not only impact individual well-being but also catalyze social change by being trauma-informed and fostering an environment where everyone can thrive.

    Hosts Elisabeth and Jennifer are joined by Matt Bush, a lead educator from the NSI certification course. 

    In this episode we discuss:

    • What is Neuro-Somatic Intelligence?
    • Who is this course for?
    • The importance of a trauma-informed approach
    • Practical Tools for therapists, coaches, therapists, and community healers
    • The imapct of the nervous system on thoughts, feelings, and behaviors
    • Uncover how a holistic appraoch to your nervous system can reshape your world to create lasting, postivie change. 

     

    I'm ready to book a discovery call! 

    https://calendly.com/traumarewired/nsi-discovery-call-with-jennifer

     

    Register for the upcoming workshop here! 

    https://www.neurosomaticintelligence.com

     

    Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer on the Brain Based Membership site: https://www.rewiretrial.com

     

    Connect with us on social media: @trauma.rewired

     

    Join the Trauma Rewired Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/761101225132846

     

    FREE 1 Year Supply of Vitamin D + 5 Travel Packs from Athletic Greens when you use my exclusive offer: https://www.drinkag1.com/rewired

     

    This episode was produced by Podcast Boutique https://www.podcastboutique.com

     

    Disclaimer

    Trauma Rewired podcast  is intended to educate and inform but does not constitute medical, psychological or other professional advice or services. Always consult a qualified medical professional about your specific circumstances before making any decisions based on what you hear. 

    We share our experiences, explore trauma, physical reactions, mental health and disease. If you become distressed by our content, please stop listening and seek professional support when needed. Do not continue to listen if the conversations are having a negative impact on your health and well-being. 

    If you or someone you know is struggling with their mental health, or in mental health crisis and you are in the United States you can 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.  If someone’s life is in danger, immediately call 911. 

    We do our best to stay current in research, but older episodes are always available.  We don’t warrant or guarantee that this podcast contains complete, accurate or up-to-date information. It’s very important to talk to a medical professional about your individual needs, as we aren’t responsible for any actions you take based on the information you hear in this podcast.

    We  invite guests onto the podcast. Please note that we don’t verify the accuracy of their statements. Our organization does not endorse third-party content and the views of our guests do not necessarily represent the views of our organization.

    We talk about general neuro-science and nervous system health, but you are unique. These are conversations for a wide audience. They are general recommendations and you are always advised to seek personal care for your unique outputs, trauma and needs. 

    We are not doctors or licensed medical professionals. We are certified neuro-somatic practitioners and nervous system health/embodiment coaches. We are not your doctor or medical professional and do not know you and your unique nervous system. This podcast is not a replacement for working with a professional.

    The BrainBased.com site and Rewiretrail.com is a membership site for general nervous system health, somatic processing and stress processing. It is not a substitute for medical care or the appropriate solution for anyone in mental health crisis. 

    Any examples mentioned in this podcast are for illustration purposes only. If they are based on real events, names have been changed to protect the identities of those involved. 

    We’ve done our best to ensure our podcast respects the intellectual property rights of others, however if you have an issue with our content, please let us know by emailing us at traumarewired@gmail.com 

    All rights in our content are reserved

     

    Healing Dissociation

    Healing Dissociation

    “You can’t be present and dissociated at the same time.”

    These wise words from co-host Jennifer Wallace encompasses why this topic is so important to explore. Presence is the truth of our emotions and our reality, because we cannot heal what we do not feel. Being present with our emotions, and feeling them in our body, allows us to truly understand and heal our nervous system in ways that dissociating from the body cannot.

    This is a powerful conversation highlighting what goes on in the brain and nervous system when we dissociate, and how this protective mechanism can become maladaptive when its original function no longer serves us. There is a way to overcome dissociation and authentically feel emotions in the body to truly heal.

    In this episode, Elisabeth Kristoff and Jennifer Wallace deep dive into dissociation and its characteristics. The discussion begins with defining what dissociation is and how it is learned at an early age as a protective mechanism, followed by unraveling how dissociation shows up in the brain, specifically which brain structures are involved in disassociation, as well as the connection between the vagus nerve and the interoceptive system as it pertains to dissociation.

    It’s not enough to just understand these concepts intellectually, the real healing happens when we can experience them, which means feeling them in our bodies. That’s where Neurosomatic Intelligence Coaching comes in, where we teach you the tools you need to heal the whole self, and move out of dissociation and into the body in a safe way.

    Tune in for this and more!

    Topics discussed in this episode:

     

    • Definition of dissociation

    • How dissociation is on a spectrum

    • The protective aspects of dissociation

    • How dissociation gets wired in the brain from an early age

    • The function of the thalamus and how it’s related to dissociation

    • The deep connection between the vagus nerve and the interoceptive system

    • How the brain makes predictions based on our past experiences

    • The possibility to train in new protective skills that are not maladaptive

    • Knowing about the  nervous system is not the same as experiencing it

    • Spiritual bypassing and dissociation 

    • The importance of presence in understanding the truth of emotions



    Contact us about private Rewire Neuro-Somatic Coaching: https://brainbased-wellness.com/rewire-private-neuro-somatic-coaching/

    Learn more about the Neuro-Somatic Intelligence Coaching program and sign up for the spring cohort now! https://www.neurosomaticintelligence.com

     

    Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer on the Brain Based Membership site: https://www.rewiretrial.com

     

    Connect with us on social media: @trauma.rewired

     

    Join the Trauma Rewired Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/761101225132846

     

    FREE 1 Year Supply of Vitamin D + 5 Travel Packs from Athletic Greens when you use my exclusive offer: https://www.drinkag1.com/rewired

     

    This episode was produced by Podcast Boutique https://www.podcastboutique.com



    Trauma Rewired podcast  is intended to educate and inform but does not constitute medical, psychological or other professional advice or services. Always consult a qualified medical professional about your specific circumstances before making any decisions based on what you hear. 

    We share our experiences, explore trauma, physical reactions, mental health and disease. If you become distressed by our content, please stop listening and seek professional support when needed. Do not continue to listen if the conversations are having a negative impact on your health and well-being. 

    If you or someone you know is struggling with their mental health, or in mental health crisis and you are in the United States you can 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.  If someone’s life is in danger, immediately call 911. 

    We do our best to stay current in research, but older episodes are always available.  We don’t warrant or guarantee that this podcast contains complete, accurate or up-to-date information. It’s very important to talk to a medical professional about your individual needs, as we aren’t responsible for any actions you take based on the information you hear in this podcast.

    We  invite guests onto the podcast. Please note that we don’t verify the accuracy of their statements. Our organization does not endorse third-party content and the views of our guests do not necessarily represent the views of our organization.

    We talk about general neuro-science and nervous system health, but you are unique. These are conversations for a wide audience. They are general recommendations and you are always advised to seek personal care for your unique outputs, trauma and needs. 

    We are not doctors or licensed medical professionals. We are certified neuro-somatic practitioners and nervous system health/embodiment coaches. We are not your doctor or medical professional and do not know you and your unique nervous system. This podcast is not a replacement for working with a professional.

    The BrainBased.com site and Rewiretrail.com is a membership site for general nervous system health, somatic processing and stress processing. It is not a substitute for medical care or the appropriate solution for anyone in mental health crisis. 

    Any examples mentioned in this podcast are for illustration purposes only. If they are based on real events, names have been changed to protect the identities of those involved. 

    We’ve done our best to ensure our podcast respects the intellectual property rights of others, however if you have an issue with our content, please let us know by emailing us at traumarewired@gmail.com 

    All rights in our content are reserved

     

    Self Abandonment of Complex Post Traumatic Stress

    Self Abandonment of Complex Post Traumatic Stress

    The essence of who we are radiates when we live in our purpose. When we can connect with our true self and share it with others. There are many blockers stopping us from being able to express our feelings, or even know what we’re experiencing, and one of them is self abandonment.

     

    Don’t let the “self” fool you — sometimes, we unintentionally abandon ourselves because of the survival responses born as a result of trauma. Until healing begins, we can get stuck living through learned patterns of ignoring our own needs in favor of others around us, suppressing feelings to protect ourselves from the neglect of others, and rejecting our intuition.

     

    Trauma Rewired host, Jennifer, and Elisabeth Kristof of Brain-Based Wellness are finishing the CPTSD series by discussing this final component of CPTSD: self abandonment. They talk about the ways we abandon ourselves through the lens of their own experiences, and how it manifests in a cycle of self-abuse and shame.

     

    If you find yourself disregarding your own health and happiness, tune in to understand this component of CPTSD and how healing is possible!

     

    Topics discussed in this episode:

     

    • Jennifer shares a recent story of self abandonment

    • Elisabeth defints self abandonment

    • Dissociation as a survival response

    • The effects of parentification

    • Healing self abandonment

    • How all the components of CPTSD work together

    • Becoming an expert of your nervous system

    • Toxic stress and disease

    • Learning to say “no” and self-regulate

    • The power of self-expression

    • Join the live-recording Q&A episode AND the new Facebook group!

     

     

    Contact us about private Rewire Neuro-Somatic Coaching: https://brainbased-wellness.com/rewire-private-neuro-somatic-coaching/

    Learn more about the Neuro-Somatic Intelligence Coaching program and sign up for the spring cohort now! https://www.neurosomaticintelligence.com

     

    Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer on the Brain Based Membership site: https://www.rewiretrial.com

     

    Connect with us on social media: @trauma.rewired

     

    Join the Trauma Rewired Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/761101225132846

     

    FREE 1 Year Supply of Vitamin D + 5 Travel Packs from Athletic Greens when you use my exclusive offer: https://www.drinkag1.com/rewired

     

    This episode was produced by Podcast Boutique https://www.podcastboutique.com



    Trauma Rewired podcast  is intended to educate and inform but does not constitute medical, psychological or other professional advice or services. Always consult a qualified medical professional about your specific circumstances before making any decisions based on what you hear. 

    We share our experiences, explore trauma, physical reactions, mental health and disease. If you become distressed by our content, please stop listening and seek professional support when needed. Do not continue to listen if the conversations are having a negative impact on your health and well-being. 

    If you or someone you know is struggling with their mental health, or in mental health crisis and you are in the United States you can 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.  If someone’s life is in danger, immediately call 911. 

    We do our best to stay current in research, but older episodes are always available.  We don’t warrant or guarantee that this podcast contains complete, accurate or up-to-date information. It’s very important to talk to a medical professional about your individual needs, as we aren’t responsible for any actions you take based on the information you hear in this podcast.

    We  invite guests onto the podcast. Please note that we don’t verify the accuracy of their statements. Our organization does not endorse third-party content and the views of our guests do not necessarily represent the views of our organization.

    We talk about general neuro-science and nervous system health, but you are unique. These are conversations for a wide audience. They are general recommendations and you are always advised to seek personal care for your unique outputs, trauma and needs. 

    We are not doctors or licensed medical professionals. We are certified neuro-somatic practitioners and nervous system health/embodiment coaches. We are not your doctor or medical professional and do not know you and your unique nervous system. This podcast is not a replacement for working with a professional.

    The BrainBased.com site and Rewiretrail.com is a membership site for general nervous system health, somatic processing and stress processing. It is not a substitute for medical care or the appropriate solution for anyone in mental health crisis. 

    Any examples mentioned in this podcast are for illustration purposes only. If they are based on real events, names have been changed to protect the identities of those involved. 

    We’ve done our best to ensure our podcast respects the intellectual property rights of others, however if you have an issue with our content, please let us know by emailing us at traumarewired@gmail.com 

    All rights in our content are reserved

     

    Social Anxiety of Complex Post traumatic Stress

    Social Anxiety of Complex Post traumatic Stress

    The term social anxiety gets tossed around a lot these days, however individuals with CPTS who experience social anxiety feel its effects on a visceral level. It can be highly debilitating and can affect the way we relate and connect to others, when the need for connection is at the very core of what makes us human.

    Knowing if you actually have social anxiety can be tricky, especially if there are socially acceptable coping mechanisms like overconsumption of substances involved. The proof is in the nervous system outputs, such as migraines, pain, exhaustion, or binge eating, after every social event. As well as, if these outputs cause you to refrain from being in social settings all together. At these times, it's important to reflect on whether you're genuinely comfortable in social situations or if social anxiety may be at play.

    In today’s episode, Elisabeth and Jennifer explore the world of social anxiety, specifically what signs in your nervous system to look out for if you suspect you have social anxiety, the difference between social anxiety and being socially awkward, the role substance use plays, how your attachment style can indicate your level of social anxiety, and how to repattern the nervous system using NSI tools to overcome social anxiety, and much more.

    As humans, we need to connect to others, and we need relationships to thrive. Social anxiety can impede these very human needs, however there is a way around it. It is possible to change how your nervous system takes in information, and change the way it reacts to that information, using simple tools to rewire and regulate.

    Tune in to hear how and more!


    Topics discussed in this episode:

     

    • What is social anxiety?

    • The nervous system outputs associated with social anxiety

    • Substance use and social anxiety

    • How the inner critic and toxic shame shows up in social anxiety

    • What is hypervigilance?

    • Physiological reasons why stress in social situations can cause protective outputs

    • How ADHD and social anxiety overlap

    • How attachment styles are related to social anxiety

    • Repatterning the nervous system to experience new outputs using NSI 



    Contact us about private Rewire Neuro-Somatic Coaching: https://brainbased-wellness.com/rewire-private-neuro-somatic-coaching/

    Learn more about the Neuro-Somatic Intelligence Coaching program and sign up for the spring cohort now! https://www.neurosomaticintelligence.com

     

    Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer on the Brain Based Membership site: https://www.rewiretrial.com

     

    Connect with us on social media: @trauma.rewired

     

    Join the Trauma Rewired Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/761101225132846

     

    FREE 1 Year Supply of Vitamin D + 5 Travel Packs from Athletic Greens when you use my exclusive offer: https://www.drinkag1.com/rewired

     

    This episode was produced by Podcast Boutique https://www.podcastboutique.com



    Trauma Rewired podcast  is intended to educate and inform but does not constitute medical, psychological or other professional advice or services. Always consult a qualified medical professional about your specific circumstances before making any decisions based on what you hear. 

    We share our experiences, explore trauma, physical reactions, mental health and disease. If you become distressed by our content, please stop listening and seek professional support when needed. Do not continue to listen if the conversations are having a negative impact on your health and well-being. 

    If you or someone you know is struggling with their mental health, or in mental health crisis and you are in the United States you can 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.  If someone’s life is in danger, immediately call 911. 

    We do our best to stay current in research, but older episodes are always available.  We don’t warrant or guarantee that this podcast contains complete, accurate or up-to-date information. It’s very important to talk to a medical professional about your individual needs, as we aren’t responsible for any actions you take based on the information you hear in this podcast.

    We  invite guests onto the podcast. Please note that we don’t verify the accuracy of their statements. Our organization does not endorse third-party content and the views of our guests do not necessarily represent the views of our organization.

    We talk about general neuro-science and nervous system health, but you are unique. These are conversations for a wide audience. They are general recommendations and you are always advised to seek personal care for your unique outputs, trauma and needs. 

    We are not doctors or licensed medical professionals. We are certified neuro-somatic practitioners and nervous system health/embodiment coaches. We are not your doctor or medical professional and do not know you and your unique nervous system. This podcast is not a replacement for working with a professional.

    The BrainBased.com site and Rewiretrail.com is a membership site for general nervous system health, somatic processing and stress processing. It is not a substitute for medical care or the appropriate solution for anyone in mental health crisis. 

    Any examples mentioned in this podcast are for illustration purposes only. If they are based on real events, names have been changed to protect the identities of those involved. 

    We’ve done our best to ensure our podcast respects the intellectual property rights of others, however if you have an issue with our content, please let us know by emailing us at traumarewired@gmail.com 

    All rights in our content are reserved

     

    The Inner Critic of Complex Post Traumatic Stress

    The Inner Critic of Complex Post Traumatic Stress

    We’ve all experienced the inner critic to some extent. You know, that voice inside of your head saying you’re not good enough, or that you’re a bad person. Where does this voice come from and why is it so vicious?

    Well, for people dealing with CPTS, this voice is even louder, and even more critical. The volume gets turned up ten notches, and turning it off feels like a game of tug of war. Understanding where this voice comes from and how it manifests is a crucial part to replacing the inner critic with self compassion.

    On this episode of Trauma Rewired, Elisabeth and Jennifer sit down to discuss the inner critic, specifically the severity of it when it comes to people with CPTS, what activates the inner critic loop cycle, what part of the brain the inner critic activates, the reflexive responses associated with the inner critic, and finally, how NSI training can help with quieting the inner critic.

    This type of reflexive response is created as a means of survival, the brain always wants to protect itself. However, the constant cycle of judgment, criticism, demeaning thoughts about the self becomes maladaptive when it stops serving its original purpose.

    There is a way to quiet the inner critic, which we want to share with you today.

    Tune in to find out how to turn down the volume on the inner critic, and the volume up on self compassion.

    Topics discussed in this episode:

     

    • Characteristics of the inner critic for those experiencing CPTS
    • Where the inner critic lives in the brain
    • The fawn response and how it’s related to the inner critic
    • What activates the inner critic loop?
    • The root cause of the inner critic
    • How authenticity is affected by attachment style
    • Freeze trauma response
    • The opposite of the inner critic
    • How NSI training can move you out of the inner critic loop cycle
    • The importance of creating an internal environment of safety 
    • Being exposed to other people’s inner critic
    • Gossip as an external critic
    • Combating the external critic with self compassion

     

    If you would like to WATCH the episode and/or have closed captions, check out our Trauma Rewired YOUTUBE channel! 

     
    If you would like transcripts of this episode, you can find them HERE on Apple Podcasts. 

     

    Learn more about the Neuro-Somatic Intelligence Coaching program and sign up for the spring cohort now! https://www.neurosomaticintelligence.com

     

    Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer on the Brain Based Membership site: https://www.rewiretrial.com

     

    Connect with us on social media: @trauma.rewired

     

    Join the Trauma Rewired Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/761101225132846

     

    FREE 1 Year Supply of Vitamin D + 5 Travel Packs from Athletic Greens when you use my exclusive offer: https://www.drinkag1.com/rewired

     

    This episode was produced by Podcast Boutique https://www.podcastboutique.com

     

    Trauma Rewired podcast  is intended to educate and inform but does not constitute medical, psychological or other professional advice or services. Always consult a qualified medical professional about your specific circumstances before making any decisions based on what you hear. 

    We share our experiences, explore trauma, physical reactions, mental health and disease. If you become distressed by our content, please stop listening and seek professional support when needed. Do not continue to listen if the conversations are having a negative impact on your health and well-being. 

    If you or someone you know is struggling with their mental health, or in mental health crisis and you are in the United States you can 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.  If someone’s life is in danger, immediately call 911. 

    We do our best to stay current in research, but older episodes are always available.  We don’t warrant or guarantee that this podcast contains complete, accurate or up-to-date information. It’s very important to talk to a medical professional about your individual needs, as we aren’t responsible for any actions you take based on the information you hear in this podcast.

    We  invite guests onto the podcast. Please note that we don’t verify the accuracy of their statements. Our organization does not endorse third-party content and the views of our guests do not necessarily represent the views of our organization.

    We talk about general neuro-science and nervous system health, but you are unique. These are conversations for a wide audience. They are general recommendations and you are always advised to seek personal care for your unique outputs, trauma and needs. 

    We are not doctors or licensed medical professionals. We are certified neuro-somatic practitioners and nervous system health/embodiment coaches. We are not your doctor or medical professional and do not know you and your unique nervous system. This podcast is not a replacement for working with a professional.

    The BrainBased.com site and Rewiretrail.com is a membership site for general nervous system health, somatic processing and stress processing. It is not a substitute for medical care or the appropriate solution for anyone in mental health crisis. 

    Any examples mentioned in this podcast are for illustration purposes only. If they are based on real events, names have been changed to protect the identities of those involved. 

    We’ve done our best to ensure our podcast respects the intellectual property rights of others, however if you have an issue with our content, please let us know by emailing us traumarewired@gmail.com All rights in our content are reserved.



     

    Relationships and Your Nervous System; Closing the Season and Looking Ahead

    Relationships and Your Nervous System; Closing the Season and Looking Ahead

    Elisabeth Kristof and Jennifer Wallace close season three of Trauma Rewired by reflecting on the interconnectedness of trauma, the nervous systems and our relationships explored throughout the season. They delve into the season’s most powerful conversations and insightful concepts, including relational patterns like emotional neglect, the neurology of narcissism, the importance of community healing, and more.

    Listeners were engaged more than ever, so you’ll hear stories of how the season impacted listeners in their healing journeys. Elisabeth and Jennifer also answer common listener questions (and even criticisms), discussing the nuances of healing unique nervous systems.

    Looking ahead to next season, Elisabeth and Jennifer tease a deeper look into structural trauma, systemic oppression, the mental health industry and science behind these concepts.

    Plus, if you want more content on CPTSD and the impact of trauma on the nervous system, tune in to find out what you can expect from the upcoming midseason!

    Topics discussed in this episode:

     

    • The biggest takeaways from season three of Trauma Rewired
    • Our deep dive into the science of trauma
    • The profound impact on listeners
    • Answers to listener questions
    • How to safely bring neuro tools into your healing practice
    • Preview of season four: mental health, structural trauma and more

     

    Contact us about private Rewire Neuro-Somatic Coaching:

    https://brainbased-wellness.com/rewire-private-neuro-somatic-coaching/

     

    Learn more about the Neuro-Somatic Intelligence Coaching program and sign up for the spring cohort now! https://www.neurosomaticintelligence.com

     

    Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer on the Brain Based Membership site:

    https://www.rewiretrial.com

     

    Connect with us on social media:

    @trauma.rewired

     

    Join the Trauma Rewired Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/761101225132846

    Empower Your Voice: Transforming Boundaries and Communication Through Neuro-Somatic Intelligence

    Empower Your Voice: Transforming Boundaries and Communication Through Neuro-Somatic Intelligence

    Voice and Visibility

    Season 03, Episode 35

    Voice is a profound tool for self-expression, embodiment, and navigating the world around us. In this episode with Elise Bessler, NSI-certified practitioner and voice coach, hosts Jennifer and Elisabeth dive into the power of finding our voice and using it safely through the work of nervous system regulation.

    Their conversation opens with a discussion of how trauma impacts voice, exploring the connection between trauma responses like freeze and fawn, and the ways NSI can help rewire the patterns that inhibit healthy communication and full expression.

    Elise shares insights from her personal journey and work in trauma-informed leadership, illustrating how a deeper connection to her voice has revolutionized her ability to set boundaries and live authentically

    Tune in to learn how activating and liberating your voice is a pathway to healing!

    Topics discussed in this episode:

     

    • Trauma’s impact on voice and its connection with the nervous system

    • Freeze response and voice

    • The connection between the vocal cords, diaphragm, and pelvic floor

    • The healing power of singing

    • Fawn response and setting boundaries

    • Communication and nervous system regulation in leadership

    • How NSI has transformed Elise’s work and personal life

     

    Connect with Elise Besler:

    https://www.instagram.com/elisebesler/

    https://elisebesler.com/links

     

    Learn more about the Neuro-Somatic Intelligence Coaching program and sign up for the spring cohort now! htps://www.neurosomaticintelligence.com

     

     Contact us about private Rewire Neuro-Somatic Coaching:

    https://brainbased-wellness.com/rewire-private-neuro-somatic-coaching/

    Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer on the Brain Based Membership site:

    https://www.rewiretrial.com

     

    Connect with us on social media:

    @trauma.rewired

     

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    This episode was produced by Podcast Boutique https://www.podcastboutique.com

     

    Healing the Relationship to Our Bodies

    Healing the Relationship to Our Bodies

    Our bodies are always speaking to us, but often we’re not able to understand or listen to what they’re trying to communicate.

    In this episode, hosts Jennifer and Elisabeth unpack the complexities of our relationship to the body, including how our perceptions, emotions and beliefs about our bodies significantly impact our overall well-being. They dive deep into the impact the interoceptive system has on the nervous system, emotions and behaviors, especially in relation to disordered eating and body dysmorphia.

    Jennifer and Elisabeth explore how past traumas shape our body image and inhibit our ability to express emotions safely through the body, sharing their own journeys from the cycle of maladaptive behaviors to loving acceptance.

    Tune in to hear their insights into having a healthier, more compassionate relationship with your body!

    Topics discussed in this episode:

     

    • Exploring the relationship to the body
    • How we develop our body image
    • Interoceptive awareness and our ability to connect to the body
    • The connection between trauma and the relationship to the body
    • Understanding body dysmorphia and dissociation
    • Sensory mismatch in relation to body dysmorphia
    • The emotional aspect of the relationship to the body
    • Building a healthier relationship to the body

     

    Contact us about private Rewire Neuro-Somatic Coaching:

    https://brainbased-wellness.com/rewire-private-neuro-somatic-coaching/

     

    Learn more about the Neuro-Somatic Intelligence Coaching program and sign up for the spring cohort now! https://www.neurosomaticintelligence.com/?utm_medium=aff-traumarewired&utm_content&utm_source

     

    Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer on the Brain Based Membership site:

    https://www.rewiretrial.com

     

    Connect with us on social media:

    @trauma.rewired

     

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    Dissociation

    Dissociation

    Dissociation is one way that our brain keeps us safe from things that may cause us stress or harm. Whether it’s a simple moment of daydreaming or constant state of dissociation in an abusive relationship, being cognitively and physically disconnected is not conducive to healing.

     

    During this episode of Trauma Rewired, Jennifer and Elisabeth discuss the spectrum of dissociation and how it can affect the interoceptive system, or how we process and send information to the brain. They go over the symptoms of dissociation, sharing their personal experiences of dissociation related to childhood trauma.

     

    Our survival brain sees healing as a threat, but there are ways to rehab the deficits in the nervous system to give more clear information to the brain, helping us to think and see more clearly. For example, training our interoceptive system can fight our hypersensitivity to threats and bring us out of disassociation.

     

    To learn what tools can help you retrain your nervous system and the learned conditioned responses that are no longer serving you, tune in to this episode!

     

    Topics discussed in this episode:

     

    • Misconceptions about dissociation

    • The definition of dissociation and its symptoms

    • Dissociation as a protective mechanism

    • How the interoceptive system works

    • Dissociation and the freeze response

    • How dissociation affects the body and how we feel pain

    • The link to avoidance behavior

    • Tools to bring yourself back from a state of dissociation

    • Body dysmorphia and deficits in the visual system

    • Living in the body to find a safe place to feel and heal

    • Dissociation as an effect of peak somatic experiences

     

    Learn more about the Neuro-Somatic Intelligence Coaching program and sign up for the spring cohort now! https://www.neurosomaticintelligence.com/?utm_medium=aff-traumarewired&utm_content&utm_source

     

    Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer on the Brain Based Membership site:

    https://www.rewiretrial.com

     

    Contact us about private Rewire Neuro-Somatic Coaching:

    https://brainbased-wellness.com/rewire-private-neuro-somatic-coaching/

     

    Connect with us on social media:

    @trauma.rewired

     

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    Attachment Styles Can Change and Are a Lens That Filters Relationships

    Attachment Styles Can Change and Are a Lens That Filters Relationships

    When a child’s needs aren’t being met by their caregiver, by not being fed or feeling safe, they develop a distorted view of relationships. This attachment schema is the lens through which they examine the behavior of others, impacting their ability to form relationships and lead a healthy, happy life.

    In past episodes, hosts Jennifer and Elisabeth have talked about connection being one of our survival needs, but an insecure attachment directly challenges this need. Being close to others, feeling vulnerable and connected, can also be very dysregulating to those who learned to survive with unemotional or unreliable caregivers.

    So, how can you overcome your learned patterns to create healthy relationships with yourself and others? The answer is nervous system training.

    In this episode, Jennifer and Elisabeth will walk you through attachment schema, how the three insecure attachment styles develop and show up as behavioral outputs, and how nervous system regulation has helped them work toward lasting change.

    Tune in for all this and more!

    Topics discussed in this episode:

     

    • Attachment style from the NSI perspective

    • How insecure attachment schema affects social development

    • Nervous system regulation as a way to change our patterns

    • The areas of the brain responsible for creating neuro tags

    • How the 3 insecure attachment styles develop and are expressed

    • Misconceptions about avoidant attachment style

    • Disorganized attachment and complex trauma

     

    Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer:

    https://www.rewiretrial.com

     

    Learn more about the Neuro-Somatic Intelligence Coaching program and sign up for the spring cohort now! https://www.neurosomaticintelligence.com/?utm_medium=aff-traumarewired&utm_content&utm_source

     

    Sign up for the free Holiday Self-Care NSI Workshop on December 15th:

    https://neurosomaticintelligence.com/holidayselfcare

     

    Connect with us on social media:

    @trauma.rewired

     

    Contact us about 1:1 Rewire Neuro-Somatic Coaching:

    https://brainbased-wellness.com/rewire-private-neuro-somatic-coaching/

     

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    Holidays Attachment

    Holidays Attachment

    The holidays can be a magical time full of celebrations and connection, but they can also evoke feelings of loneliness and overwhelm — especially for those with a history of trauma. This duality of emotions can be hard to navigate, so this episode of Trauma Rewired explores the complex emotions that many experience during this time and strategies to manage them without falling back to harmful behaviors.

    The conversation begins by revisiting the concept of neurotags to illustrate how simple sensory inputs like sounds or smells can trigger emotional and physical responses linked to past traumas. Then, we delve into the impact of family dynamics, societal pressures, internal and external expectations, highlighting the importance of self-care and boundary setting.

    Hosts Jennifer and Elisabeth also share their personal experiences with holiday-related trauma and reflect on their coping mechanisms that have evolved from maladaptive to healthy over time. As you listen to their insights, you’ll learn tools and strategies to regulate your nervous system, honor your body, and manage expectations amidst the festive chaos.

    Tune in to learn what small actions you can take to overcome the holiday blues!

    Topics discussed in this episode:

     

    • The concept of neurotags and the holidays

    • Emotional complexities of the holiday season and trauma

    • Triggers and maladaptive behavior

    • Expectations versus capacity

    • Self-care and setting boundaries

    • The holiday season’s impact on our health

    • Healthy coping strategies for the holidays

    • What to expect next season on Trauma Rewired

    Sign up for the free Holiday Self-Care NSI Workshop on December 15th:

    https://neurosomaticintelligence.com/holidayselfcare

     

    Contact us about private Rewire Neuro-Somatic Coaching:

    https://brainbased-wellness.com/rewire-private-neuro-somatic-coaching/

     

    Learn more about the Neuro-Somatic Intelligence Coaching program and sign up for the spring cohort now! https://www.neurosomaticintelligence.com/?utm_medium=aff-traumarewired&utm_content&utm_source

     

    Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer on the Brain Based Membership site:

    https://www.rewiretrial.com

     

    Connect with us on social media:

    @trauma.rewired

     

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    Secure Attachments & Nervous System Health

    Secure Attachments & Nervous System Health

    Do you intellectualize all the concepts and theories heard on this podcast or the ones you read on The Holistic Psychologist’s social media, but can’t seem to get past the awareness stage of healing and put what you know into practice?

    In this episode with Dr. Nicole LePera, aka “The Holistic Psychologist,” we discuss the power of embodiment and its role in healing trauma and rewiring the brain to support a healthy nervous system. We do a deep dive into the profound impact our childhood has on future relationships, getting into the root cause of our maladaptive cycles of behavior and how to overcome internal, subconscious resistance.

    After listening to this insightful conversation, you’ll have a better understanding of the neurobiology of trauma bonds, how trauma affects our experience of emotion, and the challenges you may face on your healing journey.

    Tune in to learn how to cultivate safety within yourself and improve your relationships!

    Topics discussed in this episode:

     

    • Embodiment’s role in healing

    • Chronic shame and dysregulation

    • How our childhood impacts adult relationships

    • Trauma bonds and how they manifest as relational patterns

    • The theory of constructed emotion

    • Grief and anger in the healing process

    • Harmful labeling in the mental health industry

    Order Dr. Nicole LePera’s new book, How To Be The Love You Seek! https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/

     

    Sign up for the free Holiday Self-Care NSI Workshop on December 15th:

    https://neurosomaticintelligence.com/holidayselfcare

     

    Connect with Dr. Nicole LePera:

    https://theholisticpsychologist.com/free-resources/

    https://www.instagram.com/the.holistic.psychologist/

    https://twitter.com/Theholisticpsyc

    https://www.tiktok.com/@theholisticpsychologist

    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtEWTaMjqOH8J1Gy06Ey0Yg

     

    Learn more about the SelfHealers Circle:

    ​​https://selfhealerscircle.com/waitlist/

     

    Contact us about private Rewire Neuro-Somatic Coaching:

    https://brainbased-wellness.com/rewire-private-neuro-somatic-coaching/

     

    Learn more about the Neuro-Somatic Intelligence Coaching program and sign up for the spring cohort now! https://www.neurosomaticintelligence.com/?utm_medium=aff-traumarewired&utm_content&utm_source

     

    Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer on the Brain Based Membership site:

    https://www.rewiretrial.com

     

    Connect with us on social media:

    @trauma.rewired

     

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    Emotional Neglect

    Emotional Neglect

    When we think about adverse childhood experiences, emotional neglect is often seen as less significant compared to other forms of trauma. Its subtleties make it easy to overlook, but the truth is that emotional neglect has a profound effect on our relationships and health as adults, from the detrimental effects on the brain and immune system.

    In this episode, hosts Jennifer and Elisabeth define emotional neglect and go over the signs and behaviors of those who’ve experienced it in childhood. They outline how it affects one’s ability to self-regulate, discern and express emotions, form healthy attachments, and more.

    As they explore the topic of emotional neglect, you’ll gain a better understanding of the nuances of emotional neglect, and how emotional neglect manifests in your adult behaviors. Most importantly, Jennifer and Elisabeth tools and strategies that can help you heal and learn emotional regulation.

    Tune in as we peel back the layers of emotional neglect and teach you how to nurture your emotional well-being!

    Topics discussed in this episode:

     

    • Subtleties of emotional neglect

    • The impact of neglect on emotional regulation

    • Signs of childhood emotional neglect

    • What healthy emotional modeling looks like

    • Emotional repression and immune function

    • Boundaries and parentification

    • Strategies to heal emotional neglect

     

    Listen to Trauma Rewired’s episode on “ACE Scores & Health Across Your Lifetime” here: https://illuminatedwithjennifer.libsyn.com/ace-scores-health-across-a-lifetime

     

    Sign up for the free Holiday Self-Care NSI Workshop on December 15th:

    https://neurosomaticintelligence.com/holidayselfcare

     

    Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer on the Brain Based Membership site:

    https://www.rewiretrial.com

     

    Connect with us on social media:

    @trauma.rewired

     

    Contact us about private Rewire Neuro-Somatic Coaching:

    https://brainbased-wellness.com/rewire-private-neuro-somatic-coaching/

     

    Free Nervous System Training Video Course! Get in on Elisabeth's exclusive Free Video Training - her proven step-by-step system to ZAP stress, RESOLVE anxiety, STOP pain, DROP unwanted behaviors and MAGNIFY clarity and focus.  It’s easier than you think. If you can watch a video, you can heal your nervous system. 

    http://rewirecourse.com/

     

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    Chronic Pain & Emotions

    Chronic Pain & Emotions

    As we dive deeper into applied neurology and the immune system, we’re joined by the founder of Stop Chasing Pain, Dr. Bruce Perry. He helps us explore the link between emotion, pain and its impact on the immune system.

    In this episode, Dr. Perry shares his personal experience with polyautoimmunity as he discusses his experience treating his own shame surrounding his body image. With his expertise, we explore the subconscious and conscious role of emotions, as well as the body’s natural response to threats, including how we can fight inflammation even when it’s an unintentional effect of our emotional responses.

    Dr. Perry, along with hosts Jennifer and Elisabeth, provide insights on how you can work with the nervous system to create long-lasting change that impacts the health of your immune system. You’ll learn how trauma can dysregulate the nervous system, the importance of self-awareness, and what you can do to nurture social connection and introspection.

    Tune in as we explore the consequences of trauma on our body, as well as inflammation from a neurosomatic perspective!

    Topics discussed in this episode:

     

    • How Dr. Perry got into this work

    • The way in which we process sensory input

    • Self-awareness and its role in lasting change

    • Understanding the nervous system and its reaction to stimuli

    • Shame and how it leads to inflammation

    • Pain as a protective response

    • Allostatic load and alleviating stress

    • What happens in the body during shame/inflammatory response

    • Where to learn more about lymphatic work

     

    Connect with Dr. Bruce Perry:

    @stopchasingpain

    https://www.stopchasingpain.com/

     

    Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer:

    https://www.rewiretrial.com

     

    Learn more about the Neuro-Somatic Intelligence Coaching program here: https://www.neurosomaticintelligence.com/?utm_medium=aff-traumarewired&utm_content&utm_source

     

    Connect with us on social media:

    @trauma.rewired

     

    Join the Trauma Rewired Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/761101225132846

    Head to https://calendly.com/traumarewired/consultation for a consultation to identify trauma responses in your own life and learn how to train your nervous system to move out of behaviors that aren’t serving you!

     

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    Misattunement & Co-regulation

    Misattunement & Co-regulation

    One thing you’ve probably heard over and over again on this season of Trauma Rewired is that nervous systems affect one another. In fact, our nervous systems are continuously responding and adapting to each other’s signals — a process called coregulation.

    Coregulation is important for maintaining safe, healthy relationships but can have a negative impact on the nervous system when someone is dysregulated or experiencing misattunement. A lack of connection through coregulation also impacts our ability for emotional self-regulation, which can lead to maladaptive behaviors like drinking, binge eating and codependency.

    During this episode, Elisabeth and Jennifer define coregulation and attunement, and explain their role in self-regulation and emotional expression. They dive deeper into the importance of coregulation and the development of self-regulating behaviors in childhood, as well as the impact mothers, and even fathers, have on an infant’s stress response. Finally, you’ll hear how you can create change in your nervous system, and the positive results Elizabeth has noticed in her own life because of her own nervous system work.

    As Jennifer says in this episode, “knowledge is power when you put it into action.” So give this episode a listen now!

    Topics discussed in this episode:

     

    • What it looks like to have a regulated nervous system

    • Our definition of coregulation

    • How nervous systems impact each other and our ability to regulate

    • Coregulating with pets or nature

    • When we learn how to be self-regulators

    • The role of attunement for regulation

    • The effects of misattunement in childhood

    • Can your children inherit your trauma response?

    • How the body responds to stress and the HPA axis

    • Creating change and repatterning your nervous system

    • The influence of fathers on infant’s development

     

    Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer:

    https://www.rewiretrial.com

     

    Learn more about the Neuro-Somatic Intelligence Coaching program here: https://www.neurosomaticintelligence.com/?utm_medium=aff-traumarewired&utm_content&utm_source

     

    Connect with us on social media:

    @trauma.rewired

     

    Join the Trauma Rewired Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/761101225132846

    Head to https://calendly.com/traumarewired/consultation for a consultation to identify trauma responses in your own life and learn how to train your nervous system to move out of behaviors that aren’t serving you!

     

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    This episode was produced by Podcast Boutique https://www.podcastboutique.com

     

    Fawn & Sexual Fawn

    Fawn & Sexual Fawn

    The four trauma responses are the brain’s way of protecting us from threat, real or perceived. They are noncognitive, reflexive outputs that are deeply ingrained in those that have experienced trauma, which makes them incredibly difficult responses to rewire. In this episode, we explore the most dangerous F: fawn and sexual fawn response.

    To help us dive deeper into fawn response, we’re joined by Luis Mojica, somatics practitioner and the founder of Holistic Life Navigation. Hosts Jennifer and Elisabeth have personally learned a lot from his teachings, including how the nervous system responds to fawn and the body boundary violations that occur with sexual fawning.

    During this episode, Luis goes over the concept of over coupling, specifically how fear merges with intimacy and threat with arousal because of developmental sexual trauma. Luis also touches on the difference between threat and trigger, how the body can be traumatized sexually without the presence of assault, and MORE.

    Tune in to learn how you can let go of shame attached to fawn response, recognize your fawn patterns, and start to heal!

    Topics discussed in this episode:

     

    • The development of over coupling after developmental sexual trauma

    • Fawn response from a neurosomatic perspective

    • Shame as a protective mechanism and how to reframe it 

    • How to become self-aware of your fawning

    • Trigger versus threat

    • Differentiation between sexual fawning and arousal

    • Fawning and freeze as a hybrid response

    • Lying as a trauma response

    • Finding compassion during healing

    • Body boundary violations in sexual fawning

     

    Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer:

    https://www.rewiretrial.com

    Learn more about the Neuro-Somatic Intelligence Coaching program here: https://www.neurosomaticintelligence.com/?utm_medium=aff-traumarewired&utm_content&utm_source

     

    Connect with us on social media:

    @trauma.rewired

     

    Join the Trauma Rewired Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/761101225132846

    Head to https://calendly.com/traumarewired/consultation for a consultation to identify trauma responses in your own life and learn how to train your nervous system to move out of behaviors that aren’t serving you!

     

    Follow Luis Mojica on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/holistic.life.navigation/

     

    Sign up for the Holistic Life Navigation LIVE 6-week course with Luis at https://www.holisticlifenavigation.com!

     

     

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    Codependency

    Codependency

    If you have a pattern of staying in unbalanced, chaotic relationships, this episode is for you. If it’s hard for you to set boundaries with friends, family or romantic partners, this episode is for you. If you fixate on the emotions of others rather than your own, this episode is for you.

    These are all signs of codependency, which is the topic of this episode. Hosts Jennifer and Elisabeth discuss its negative effects on your emotional and physical health, the behaviors associated with codependency, and how they’re formed starting in childhood, diving deep into the attachment wound, our relationship with caregivers, and emotional self-regulation.

    Jennifer and Elisabeth also share examples of their own codependent relationships, and how they started to recognize their codependent tendencies and learn to change them.

    Tune in to gain a deep understanding of codependency and how you can break your codependency patterns!

    Topics discussed in this episode:

     

    • Codependence versus interdependence

    • What causes codependency and how it shapes our behaviors

    • Signs and symptoms of codependency

    • How trauma impacts emotional self-regulation

    • Breaking codependent patterns with nervous system regulation

     

    Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer:

    https://www.rewiretrial.com

    Learn more about the Neuro-Somatic Intelligence Coaching program here: https://www.neurosomaticintelligence.com/?utm_medium=aff-traumarewired&utm_content&utm_source

     

    Connect with us on social media:

    @trauma.rewired

     

    Join the Trauma Rewired Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/761101225132846

    Head to https://calendly.com/traumarewired/consultation for a consultation to identify trauma responses in your own life and learn how to train your nervous system to move out of behaviors that aren’t serving you!

     

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    This episode was produced by Podcast Boutique https://www.podcastboutique.com

     

    Embodiment is Scary AF

    Embodiment is Scary AF

    Embodiment has many different meanings, but to be embodied from a neurosomatic intelligence perspective relates to the integration of the body, mind and spirit. It means you are aware of the connection between your body and its internal sensations, your emotions, and your behaviors.

     

    Sharing her journey to embodiment and how she uses it in her work as a mindset coach is Tracy Litt, speaker and founder of The Litt Factor. Tracy is also a bestselling author and her new book, “Expander: For Trailblazing Women Building a New World,” outlines the damaging paradigms that hold us back and what we can do to replace them.

     

    In this episode, Tracy helps us look at embodiment through the lens of neurosomatic intelligence, including how it impacts our relationships, career, and health. You’ll learn more about dissociation, what keeps us from feeling and being in our bodies, and how emotional expression will transform your life.

     

    There is a natural fear to change and embodiment, but you have to remember that YOU are the creator of your own life. Tune in to find out how to start healing through nervous system work!

     

    Topics discussed in this episode:

     

    • What embodiment truly means

    • Embodiment as necessary for change

    • Our personal paths to embodiment

    • The importance of slowing down

    • What disconnects women to their bodies

    • The freedom of emotional expression

    • Training your nervous system to safely process emotions

    • How Tracy uses NSI tools to help clients

    • Tracy’s new book, Expander

    • What Tracy took away from the NSI Certification course

     

    Learn more about Tracy Litt and her company, The Litt Factor!
    www.thelittfactor.com

     

    Read Tracy’s FREE eBook, Expander: For Trailblazing Women Building a New World!

    https://www.theexpanderbook.com/

    Want to learn more about neurosomatic intelligence, and how it can help you and your clients? 

    https://www.neurosomaticintelligence.com/?utm_medium=aff-traumarewired&utm_content&utm_source

     

    Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer:

    https://www.rewiretrial.com

     Connect with us on social media:

    @trauma.rewired

    Join the Trauma Rewired Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/761101225132846

     

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    This episode was produced by Podcast Boutique https://www.podcastboutique.com

     

    Setting & Receiving Boundaries

    Setting & Receiving Boundaries

    In order to talk about boundaries, we must first understand what they are and why they’re important. That’s why we start off this episode with a definition by somatic practitioner, Prentis Hemphill: “Boundaries are the distance at which I can love you and me simultaneously.”

    Joining hosts Jennifer and Elisabeth for a second time is Margy Feldhuhn, CEO of Interview Connections and neurosomatic intelligence coach. They’ll explore the role of boundaries in our lives, including how they open the door for authentic self-expression and deeper relationships. 

     

    You’ll also learn more about codependency, fawn response, the neuroscience of emotions, how boundaries cause disease, and the connection between attachment and the ability to set and respect boundaries.

     

    Tune in as we dive deeper into boundaries, and find out how you can use NSI tools to feel safe enough to discover and express your boundaries!

     

    Topics discussed in this episode:

     

    • Why boundaries are so important

    • Boundaries and our need for connection versus autonomy

    • How the 3 F’s lead to self-abandonment and lack of boundaries

    • Self-expression and authenticity

    • What leads to codependency

    • Margy’s experience with quiet manipulation

    • Cultural body boundary violations

    • The neuroscience of emotions and emotional processing

    • Respecting other people’s boundaries

    • The impact of emotional neglect on our ability to set/receive boundaries

    • How boundaries affect our emotional and physical healthy

    • Using neurosomatic tools to move stress through the body

     

    Get more information on Margy Feldhoun’s company, Interview Connections, here: https://interviewconnections.com
     

    Connect with Margy: 

    https://www.instagram.com/heymargy/
    https://www.tiktok.com/@heymargy

     

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